Other - Family & Relationships - 23 November 2007

so my b/f and i have been together for almost 5 years on and off, and we have been on for 11 months now, the problem is.... although we have trust issues and im really nosy, i had just looked into his cell account and found he has been txting an old fling, now one problem with the account is that when i looked at the text messeges there were alot from her but the texts i have sent, a the exac times i sent them (i checked) didnt show, anyway i love him so much and i dont want to loose him and i know once i cnfront him he will blame me for lookng what do i do, believe the thing is cell account is flawed (bc it is somehow) and move on or confron him and probobly lose him or i dont know i am freaked out wha should i do????

2007-11-23 21:21:08 · 20 answers · asked by lanka 1

I have 2 younger sisters and an older brother. Both of my parents physically abuse us, and every day, at least one of us cries. They hit us for anything, test scores lower than a B, missing homework, spilling something, breaking something, and not obeying them. Anything they can reach they grab it and hit us with it, and if there's nothing, they use their fists and feet. They've used spatulas, drumsticks, metal trashcans, wooden sandals, stools, and countless others. They've left bruises on me that lasted weeks, and I've even told my friends, but they don't seem to care. At my high school, they give out folders with Child Abuse Hotlines, but my parents have threatened us that if they get arrested, we'll become orphans and live on the streets. They are "pastors," and they justify their actions with Proverbs 13:24, 22:15, and 23:13. Please, I know that you guys probably can't do anything to help, so I just want to know, is it true? Will we really just be left alone with no guardians?

2007-11-23 17:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by fwifg 2

My husband and I don't have a lot of time together. He works at night and sleeps all day. We spend the weekend doing things with other people, never alone. I was happy because I thought today we were going to be alone and go shopping together, but he has told some friends of ours to meet us where we were going, and we spent the day with them. I just want to spend time alone with my husband and son sometimes. He got up early this morning to go hunting, and so last night I only got about 15 minutes of his time (if you get me) and tonight our son fell asleep and I laid him down, and he was already going to bed. I told him that our son was asleep and that we could be alone, and he said "I'm going to bed, I'm going hunting in the morning again, and I need sleep" I was upset and said that all I wanted was a few minutes to sit together and talk, and he said "I'm GOING to bed" and did, then got mad because I got upset! Was I wrong for getting upset, when the weekends are the ONLY time we can

2007-11-23 17:15:36 · 6 answers · asked by ... 1

Behaviour of 50 year old men

2007-11-23 16:54:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok on Dr.Phil today they were talking about young Ladies and the fact that their clothing is a bit too revealing like you can see too much skin and um other areas of their body especially the crotch and crack (think Sharon Stone basic instinct) how much influence do these singers movie stars and actress's these kids look up to play in this if they dressed more modestly would the effect trickle down to the young kids?

2007-11-23 16:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by triton 4

hi, im a 38 year old woman. i have a younger cousin- shes 15. we were never very close until around last year, when she called me for advice, crying on the phone--we talked that day for over an hour, and since then, shes been calling me and emailing me, and when i see her, she always greets me with a big hug. i love that were close now, and i dont tell her mom anything she tells me, i keep everything between her and myself. i would just like to know if anyone else happened to just fall into the role of a mentor--why do you think she all of a sudden looks up to me this way?

2007-11-23 15:36:27 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous 2

2007-11-23 15:32:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im interested in buying a playboy magazine but i dont know where u can buy them? im also realy nervous to go in. what kinda stores besides porn shops can you find dirty magazines

2007-11-23 15:32:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys... I was hoping for some advice.
I'm 20 years old and my fiance is 45 years old. I'm also a few weeks away from giving birth. I'm so happy but my mother has been going to extreme lengths to break our engagement off because of the age difference. She has gone as far as to trying to get my fiance deported back to Russia (which didn’t work because he’s here legally). It’s getting ridiculous. I thought she would stop when she found out that we were expecting, but she didn't. I know that it's a lot for her to handle, it is a really huge age gap, I try so hard to be understanding, but I can't leave my fiance for her. I really don’t want to have to cut her out of my life… she *is* my mother, after all. But I don’t know what I can do to find a solution. I’m getting pretty desperate. Any suggestions, advice?

Thanks!

2007-11-23 15:22:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it true that for the 2day sales, they will be getting new shipments in for tommorrow?? Will they also get new shipments on the door-busters??

2007-11-23 15:20:15 · 1 answers · asked by MISS TT 3

Im wondering if a guy you fall in love with, who is the most sweet guy, and caring, and loving with you, can he be bad at sex? Just because hes kind of a nerd??

2007-11-23 14:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by nadie entendia mi nick asi que lo cambie 5

Hey! Just curious, what type of guys are YOU into? Punk, preppy, blondes, brunettes? Green eyes, brown eys, maybe even blue?
Come on, tell us, what is true? [to your heart that is!]

2007-11-23 14:44:49 · 26 answers · asked by Alexx 2

im a bit lost at the moment as i dont know what the deal is with my bf, we've been 2gther for about 20months now and ive grown very attached to him as hes everything i want, but we both finished uni exams yesterday and he went off on a boys trip down the coast for a surf this wkend. I find this a great problem as really shouldnt he want to see me first, then go surfing??? his reasoning was its 2 days and then i have him for 3 months and he needs to get out of his room as he was locked in there studying for the past 2 wks non stop. I think that if u truley love some1 u would want to be with them , right???? my mother agrees with me and she put all these ideas into my head now which has got me thinking , is he inlove, he says he loves me but i think theres a difference. Or is there a point u get when your in a relationship that u are comfortable to do as u please?? He has never ditched me for his mates before and he thinks if he wouldve stayed that means our relationship is unhealthy

2007-11-23 14:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my fiance this morning. We moved in together last April. He has this habit of going out to a friends house,getting **** faced not coming home till 4-5 am. I express my concern because he drives drunk when hes going to these so-called friends houses. We have argued about this many times. I recently told him, I don't feel like he's my best friend. He's a mamas boy and has a son he babies.(read past question) Last night was it for me. I cooked my butt off for Thanksgiving by myself. I was like a robot in that kitchen. The drinking started about noon. I admit..I had a few too. No matter, I listened to music and cooked away. He left with his friend around 9pm and didn't come home until after 5 am. I begged him not to go anywhere, after bringing his friend home.but he did. He never even ate any of my Thanksgiving food. My feelings were so hurt. He/ his son are moving back home to his mom and dad. I couldn't take it anymore..He/mom coming Sunday to pick up sons things for sch

2007-11-23 14:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by Misslady 1

My mom got her leg amputated about 1 1/2 months ago and last week the hospital called me and said to pick her up because she was being released (she has no home,car, or money,her husband left her few days before she got her leg amputated) So I said okay...thinking she would be able to get around because she told me she did real good with the walker.Anyway, I got her home and she is extremely immobile.She is about 270 pounds and I am a 160 pound woman with 2 kids, one 2 year old and one 4 month old.I had no idea what taking care of her would be like.She needs my FULL attention, and with 2 kids, its taking A LOT out of me.I CAN'T DO IT.She has fallen a few times and I strained my neck trying to pick her up...I have to help her go to the potty every time and she even had a bowel movement on my floor which I had to clean up.She has no medicaid and No other family.WHAT THE HELL DO I DO WITH HER.I am in tears, exhausted, drained and I don't want to break her heart but I just can't....

2007-11-23 13:59:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known my bf for about a year bt we've only been together for 2 months and he really doe love me. but the truth is i dont love him. and he is very clingy and because hes almost 3 years older he wants more out of a relationship than i do. i dont wanna hurt him but i have to let him go all this time i've neverr had the same feelings he has. what do i do?

2007-11-23 13:29:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 13:28:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend invited me to spend Christmas Eve with his family. This is the first time I'm meeting his parents. We're not officially dating, but people sort of assume we are, so I'm preparing to be introduced as his girlfriend. I'm nervous, because I'm naturally shy and don't say much in conversations. Normally I'll just sit back and watch, but I want to make a good impression because I'll probably be seeing a lot more of them. Any suggestions?

2007-11-23 13:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it painful and what hapens when the penis enters the vigina

2007-11-23 13:20:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 12:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by wertyu 1

well im in a relationshit and i been with this guy for 8 months now and i love him to death but the thing is i feel like he could be cheating on me i really feel like he could be but i cant prove it. our conversations are starting to become less and less we argue a lot and we broke up like two times in 1 day. i just dont know what it could be sometimes i feel like im just a sex partner what should i do?

2007-11-23 12:14:09 · 4 answers · asked by coolgurl 1

For example, I'm a Scorpio and according to the astrology, Cancer and Pisces would be most suitable for me. The two guys that I dated that were each a Cancer and Pisces proved to be the ones I had the strongest feelings for, but we didn't last. Now I'm with my husband who is a Tauras--and the one not recommended for me according to the astrology. We are different, sex is great, but the emotions I feel for him are not as powerful.

What has been your experience?

2007-11-23 12:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not seriously dating a guy.

We had an accident.

I am pregnant.

We haven't talked much. We haven't seen each other since the announcement.

Is this it forever or is there a small chance we'll be at least friends.

i am two months. i told him October 14th i was pregnant. i saw him twice (once was to drive me to the abortion clinic & once was for a quickie that i called for...)

2007-11-23 11:59:29 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4

The movies that girls go crazy over. Do you think these movies make guys too good to be true, or do you think it portrays you in most ways when you are in love with someone?

2007-11-23 11:53:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My temporary restraning order was granted!!! When I go for my court date to see how long it will be in effect, do I have to prove my case or it is it usually a given. I'm concerned my my sweet talken jerk of a husband is going to come in and think he can sweet talk the judge into thinking I'm a lier and drop the charges.

2007-11-23 11:19:58 · 2 answers · asked by strgmom 1

Ok... so ONE prob I have is that the guess wanna third the bill which is FINE! but! they have personal refrigerators on aside that we have a big one in the kitchen. I had one before we has to start paying PGE by ourself and I decided to remove mines being that I knew it would consume a lot of energy. I told them this fact and they decided to keep theirs, which is fine but they are not willing to put in their third plus a little extra; 5 dollars for their Mini fridge. do you think I'm wrong for asking them to pay extra and/or what should I do? Remind you... the bill is under my name! Thanks in advance!

2007-11-23 11:12:18 · 9 answers · asked by HyPhY c0llege GurL 2

would you want to live your life as a celebrity with all the girls and money?

would you want to be a famous athlete?

would you want to be in the Olympics and represent your nation and pride?

or would you die for the better cause of man?

is money fame and girls better than all this?

2007-11-23 11:08:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 14, 20 years ago my dad had an affair..he was 30 and the girl was 17 i only found this out tonight...(23-11-07) my brother was already around when this happened...im confused and annoyed with my mum and brother because they didnt tell me.
my dad has never been interested in my school work or if i have problems at school. tbh i dont feel like hes my real dad even though i no he is. Please sum1 help me....ive also just lost a best friend we were so close then she just started ignoring me...shes already been through something like this before except her situation was worse i could REALLY do with her now. x

2007-11-23 11:01:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 10:51:24 · 10 answers · asked by oooooolala! 5

Im 19 and my long term boyfriend and i have been having some problems lately. but we're working through it. so I told my mom one day just because i thought that shed be a good person for advice...what does she do, breaks down and cries and starts questioning me every 2 seconds "do you really think he loves you?" whenever I talk to her, its only about my boyfriend! and shes beeing going through my phone and trying to go on my facebook to find stuff out. and at night she cries and stuff. its been like this all week. im on the one whos going through the problem and I feel like I have to helo her through it! its crazy...I have never seen a mother this obsessed with a relationship. whenever im on the phone with him she wishpers to me what to say to him and she gets all mad if i walk away or just ignore her. then she tells me we're going to break up because I wont say what she wants me to say...shes always been crazy but it seems the older i get, the worse it gets. help!

2007-11-23 10:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous