ive been seeing this boy secretly and no one knows but since no one knows this girl asked him out and he said yeah he tells me he wants to still be with me but hes with here what should i do i have strong feelings for him
2006-11-02 06:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by MushrooM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he can either be with her or you. It doesn't sound all that difficult to me. :) Why are you secretly seeing him in the first place? Was that your decision or his? If it was his decision and then he said he would see this other girl I would just get rid of him. No one needs that kind of stress. Let him know how you feel. tell him you have some strong feelings for him and that you don't want to be his behind the scenes girl, that you want to be front and center. If he has a problem with getting rid of the other girl to only be with you than he pretty much made the decision for you. Good Luck :)
2006-11-02 06:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by **hope/faith**1744 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secretly? If he liked you, you would be more than a booty call. Start dating too, see how he likes that. You never know maybe you will meet someone better.
2006-11-02 14:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by steelababi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a player and is two-timing you. You got played for a fool. Dump the chump and find yourself a cool guy. He doesn't respect you or like you. He should be proud to have u as his chick, none of this "secret relationship" business.
2006-11-02 14:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by GK2006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him he obviously doesn't feel the same way and if u stick around cause u love him or sth then make him jealous with some guy ... however both ways ur going 2 get hurt so leave now that it is early!!!!!!!!
2006-11-02 14:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by angelcarrot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really liked you he would not be going out with other girls. i say to stay away from him for a little while because if he really likes you he will start missing you and want to change to make things work with you to. good luck =}
2006-11-02 14:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate that basically get over him seriously no harm but he sees you as not a serious girl to be with and any guy that sees you like that doesn't deserve to be with you. you can do better.
2006-11-02 14:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by penut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no no no no hun dont cuz that shows u no matter wat hell cheat on u and if ur with him he should have said im sryy im talking to sum one trust me forget about him now be4 it goes to far and u get really hurt u should alway have a back up guy and who ever wants to get serious first is ok
2006-11-02 14:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its secretly then hes probably ashamed of u(sorry)...i mean c'mon y would he say yes to that other girl when he is "with u"
2006-11-02 14:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweety... are you sleeping with him? if you are... and no one knows.. its because you are a booty call.. a person who he goes to just for sex. you will always be that way since you started out that way. think about it.. the relationship is secret because.....?
yep.. booty call.
2006-11-02 14:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋