Other - Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

It don't feel right not waitin' up fore her?! So I'm waitin'!

2007-11-27 23:58:15 · 12 answers · asked by Farmer & Granny Crabtree 5

2007-11-27 23:36:45 · 11 answers · asked by General 1

I had my son 5 months ago. I had him when I was 18. It was a rough pregnancy. I had put on everything possible for stretch marks the minute that I found out I was pregnant. All of my efforts did not help I got really bad stretch marks, they are embarrassing. I don't think that i will ever find anyone to have a relationship with cause i'm so insecure about my tummy. Do you think things will change? Will I find that someone anytime?

2007-11-27 23:33:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

him smokes 50 fags a day and they both go out drinking regurly, she says she is sick got a bad leg yet my son sees her walking normally, he pays no maintaince says he,s unemployed yet they are going abroad, i have a good mind to call the dhss on them, cos i have had enuogh, she is a greedy pig and him should i

2007-11-27 23:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I honestly don't know how to interpret this. Bad? Good? Irrelevant?

Avoidance of eye contact, even while talking, except right before we parted ways.
Nervous laughter or laughter at unfit moments.
Spacing one's self kind of distantly from me while walking.
And little dialogue.

This is not a shy person. It's actually someone I hadn't seen in a while and really wanted to reconnect with, hence the meeting. When they were talking about how little free time they had in their life and how occupied they are with other people in their life I said, "I don't mean to intrude". They did kinda a quick little laugh/breath out thing and said "You're not intruding" by which I respond "Well, I just kinda feel like I -" and then they cut me off, looked me straight in the eyes and said "Trust me. You're not intruding".

Overall, I would describe their behavior as very friendly and nice, but distant and apathetic.

Does "Trust me. You're not intruding" mean "I like having you around" or...

2007-11-27 23:16:02 · 10 answers · asked by __ 3

Hello.
I've seem to have reached a dead end. I'm 40 yrs old now, have a well mannered child, good job, own house, own car. But for the last 2 yrs I've been dating a mentally abusive guy. Obviously, I didn't know for a long time what he was really all about. Bit like; 'You can't judge a book by it's cover!'.
In the beginning he was very big on honesty and communication. Being faithful was the most important thing as his wife of 17 yrs had an affair with his mate. Well, I've since found his profile on Adultfriendfinder.com (sex site)! He'll rejects me physically all the time but as soon as I walk out the door, he logs onto pornsites! We're building a house now but he always critizies me and rejects me yet compliments all other women in my presence though I'm quite attravtive. He blames me for everything though it has nothing to do with me i.e work. I'm finacially commited for 1yr at least. But how do I stay alive when I wake up everyday hoping it's my last - not wanting to look at me

2007-11-27 22:34:35 · 8 answers · asked by faithfulalways 1

there is this girl i really like and on valentines day i gave her a rose .she semmed really happy and thanked me and she immidietely asked me wether i got a rose only for a her or am i carryin 4 or 5 more in my bag.i replied no i have got only 1 for you. she seemed happy but she says she likes me only as a friend(she says this to her friends).what does this mean?if she doesnt like me then why was she concerned wether she was the only person i gave a rose to?was she just trying to help her confidence by making sure she was the only one who got it from me nothing else or could it me she doesn have something for me coz she keeps givin me mixed signals and also flirts.

2007-11-27 21:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things have been getting extremely tense lately between me and my sister in-law, the sexual tensions are EXTREME to say the least.Me and my sister in-law have had secret crush on each other ever since we met each other (throu my wife of course). I have given hints that i liked her (like slapping her on the but, she lets me peak on her underwear\thong when she bends down,kissing etc..) all with out my wife knowing.We feel like "Romeo and Juliet" , being torn apart by my wife.How can get past my bothersome wife and get me and my sister in-law together (Even if it just for one night) I don't care. I just want me and her to have sex, if my wife MUST break apart are love then ill accept it, but i MUST have sex with her just ONCE. How could i pull this off with out my wife finding out?

2007-11-27 21:11:20 · 23 answers · asked by Bobby 1

I sunk to checking my partner's email. Something that I am not proud of but it highlighted something that I had feared but had never been able to find any proof of.
I found out that my partner has had an emotional relationship with another man (for over a year now), with whom she had physically been with before we started our relationship.
They live in other countries so meeting is not an option at the moment but I feel betrayed by her emotional intimacy with another man. She describes it as their 'problem' because he is in a loveless marriage and they both feel that they are in love with two people at the same time.
I am not going to tell her that I checked her email because I know it was wrong (even if it did confirm my fears) but I am having a hard to coming to terms with ending the relationship. Especially since she keeps telling me that she will do anything to make our relationship work.
Has anyone else been in a similar relationship and has some advice?

2007-11-27 21:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by Favour 1

2007-11-27 18:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by nishi 2

when you tell your girlfriend or wife your my everything, what does it mean to you? what exactly are you trying to tell her?

2007-11-27 18:22:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Although I'm single, I can fall for a guy hard. But I always seem to fall for the same types of guys. Now, I know I'm far from perfect, but these guys tell me I'm perfect in the way that I'm everything they're looking for. They tell me I'm beautiful, smart, energetic, kind, and sexually charged, which in general, I agree with, and they say they want to be with me but seem to get scared off. They usually run off to be with the energetic, sexy girls (who, usually, cheat on them and break their hearts within a month and the guy says "why can't she be sweet like you?") or the sweet, safe girls (who they complain bore them to tears "why can't they be exciting like you?"). But that's who they commit to, not me, and I'm a mix of the two types! It hurts more when they tell me I'm perfect. I'd rather they tell me what's wrong with me so at least I'd understand. Why do men do this?

2007-11-27 18:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 17:37:55 · 37 answers · asked by fatandsmooth 5

I have been put in a very difficult and uncomfortable spot.
My last ex-boyfriend is now dating my sister..... We dated about 4 years ago, and I am now happily married. My husband and I both think this is just wrong of my sister to do this, especially since my ex and I did not part on good term's ( he cheated) She thinks I still have feeling's for him (not true) I just can't stand him, I feel sick every time he is around. I am being told by some people to get over it, but I am really not enjoying seeing him at EVERY family get together.
Anyone have advise about how to deal, or should I just sit tight and hope they break up...
Our my husband and I the only ones that think this is bad?

2007-11-27 17:14:11 · 9 answers · asked by rubyslipper 2

At first I didn't think much of this but......

This boy is 18 and works for my husband. Over the past couple weeks, any time I mention doing something, he offers to go with me.

Like, Black Friday, he said he would be here at 4am and go with me to shop.

Tonight, I mentioned to my husband that I should go drop my rx's off to get filled. My daughter's boyfriend then said, if you go now, I will go with you and you can show me what the girls want for Christmas.

These are just two examples, there are several other times he has done this--is he just being super nice or what?

2007-11-27 17:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ozark Butterfly 5

do you think im wierd according to my retarded friends, just because i listen to 80's rock , i mean is that really bad, i think its better than the garbage of rap they listen to.

2007-11-27 16:45:17 · 10 answers · asked by applemania 2

My wife is upset and thinks it is her. She has put on a little weight since the baby, but that's not it. Jennifer Anniston could walk in butt naked and I would probably just enjoy the view. I don't even think that would get me turned on.

2007-11-27 16:05:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m 28

All my family went to some marriage on last Saturday for three weeks to some place away more than 1000 kms.

Last Sunday i was masturbating in my room.
suddenly my kaam wali (lady who work in our house who is 25) came in my room and saw me in that position.
Now i am not comfortable talking to her
what shall i do?

2007-11-27 15:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by GAGI 2

okay so how do i get out of the friend zone with this one girl? maybe not get out of it but how do i change her perception of me and not just be a friend? can i sound like a cool/funny dude and may she can see me in a different light? she just got back into town from a long trip, literally, and messaged me how im doing and how my thanksgiving break was, what should i say back to her?

i'm in 11th grade

2007-11-27 15:24:30 · 1 answers · asked by Mark 1

I've only had sex with my girlfriend once
whenever we try again, she says it hurts when i go in her.
is there a way to make it easier?
byw we cant really use lube cuz last time it gave her problems...so i dunno what to do...
thx...
(btw we use a condom and she is on the pill, so no worries)

2007-11-27 15:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by FelafelTodd 3

I'm married to a wonderful man and we have a great sex life. And I know pretty much every masturbates at some point, but what I do is excessive. I do it once a day, minimum, for anywhere between 2 - 4 hours at a time. Its not that I get pleasure from the act itself...the entire time I thinking "I need to stop"...but its the feeling after I finally do stop. Its exactly like being high...I feel like I'm literally walking on air, my vision gets cloudy, and I'm in a great mood...at least until I come down again and feel like crap. For whatever reason, sex doesn't give the same feeling. As I said before, I am married but my husband is on a 15 month tour in Iraq. When he's home I have no problem with this..our sex life is incredible and I have no need to masturbate. But now with him gone I can seem to stop. I just don't know what to do and where to turn. I've thought about therapy, but I wouldn't even know what type of thereapist to see or how I'd start the conversation with him/her.

2007-11-27 14:31:49 · 10 answers · asked by ME 2

my fionce cant have children, he went and had tests done just after he was told he couldnt have children. i was disapointed but ok with that, we made plans to go see a specialest witch went ok, he had more tests done and then he got told he had to go in for an opperation to extract spurm straight from his balls, that was fine till we got home and he told me whilst i was hanging out washing that he dosent want the opperation witch i was fine with at the time. now im at the time where i am phisyicaly and emotionaly ready for kids. please help

2007-11-27 14:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by Bangers 1

I ain't kiddin'...I flirts, but this hurts!Should I try counseling, or corn likker?!?!...Help me Obie-Wan-Kumara...yore my only hope!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmvhCpEKAjY&feature=related

2007-11-27 13:43:35 · 8 answers · asked by Farmer & Granny Crabtree 5

I have a baby that is 1 1/2, with a man I was engaged to prior to getting pregnant. He broke it off with me half way during the pregnancy, and tired to get back together with me when she was born. He claims he was trying to work things out with me, though he rarely showed up or helped. I became so distraught over the lack of participation, that I suspected he was with someone else. I "invaded his privacy" and went through his phone, to find out that he was seeing someone. He swore it was nothing. Needless to say, a year went by (without a visit to his daughter) and now he is back saying that he would of been around that whole year if I didn't invade his privacy and would just be patient and let him adjust. It has been two months that we have been trying to be friends and work towards being together. He was canceling visits with us or showing up hours late. I began to investigate again. I saw his profile on Myspace, he says he has no kids, he says he is 39 instead of 45, he opened it the same time he was saying he wanted to get back together AND the girl that he use to be seeing was listed as his friend on there. THE KICKER IS, he never told this girl about me OR the baby. She has no idea that I was engaged to him, or that she was dating him when I was pregnant and right after I had the baby. I was so mad, that I wanted to email her. I struggled for days, and I finally did. I was nice in the email, explaining I only wanted the truth and wanted to know if they were still together. The awful things is that my daughter will probably never see her dad again, or for a very long time. I wish I was strong enough to of taken the high road, but if I was her I would want to know. And I felt so decieved. I loved this man, and was still waiting for him to come back to us. Part of me feels I did this to make a final break. Should I of thought of the baby and taken the hight road? Did I do the right thing? Help!

2007-11-27 13:32:19 · 4 answers · asked by confused 1

2007-11-27 13:03:15 · 14 answers · asked by answers 2

its the only room in the house with a computer and tv and its really awkward when there making out and a$s-grabbing!

2007-11-27 12:43:08 · 64 answers · asked by josh 3

OK, my friend is BI, & she was dating a guy for a couple of weeks. On her job, her boss fondled her twice, & she reported him, & now he's trying to make up lies to ruin her life because she didn't give him what he wanted. Another guy on the job tried to pressure her for sex. Her (now) ex gets mad & says, "You lovin' on all these WHITE men!" But he ENCOURAGED her to sleep with a white girl with him watching. He's Black & she's Hispanic. Later, he saw her handling important business with another co-worker who's also a Black male. She uses terms of endearment to everyone she talks to. Baby, sweetie, everyone. That's just her. She called the guy baby, & her b/f heard it, & he jumped down her throat. He randomly leaves the house & claims to go JOY RIDING to clear his mind, when he may be cheating himself. No one drives 6-8 hrs. straight EVERY night around midnight. So when he yelled @ her, she told him off, & he had an anxiety attack because he didn't want her to leave him.

2007-11-27 12:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-27 11:31:30 · 1 answers · asked by kedi 2

2007-11-27 10:53:25 · 4 answers · asked by enjagumbs4 2

She doesn't believe in Love

2007-11-27 10:37:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous