Other - Family & Relationships - 24 November 2007

We're in our early 20's and my boyfriend won't have sex with me. He says he doesn't want to have a kid and that not having sex is 100% the best birth control. He also has had a bad experience with sexual abuse recently. I don't know what to do because it doesn't turn me on when we do anything sexual (unless i'm doing it to him)--when it's my turm i feel like i'm getting a checkup at the gynocologist. I love him and won't leave him but i'm sexually frustrated. We've been together for a year. Am I selfish? Of course, I'll wait for him but he gets pissed when i bring it up. Any advice?

2007-11-24 23:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-24 22:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by A's 1

i have dated my boyfriend for 4 years we live together , and have a 7 month old old daughter
but i have changed and its hurting him , he feels like he cant trust me , and sometimes
he acts out for no reson thinking i am trying to leave him when its the the oppisite
i tell guys i am not avavilable and he see's i am out flaunting and inviting new company
i have never given him a reason to think i would cheat or stray from our releationship
but for the sake of my daughter i have to end this . its hard to be someone your proud of when no one eles around you thinks your worth squat .
i cant teach my daughter that this is how life is spose to be

2007-11-24 20:27:42 · 1 answers · asked by vainme20 1

Have you ever accepted Jesus in into your heart? I would like to give you the opportunity to do this-Pray something like this

God , you loved me so much that you sent you son to die for my sins so that i can have eternal life, and not have to experience enternity in hell. There is nothing I can do to earn salvation. I believe and confess with my mouth that Jesus Christ is Your son, the savior of the world. I believe that he died for my sins, paying for the price of them all. I believe that you raised him from the dead, and he is alive today. I am a sinner and i ask you to forgive me. By faith i receive Jesus Christ now, as my Lord and Savior and I will spend eternity with you-thank you Lord-In Jesus' name amen.

2007-11-24 19:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by dawn 1

2007-11-24 18:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda M 1

2007-11-24 18:06:15 · 3 answers · asked by misty p 2

If you like a guy and he found out that you like him and he started to like you back but he didnt do anything?

2007-11-24 17:57:06 · 3 answers · asked by holl_cp 1

Well, I had a premature baby and my fiance and I are currently staying in a place near the hospital that our baby is in and lately I've just felt really distant from my fiance. Shouldn't I be feeling closer to him while we go through this experience? It's just so difficult to not have someone to talk to about things and how I feel personally. Sure, I talk to him and tell him how I feel...but I know he doesn't fully understand all of the emotions I'm feeling. Plus, we've been getting at eachother's throats and I'm just feeling so sensitive to everything and when I feel like I'm going to burst into tears, I just go into the bathroom. I don't want him to think that I'm "being a baby" or that that I'm "being sensitive".

Aside from all of that...I feel EXTREMELY unattractive right now. Especially since we can't have sex for about another 5 weeks. Plus, I have no sex drive and he does. And, I just feel really bad...I just don't know how to handle all of this. I'm so overwhelmed. Advice?

2007-11-24 17:48:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

or any one eles that has that last name that might be related? I'm not a 100% thats how to spell the last name, but its close

2007-11-24 14:55:15 · 2 answers · asked by lee b 2

Ok. so I have this hot teacher (female) and whenever she comes to me, my penis gets erect. She has started to notice and now she does things(touch her thighs, stick out her boobs, etc.) to turn me on.Her boobs are big, maybe C. One day, after class, she told me she wanted sex. I think shes sexy and all but this has gone too far. What should I do?

2007-11-24 14:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

im really struggling with going on..i feel like i have nothing to live for anymore. i just recently lost my boyfriend. he was my everything and now that he is gone i feel like i have no point in life. i just feel lost without him and would like to kno how other ppl have dealt with losing someone they love...im so lost...=[[..also how do you kno when its the rite time to move on..like when its time to start seein other people.

2007-11-24 14:15:36 · 3 answers · asked by muzikl0ver143 2

2007-11-24 13:05:13 · 35 answers · asked by pizza192002 3

ok i have school on monday i am going to get beat up in frot of the howl grade after school just because i stiked up for aeson she is a girl who everyone hates.she never talks barley eats always crys and i thought i did a good thing but i didnt.if i get hurt i will die and madison wants to kill me and my best friends hate me now!!!HELP!!

2007-11-24 12:59:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean crap, tampons, etc. All around the floor around toilet.

2007-11-24 12:42:48 · 19 answers · asked by Sunny Days 1

I am extremely introverted, so severe that my wife thinks I am sick? I personally see nothing is wrong, and attempt to socialize for my wife's benefit, which does appease her. However, given the chance, I would prefer solitude to a party any day. This is absolute opposite of every other member of my biological family who are all socialites. I do not even want to go see them half the time. Is it wrong to be this way? Should I change?

2007-11-24 12:18:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you want to do? which path should you choose? should you start finding a job or study more? should you choose a job that you really love or the one that offers you more money? should you choose the man who loves you or the man you love?

i feel lost.. how do you deal with that? and, actually, do YOU deal with that, or just leave them to be solved later?

2007-11-24 10:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by monica 2

Every day I look forward to the day when I move in with my man after high school. I love his chocolate butt so much. :) He is truly my everything. Weve been together for 2 years now. And leaving my parents to be with im sounds so wonderful but do you think that I dont know what i'm getting myself into or...And another thing is my dad whom I live with...doesnt want me going. But imma go anyways. Which means if he doesnt sign my financial aid form for college imma have to work for a year to save money for it.....I'm goin either way it goes....what do u think???

2007-11-24 09:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im in my forties, yet I have huge temper-tantrums, mainly when Im alone and on the party lines. For those of you who are new, the party lines are where you call and try to meet people. I often record a greeting and then wait for messages. When an hour has passed and Ive gotten little to no messages, I begin to scream obcenities at the phone. I often scream "NOOOO!!!!!!" and start literally crying my eyes out. I will shout "Dammit, come on! Why am I not getting any messages?!" And slam my hands down on the desk. My neighbors have complained repeatledly about my loud noises in the apartment.

My question is- Why am I only having these childlike tantrums on the party line? In real life Im fine- I dont have fits a lot. But alone in my bedroom on the phone- if no one hits me up, I begin screaming and bawling my eyes out. I even threatened to kill myself- and over a party line! Why am I doing this?

2007-11-24 09:44:01 · 6 answers · asked by Gail R 1

Please I need advice. Please no mean responses. If you have to be mean or funny please don't respond. My mother has lung cancer. She is very sick and weak. It is only me, her and my aunt which is her sister. I have 2 children 8 years, and 8 months. My mom currently lives with me in my tiny, crowded 2 bedroom apartment, while my aunt has a 3 bedroom house (about to be 4 bedrooms because she is remodeling). I need help. How can I get my aunt to help me? My aunt knows that my mom is down and out and wont help at all. I have no money, or resources. I go to school full time and work part time at a convenience store. I looked into hospice but they say she needs a primary doctor and I can't find a doctor to accept her insurance (medicare) and pay fully for the services. Basically, my question is how can I get my aunt to help me out? She wont even offer. She claims that she cares but thats all she ever says. How can I handle this situation even if I can't get her help?

2007-11-24 09:41:52 · 3 answers · asked by lwomar 5

2007-11-24 08:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a funk and jsut want to sit in my room and listten to sad sappy music....some ideas please and thank you! Person with most ideas gets best answer

2007-11-24 08:23:42 · 5 answers · asked by Violin2 4

my son and daughter want jobs but do not fancy paper rounds. what other kind of jobs can kids that age do?

2007-11-24 08:19:52 · 34 answers · asked by thuddie 3

I have been through a abusive relationship and i have met a 27yr old man, who is wonderful so far. I am I being to close nit if i dont open my heart right away? before him i was abused by sons dad since Hs. This man just seems too good too be true! Is that wrong thinking?

2007-11-24 06:47:12 · 27 answers · asked by shonna.mccarty 1

What reasons could a woman have for avoiding phoning a work colleague? The woman failed deliberately avoiding returning a call from a male colleague. I KNOW she does not dislike him and they have not had an argument etc

So why did she get someone else to mkae the call for her?

Is it likely she likes the male colleague as if she had no feelings for the male member there should be no reason to avoid making the call herself?

2007-11-24 04:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The age of consent in greece is 15. I'm 17,5 years old. If i have sex with a girl who is 22-23 years old. is it sexual abuse?

2007-11-24 04:38:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok me and my boyfriend have been going trough a really bad time lately he was blanking me all this week and being horable to me and snapping at me, first he said it was because i was hanging around with someone he did not like, then he said it was because he had been fighting with his dad (ok i understand fighting with his dad may make him feel like that BUT IT WAS ONLY WITH ME HES FINE WITH EVERYONE ELSE) he says he loves me when he texts me so hes not going to dump me or is cheating or anything (trust me he would tell me and wouldn't say i love you) but today he went off it with me on the way back from dinner for no reason and said he diddent care about me 2 times then when i walked away said something like i dont care again (this really really hurt me and i was crying for about 2 hours) i have text him tonight and told him that he really hurt me (and he knows he did because all my friends where asking him what was wrong with me) and he has not text back !

2007-11-24 04:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by anna_smith_07 1

My parents and I have never got along, and it's gotten really bad, my dad says I need to move out. I don't have a car. and I need the money they get from the city of hampton to be able to move out and get a car. I want to keep going to school. will they give me the money??? I need help. I'm desprete

2007-11-24 04:22:14 · 17 answers · asked by Stephanie E 1

My cousin just came down here to my house a few days ago, ever since he has been here, my older brother has been teamin up on me and has been like kickin me and stuff like that please tell me what i need to do!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-24 03:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by Country Grl :P 1

ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? will he get punish for this?

2007-11-24 03:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by rhea 1

Well, this has just been eating me alive, my friend who I known for two years all of a sudden tells me that she has feeling’s for me, that she has been falling for me more and more. I was kind of thrilled since I felt attracted to her but only saw her as a good friend, but then again devastated, because she say’s she wants to give it time, she want’s to be sure and does not want to rush right in to it now that I know. See the problem is that she told me this a while ago and will talk about it once in a while when we hangout, text, or talk in the phone, and I been falling for her more and more and it bites! I wish that she would not of told me at all until she was really sure about it, but she already told me and I just want to distance my self from her afraid that such a special person like her will break my heart and afterwards will just become apart and our relationship as friends will never be the same. There is the possibility that nothing may come out of this, and that’s what bother’s me, I really see now how much I really like this girl, and I would just wish to stop thinking of her, at times I don’t want to even talk to her because I get so caught up thinking about her that it hurt’s if you know what I mean. She worries that I will break her heart since she had been going out with some guy for a while and he left her for another girl about a year ago. And she is scared that I would do the same and leave her if she gives me all of her heart she say’s. She has said that she really likes me for how I treat her and talk to her, that I am a very different guy and very mature and she like’s me for me, and that she hope’s that I don’t change when I am with her. But I already talked about it and assure her that I would not do such a thing to her, that I would not play with her feeling’s and I am who I am, why would I want to change, she knows my flaw’s as I do hers, we talked about everything, she is the only person that I can tell anything too, and she tells me everything as well. I been in a serious relationship before of three years and the girl left me for my bestfriend, so we been threw the same situation, so I know where she is coming from. I don’t know, I am so confused and scared at the same time, has this happen to any of you guy’s? And if so, what happen, and girls, give me some advised that may help me, you know how we guy’s can be so ignorant when it comes to women! Thanks! All of your answers will be highly appreciated!

2007-11-24 00:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Bryan 3