Why are girls only attracted to guys that treat them like crap? What is it about being treated badly that turns girls on? And it's obvious that they prefer those kind of guys. I see it all the time.
If you girls like to be treated like garbage, then don't complain when you are treated like trash.
2006-11-02 06:42:59 · 20 answers · asked by dan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes I think It must be to make nice guys feel stupid, but really it is probably a combination of two of the answers here. One being the hope of love changing the guy, and the other being low self esteem, or them feeling that they deserve such treatment.
shy&gental has a good point, and I might be wrong here, but I think that's another slightly different case of us guys screwing up.
2006-11-02 06:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Repub-lick'n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A number of different reasons; opposites attract, the attraction to the "bad boy", etc, etc. But I think the main reason would be that they have been in the relationship for so long that they don't know anything else. They have been used to being treated like crap for so long that they start to believe thats how it should be. I was in a relationship like that and nothing anyone could do or say would make me believe that I was in a terrible relationship. Its sad, but unfortunately the only way to realize that you can do better is to realize it yourself.. You just get so involved for so long that nothing anyone can say will affect you. You have to realize it yourself. I am in a relationship now where I am treated like a princess and it makes me wonder why I ever allowed myself to be treated like anything less than that in my previous relationship.
2006-11-02 06:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by trs_shortie9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to understand something here. Women don't prefer to be treated like trash and garbage. We work with what we have. Men in the begining come across sweet, caring, loving, protective, and soooooooooooooo into us. Its not until later that we see the REAL person that they are. We chose that guy because he came across as everything we wanted. Our hearts become involved and then we struggle with the letting go, or trying to hang in there for the man we KNOW we saw, but to admitt to ourselves that that MAN we saw doesn't exist is admitting that we were decieved. Men go through this too, with different women. I am sorry you feel the way you do. But I for one don't like being treated like trash and taken advantage and my love taken for granted. That is why I am single. And happy. :) Blessed be
2006-11-02 07:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont really prefer to b treated like crap but for most girls its not how they are being treated its just that since most girls are attracted to hot, popular guys those guys have a bunch of girls to choose from and dont really care how they treat them but since the girls want to be with them so much and like have a popular boyfriend they dont break up with them
2006-11-02 06:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by curiousgeorge972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking a question that men have been asking themselves for ages. I think women choose men who are bad for them because they think they can "change him if I just love him enough." This is fallacy and doomed to failure. I also think some girls want to be treated like property; they want to be told what to do and how to live their lives. These girls are sad cases and not worth your time in the long run. They are emotionally co-dependent and will become little more than a millstone around your neck if you take up with one. I advise you step quickly past and look for another girl.
2006-11-02 06:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only girls with a very low self-esteem that doesn't mind being treated like trash.
2006-11-02 07:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women (as well as men) who accept being treated like crap have no self-esteem. They see themselves as worthless and deserving of such lousy treatment. They're not used to anyone treating them well and don't know how to handle it.
Plus, if a womoan sees herself as worthless and a man treats her well she has to wonder what's wrong with HIM if he thinks she deserves being treated well. So she goes back to the jerk who treats her like crap because that's what she's comfortable with.
2006-11-02 06:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by wineboy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when im treated like trash... and i dump them the first time they try and pull that crap... but as for other girls... i dont get it either... i mean cmon who wants to be treated like someones possession raise ur hand?? lol
Good Luck and God Bless!!!
2006-11-02 06:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us are like that. I would not stay with someone who treated me like crap. I don't want any one to kiss my as* or any thing, but, I want them to be nice and treat me with respect.
2006-11-02 06:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girls that do like guys like that probably like them for 2 reasons:
1. fear (they feel like they can't get away)
2. they think that they aren't any good guys out there and that they can't do any better
Sad, but true.
2006-11-02 06:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋