Ok so the other night my bf and his buddy were drinking in the living room of MY house. I had to work the next morning so I went to bed. I couldn't sleep because they were so loud and intoxicated. My bf was trying to find someone to have s** with his buddy and then he started talking bout all the girls he has had sex with and how they did it and who was better and he's done it with more then one at a time. I mean I know he's had sex he has kids but I don't want to know the details I just want to forget about anyone else every touching him. I asked him if he wants to know the details of my previous sex acts he said no. Then why do I have to hear about his. He coulda atleast said it quietly or not in my house! Does anyone agree with me??
2006-11-02 06:32:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeh I would be p*ssed enough to kick his a** out of the house!
2006-11-02 06:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have every right to be pissed off. I mean as a man I am not stupid in thinking I have the biggest thing my wife has ever had the pleasure of enjoying, but she does not let me know, as that would really piss me off, u know us guys and are penis issues. So the fact he was gloating about it, gives u every write to be pissed, and maybe throw in a " What u want to hear about some of the really great times I've had" boy that would get the little hamster wheels a running, I guarantee it would pull out an apology
2006-11-02 14:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by erker34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're very much in the right!
I wouldn't want to hear his trash talk either. He was being an irresponsible, immature jerk who can't hold his liquor or tongue! I would have kicked the two of them to the curb to get some sleep. He should have had more respect for you and not gotten drunk or loud about his "conquests"!! Men all share the same brain!! And there's very few brain cells that they all have to share. With knowing that now, do you see why he was so stupid?!
2006-11-02 14:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by yokrem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY !!!! He showed NO respect for you at all !!!! I hope you set him straight. Everyone has a past...but to brag about it when you are in a relationship with someone else, shows to respect or class.
I would be having a long talk with this guy and let him know that I expected and deserved more. And if he cared at all for me, he better be a little more careful how he speaks and acts in my home. He needs to grow up...bragging about his past sex life is childish and immature.
Good Luck !!!!
2006-11-02 14:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was totally out of line for having that conversation in your home. That was disrespectful to say the least. He should have had the courtesy to not entertain a guest in your home while you were resting for work. If he wanted to indulge in "bar room talk" with his buddy that is where you should have sent them.
2006-11-02 14:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He rly isnt that nice. >=(
If he didnt drink in the first place, all this wouldnt happen!!! If he drinks alot (like evry night) he might have a problem, the solution: AA.
Now, I would be SUPER p*ssed at his sry @$$. -.- (Pardon me =/)
but rly, if he keeps this up, then he AINT for you, dump him and move on girl!
Or if you start talking about it and he says that YOU were wrong, then he RLY RLY is insensitive and ISNT for you or any1 else, but if he wants to apologize, you could try putting in conditions like maybe never doing it agn? -.- At least at your place....anyways, good luck and I hope you can solve this with him.
2006-11-02 14:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by the_guardian_of_destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most deffently i think that was just a selfish thing to do so play his game pretent ur intoxicated and do the same j/k let him know that u were not happy of what he did or said was wrong then he will apologize and never say it agian out of respect
2006-11-02 14:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by wantme4me1313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 100% agree with you. I would be extremely ticked off if that has happend to me. You do not seem to be asking too much, your grown up enough to understand and except that he has had a past....they are going to talk about it but that does not need to be discussed within your ear shot.
2006-11-02 14:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by wintersimjp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. How about you and the girls have a party this weekend and you do the same thing? I bet that will shut him up.
2006-11-02 14:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree with you. If he is going to talk like that he should take it else where. He should respect you and your relationship. Liss
2006-11-02 14:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not too bright now is he! Maybe you should tell him to go have sex with one of those women for a while.
2006-11-02 14:45:41 · answer #11 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋