I care very much for my boyfriend and I love him butt the desire and afftection is long gone. We're very comfortable you can say. I miss...and need affection, excitement and fun. I'm 36 and my clock is ticking. I dont want to hurt him and I'm scared to leave.
Whats the b est way to do this?
2006-11-02 06:38:36 · 9 answers · asked by tinalovesmusic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should try counseling first if you still love him.
2006-11-02 06:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving your partner after being 7 years together is bound to hurt him and you no matter how you do it.
And you have to realize that at 36 years of age, finding another single man won't be so easy for you. Most men of your age are either married or divorced. And many of those who are divorced are still partly responsible for raising kids from their previous marriages.
Perhaps you should try to fix your relationship with your present boyfriend and get married to him.
The grass always looks greener on the other side. But when you get there, you often find that it's not any better than what you've had before.
2006-11-02 14:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the door and go. IF you have put more to the relationship, OPEN the door and tell him to walk out of it.
Try a seperation for awhile. DO you have the 7 year itch?
OK your clock is ticking..........then you know what you want, so go get it.
2006-11-02 14:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what your feeling and if that doesn't work, ask him to go to couples counseling and if that doesn't go over will with him or you feel the counseling isn't working for both of you then I am sorry to say it's time to say Goodbye and get on with your lives!!!
2006-11-02 14:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him know what you need. dont throw away your relationship. try new things. do new sexual positions. many women want what you have, a good man that loves them. if you feel that you might cheat you do need to leave him. try to work it out first. dont play with his heart.
2006-11-02 14:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by vandykeprincess06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie,
well i know you have to have your reasons why you want to leave him and noone can judge that. but if you still love him try counseling and see if that works if not than do what you have to do..
good luck
2006-11-02 14:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about tell him what you are missing before you decide to leave
2006-11-02 14:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo been there
Tell him you need to "live apart for while" get together as friends being honest.
We split up gradualy as we came to terms with how different we were
2006-11-02 14:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont seem to be sure of wht u exactly want. ask ur heart what it wants.........and always leason to ur heart.....ok?
2006-11-02 14:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by passionate_guy_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋