MY BOYFRIEND AND I SPLIT UP FOR A MONTH IN A HALF HE TOLD ME HE NEEDED TIME WE WERE LIVING TOGATHER FOR A YEAR HE SAID HE FELT TRAPPED SO I STOP CALLING HIM FOR THE WHOLE MONTH AND AFTER HE CALLED ME SAYING HE WANTED TO WORK THINGS OUT AND WE ARE BUT I AM SCARED CUZ HE HAS BEEN REAL NICE AND HE WASNT LIKE THAT BEFORE HE TAKES ME OUT DINE'S ME .DO YOU THINK HE DID SOMETHING BETWEEN THE BREAK?
2006-11-02 06:30:09 · 23 answers · asked by wantme4me1313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he souldnt have..... your hot!
2006-11-02 06:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by HA HA 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are really insecure, dear. Even if he did, you were split up for a month. There are no stipulations in a break up. You can't expect him to not see anyone 'just in case' you 'might' get back together. Maybe he's being nice to you because he realizes he has a good thing and is treating you with respect. Your relationship will not last if you are always suspecting him or he is suspecting you of something.
2006-11-02 14:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove the suspicion from your mind. If you do not, it will destroy you again.
What he did is none of your concern. You were on "break" so technically you wer not together. He could have painted the town twice over, and you cannot technically be even upset about it.
Your obvious need for physical and mental devotion for him is a sign that you are rather "needy" and may stick to him so hard he finds it hard to breath. Work on that self esteem, relax a bit and give him some room. You both will be happier that way.
Otherwise, good luck. Remember, BANISH that thought, or you will fail in your endeavor.
2006-11-02 14:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say he did anything but maybe he realize that he does want to be you, and he's just trying to make up for that month that you were separated. Then on the other hand maybe he did something and feels guilty about it and is trying to make it up. So I guess there is two views that you can look at. What you should do is just ask him straight up, and I'm pretty sure you can tell if he's lying or not. But if he loves you and he probably doesn't want to hurt you, he should tell you the truth no matter what. I hope what I said can kinda help you out. Good luck with your relationship!
2006-11-02 14:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible that he did do something. But, in all fairness you were on a break. What should matter to you now is the fact that he is treating better. Maybe the time away from you made him realize that he cares for you more than he thought. Don't ask him about your time apart because you are going to plant seeds of doubt in your own mind.
2006-11-02 14:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably he did. The two of you were separated, right? He behaved as as a freelance independent. He did as he pleased and thus regardless didn't cheat. You are suffocating him. Stop the endless what-ifs and just relax and enjoy. Otherwise, you are a curse to him and yourself. It's just going to be misery and heart ache. Maybe a little weed will take the edge off?
2006-11-02 20:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he did, it doesn't matter. Enjoy him being nice. He could be really sincere. He's with you, so what's the problem now?
He needed time to sort out his feelings, whats wrong with that? Girl, lol!!! That's all I have to say. Ok.. So if we would have came back acting like a jerk, you've been cool with that. He's trying to get back right with you. Just hush and enjoy the ride.
2006-11-02 14:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by gloried 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about?
He is being nice to me when he tells me he wants to work it out, so therefore he must have had a relationship during the time we were apart.
Does that seem rational to you?
2006-11-02 14:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..the only way to know for sure is ask him. If he's honest he will tell you. If not then you may never know, but what it comes down to is Do you love him enough to accept the fact that it is possible? If not, you will only drive yourself nuts worrying about it and in the end, it will probably affect your relationship. Hope this helps.
2006-11-02 14:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Candice C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What if he did? You guys were taking a break! Enjoy him being nice and quit worrying about the whys!
2006-11-02 14:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What he did while you were split up is none of your business. It's what he does now and in the future that you need to be concerned about.
2006-11-02 14:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋