I've only had sex with my girlfriend once
whenever we try again, she says it hurts when i go in her.
is there a way to make it easier?
byw we cant really use lube cuz last time it gave her problems...so i dunno what to do...
thx...
(btw we use a condom and she is on the pill, so no worries)
2007-11-27 15:12:08 · 5 answers · asked by FelafelTodd 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is not ready for sex.
Accept it or move on.
Good luck.
2007-11-27 15:23:40 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What problems did it give her? And what kind did you use? she can check with her doctor to see what lube would work best for her. On the other hand, you can always use the natural lube of spit. I know some people think its gross, but my boyfriend and I do it all the time. You never run out of it and its always right there! LOL.
If this is only her second time, go slow and be gentle til she gets used to the feelings.
2007-11-27 15:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Uwish ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try you laying on your back and she gets on top. That way she can control the angle and rate of insertion. BTW, saliva makes an excellent lube. Just spit on your hand and wiipe it on your penis.
2007-11-27 15:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Salyva is a natural lubricant, if she doesnt masterbate and doesnt have sex that often her hole closes up and it hurts, she has to be really horny inorder to have sex. Try going down south, and giving her multible orgasms. tasty loving is a oral lubricant and when you blow on it it gets hot, really nice down there. Carress her boobs, dont play the motar boats girls dont like that.
2007-11-27 15:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop doing it then. Problem solved!
2007-11-27 15:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋