i really fancy this guy but i dunno if he feels the same.ive known him for ages. i met him thru my ex boyfriend. i was with my ex boyf for 6 years. when i met this guy we got on really well & had so much in common. we swapped numbers as i was training in the same career as him & he would give me advice as its very difficult to get into. later, he kept asking me to meet him for drinks.i didnt agree to this i was in a relationship but he kept on. recently, i split from my boyf(not coz of this guy) & he still texts me on weekends, to meet up with him.i have since met up with him a few times, the first time being my birthday when i was very drunk. i ended up being sick around his flat.he was upset about this at first,which is understandable, but later was OK with it.i have only kissed this guy.he always compliments me.does he like me?why hasnt he asked me out on a proper date?why does he only text me on weekends to meet up?we do live in different towns. is he a player?
2006-11-02 06:45:06 · 28 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2006-11-02 06:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys, and I will include myself in this just so you know where I am coming from, are quite shy when they first get to know someone. If you have known him for some time, and he is still trying to spend time with you, it is more likely that he likes you, I would say. If he was just after sex, he would probably have lost interest pretty quickly.
Is this guy pretty confident with other people (girls in particular)? That can be a good way of working out if he is shy or not.
I guess the best way to find out (if u like him that is) is to ask him out on a date, rather than waiting for him to make the move, and take it from there.
2006-11-02 06:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nick E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you, but if the weekend rolls around and he has nothing better to do, he'll text you to see if you'll get drunk enough to sleep with him this time. He hasn't asked you on a proper date because he's not interested in dating you.
He only text messages you because he's not interested in talking to you.
He compliments you hoping you'll think it "means something" and get into bed with him.
If I told you "I love the way you phrase a question- you're very talented"- does it mean anything to you?
2006-11-02 06:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. The only way you'll find out what you want to know is to ask the person concerned otherwise you'll just have more theories and no answers. You can be casual about it, 'i was just wondering where we're going with this' or 'so how come you're so keen to see me on the weekends' sort of thing.
2006-11-02 06:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by seaside_girl_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he texts you on weekends since that is the only time he can see you. Have you shown much interest in him? Is he still friends with your ex?
2006-11-02 06:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soundz like 2 me he jst wantz 2 use u 4 sex if he wanted more than dat he would text ya all da time 2 meet up n stuff if i was u i would tell him where 2 go
2006-11-02 07:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush urself, just give the guy sometime to ask u on a proper date. Maybe he's working on that.
2006-11-02 06:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does sound like a player - i wouldn't sleep with him if i was you - similar to a guy i semi-dated - you can remain friends with him if you want to - i did that with my player - didn't sleep with him cause i had the same question as you, but we still talk - we actually swap dating stories & the more i listen to his escapades the more thankful i am that i did not get sexually involved with him.
2006-11-02 06:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is busy all week, and doesn't want to drive to a different town all the time. It is obvious that he likes you. If you want him to do somehting with you during the week, perhaps you should call him. Why should he have to do all the work?
2006-11-02 06:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jon C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur being really paranoid he could be a nice guy who is just too busy to meet up during the week
2006-11-02 06:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know ,he could be ,,ask your ex boyfriend if that is just too arcquard for you,then mayby you shouold ask him out and see what he say if he sas no thats ok and iff he says yes ,,dont have sex on the first second,thord or fourth date
2006-11-02 06:49:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋