Singles & Dating - 18 October 2006

I have been living with my boyfriend of five years for three years now. We work for the apartments and don't have to pay rent and we both work other jobs.(We could lose this job and an apartment at anytime) He would rather move in with his father than try to get another place with me. I feel if you truly love someone wouldn't you do anything to keep things together? Things have been good between us, but I don't understand why he wouldn't want to try to get another place. ( I take care of everything in our home) I wouldn't have a place to go if we lose our apartment, but I would make sure I do what it takes to live on my own. Does he care anymore.. If he really loves me why wouldn't he try??? We both make enought of money to have another place and pay the bills, I just don't understand! Help

2006-10-18 18:16:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a female and I work and go to college. In my senior year, and I always thought that once you reach a cetain age you stop getting crushes on people. Well, there is this guy at my job I am seriously crushing on. I have been working there for about 2 years, but he just recently started working there. I think he may be interested, but I am way too shy to actually find out. I actually almost asked him if he was also interested, but at the last moment I lost my nerve. I feel really bad now, because I have kinda avoided him lately and we used to be very friendly with one another. So how should I get over this guy? Usually after I tell a guy, if he says he is not interested then my crush soon disappears, but I can't even get up the nerve to express myself this time. I think the fact that he works with me is the reason I have held back. Anyway, what should I do? If nothing else, I would at least like to go back to having nice conversations with him.

2006-10-18 18:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kit 2

had a boy friend already, we are together about 7 years. among these 7 years even there are some guys want to with me. but i reject all, i never betray him in these 7 years, after 7 years. why i always want to be someone else, there is a guy crush on me again, i liked him too. i really want to make a move, but i still considering.........my BF he is still not romance, it seems doesn't care my feeling............. why i with somebody, but i still (love) someone else.

2006-10-18 18:09:17 · 11 answers · asked by cecilia 2

My girlfriend and I have been off and on for 2 years. Right now we are on. I've broken up with her maybe two times because she is just plain mean. But I always find myself wanting her back, because I love her a lot, and I know she loves me. But tonight was a great example of her being mean. She flipped out on me because I wanted to go to a volleyball game with her and her friend. She was just like "Oh, okay. I'll just ditch my friends like I always do and go with you and not Alishia (her friend)." And I was like "Um, why can't we all go together?" And she had no good reason why we all couldn't go together other than Alishia doesn't have a boyfriend to go with. Which I understand, but it's no reason to flip out like she did. But I told her "Listen to yourself! You are being a *****! Why can't you be nice anymore?" And she started crying and she said she can't date me because she doesn't treat me like I should be treated. So I asked her if she was breaking up with me...

2006-10-18 18:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2

ok me and my boyfriend broke up and he wont talk to me but i called him and talk to him today and he said that i told my friends to talk about him and i didnt how can i make him beleive me.....i hurt him during our relationship and i dont know how to tell him im sorry.....i would love to go back out with him but he tells me he doesnt want to get hurt again....i dont want to hurt him again we have a kid together...what can i do? what can i tell him....im suppose to go back down where he lives soon....what can i say when i see him? plz help and plz no smart remarks......i need some real help and i think everyone that helps me out just a little bit....

2006-10-18 18:06:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. I have 2 classes which i sit close to him. he lets me look at his work when i need help, but he teases me when he does tat, by puting his hand over it but then when i look at him in the eyes he's like fine and lets me see. He also pokes me and sits next to me whenever he can, like when the person that usually sits next to me goes outside cuz they go in trouble or something. Then he helps me get my text books and papers and always smiles at me, but on msn he sometimes talks to me like asking what for homework, but the problem is that, he doesnt say bye and stuff when he leaves, and sometimes he doesnt reply back. im so confused. and on msn i always think of a topic he just doesnt always reply back. im so confused
thanks for your answer, and please dont say ask him, i dont want to wreck the friendship we have now.
thanks

2006-10-18 18:04:30 · 8 answers · asked by Meow~ 4

I would have to mail it to her and apparently gold and silver arent allowed ...

2006-10-18 18:03:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 18:03:00 · 1 answers · asked by JESSIE 3

2006-10-18 18:00:00 · 10 answers · asked by eleshiak 2

2006-10-18 17:59:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend who not only has an std ... but shes dating a man who is clean .hes a good guy and i feel i should warn him ,but i dont want my friend mad at me because she feels theres nothing wrong with it. and that he should be the one to say to use a condom ,if he was worried . where i say that you should tell him and let him decide if he still wants to be there .help soon they hook up on friday.

2006-10-18 17:19:50 · 8 answers · asked by tiffanyh2323 3

Can anyone share their experience? Are some men afraid you'll enjoy being with the woman more than with them?

2006-10-18 17:19:09 · 20 answers · asked by anneboz 2

I have been alone for so long. I am a single mom and would love to have a partner, someone to share with, someone to appreciate me. But, I don't know how.

2006-10-18 17:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by nursejuley 1

I'm a successful middle aged professional man trying to decide between a trophy wife or just sticking with conventional whores. It seems to me that whores are cheaper, plus you get a lot more variety, so why do so many men opt for trophy wives?

2006-10-18 17:16:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend that I have been with almost a year gave me a gorgeous ring. He says it is more than a promise ring but it is not my engagement ring. So what does the ring mean? He says one day we will get married, but this just not the right time. Why do men have to be so complicated in these matters?

2006-10-18 17:14:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 17:14:11 · 20 answers · asked by hey-hey 1

Mine would be the small of my back...

2006-10-18 17:12:34 · 8 answers · asked by Emery 1

I am in love with this guy, and he says that he loves me but I don't kn ow whether or not he is just using me or does he really love me for real. I have been messing with him for 5 months we have had our share of ups and downs, but most of the downs were his fault, but anyway I found out thst he was messing around with this girl and he says he is not but when I asked her she said that they were. He tells me all the time that he doesn't mess with her or like her I don't know what to believe. Well, the reason I think that he may just be using me is because number one he is paralyzed from the waist down and he still lives at home with his mother and I do anyhting to help him out there is no limit to what I would do for him but I strongly believe that he is taking advantage of me because he thinks that I am so nice and naive. I keep giving him chances and he keeps messing up, I told him that I never wanted to see that girl at his house ever again and today when I came home I saw her.

2006-10-18 17:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by mcqmnc329 2

if i was dating a guy off and on for two yrs, and i decided to break up with him because he doesnt treat me right and doesnt act like he care. and if he finds out another guy is at my house and that i changed my number, what do you think he might do? he did tell me he knows where i stay and that if someone is there they will have to leave. but he has never popped up at my home before and he is not the violent type. so do you think he was just playing with me ? or do you think he will try and get back with me once he sees that i dont care anymore? he is use to me going back to him and taking him back. so this will be a first time change up on him. what do you think?

2006-10-18 17:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

2006-10-18 17:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by coastie 4

A guy who loves his girl Friend. Would do anything for her..buys her nice things, cares for her at all tyms, esp when she's emotionally down..( like coming down in an exam or arguments with parents...stress etc.)he even pays her phone bills, travelling and all that...and doesnt expect much in return...he loves her for who she is...never trying to change her...

but after the 1st anniversary or so...he changed a bit in a bad way.like he got a a bit jealous and then was over protective and was a bit harsh on her...( ALL THIS BAD STUFF ARE IN ADDITION TO HIS "GOOD" QUALITIES) he has even asked this gal in marriage...

HE HAS ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE SEX INSPITE OF THIS GAL TELLING HIM THAT SHE WANTS TO REMAIN A VIRGIN UNTIL MARRIAGE...HE HAS EVEN TRIED TO DO IT...

WHT DOES ALL THIS TELL ABT THIS GUY?

2006-10-18 17:09:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 17:08:55 · 10 answers · asked by greg J 1

I MET THIS GUY ONLINE LIKE A YEAR AGO. WE TALKED ON A REGULAR BASIS FOR A WHILE, ONLINE. JUST RECENTLY I STARTED TO TALK TO HIM ON THE PHONE. I REALLY LIKE HIM AND HE IS A GENUINE GUY. I MAY HAVE MADE UP A FEW LIES ABOUT MYSELF AT THE BEGINNING BECAUSE I NEVER REALLY THOUGHT HE WOULD BE SOMEONE I COULD SEE MYSELF MEETING. NOW I WANT TO MEET HIM. I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM I LIED IN THE VERY BEGINNING ABOUT A FEW THINGS. IM AFRAID HE WILL BE UPSET AND NOT WANNA TALK ANYMORE. I SHOWED HIM A FAKE PICTURE AND I DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HIM. IM NOT AFRAID I WONT BE WHAT HE WANTS BUT IM AFRAID OF HIS REACTION. PLEASE TELL ME IF I SHOULD JUST GIVE UP OR BE HONEST. I FEEL SO BAD. I DIDNT THINK AT FIRST IT WOULD EVER BE LIKE THIS, I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST CHATTING ONLINE! NOW I HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM...PLEASE HELP ME! THANKYOU

2006-10-18 17:08:07 · 5 answers · asked by DENAYA B 1

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2006-10-18 17:05:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

That blows my mind!

2006-10-18 17:05:41 · 24 answers · asked by Paul S 2

1. Is there a difference b/n french kissing and making-out kissing?
2.So far, my girlfriend and i, we'r up to kissing, but wats next, kuz im kinda bored of just kissing, like whats the next step?
3.How do u carry out the next step?
4.Be reasonable witht hte fact that we're 13/14 years old, so dunt say sex is the next step.

2006-10-18 17:04:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-18 17:04:42 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3

Planning a special day for me and my fiancee.. does anyone have any good ideas of what to do .. and Im tired of just movies and dinner. ... something romantic and fun..

2006-10-18 17:04:16 · 3 answers · asked by xoxocindysxoxo 2

I have been seeing a man for 3 weekes now everything was going great until i heard that he was looking at other women and supposely trying to get envolved with them i dont understand it he said he really liked me, but i dont know i just want this question to be answered

2006-10-18 17:03:45 · 28 answers · asked by watermelonlvr 1

I'm an asian bifemale and I was wondering why i tend to be attracted to white girls mostly. I came up with some asumptions, most blacks that i've liked really wanted to date blacks only, and hispanic girls tend to date with their own race/nationality too. I think its harder to find other Asian bifemales b/c there's not a lage asian population in where i live. So do u think my preference for white girls has to do with the fact of my past experiences...n not b/c of their pyshical attributes?

2006-10-18 17:03:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous