Other - Family & Relationships - 22 November 2007

2007-11-22 23:30:22 · 7 answers · asked by Louise Smith 7

We used to be very close, I straddled on his shoulder, I could yell at him, bit his arm when I got angry...he fulfilled my every wish, never scold me, not to mention physical punishment.

It suddenly stopped when I hit 7, he became a complete different person, hot got harsh, stern and strict on me, it was almost happened on one night, I had to do homeworks that he "assigned", he forced me to study hard, forced to learn extra math and science lessons on Saturday and Sunday, If my grades dropped a little bit, he would picked on me for hours, even worse, I would got spankings, no matter if I did something wrong or grades dropped....I was scared of him

We got further and further emotionally when I grew up, and I centainly don't want to bring up my BF thing, which happened when I was 14, all I can tell you is I got a slap, then grounded for 2 months.

Now I'm 24, he wants to make up, though I still live with him, I barely talk to him, I don't want to, I think I no longer love him any more.

2007-11-22 23:16:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 22:46:52 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4

she is my brothers wife i love very much and can not forget her
i did not go to her home or not phone call her for 15 days.
pl.

2007-11-22 20:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by i loved relative woman knew her 1

what do you classify as hot?
i always wondered what the difference is between "cute" & "hot"

2007-11-22 19:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-11-22 19:08:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

we broke for 2 months alr and i still miss and love him alot. we broke up because i said it out of spite and i thought he would pacify me. and the reason we quarelled was because he felt that he could not make me happy anymore.
he still calls me every night but is not willing to talk long.
he sitll accompanies me when i'm sad but each time i talk about us getting back, he would get angry. i am determined to get him back. sometimes i just cant control myself and finds him, but i know he does not like it. so nowadays i've been writing letters and putting it on his car secretly.
i'm afraid he might just fall for other girls within this period of time.

2007-11-22 19:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by flwergirl 1

We met around new years, she is 20, im 19, and she had a BF at the time, so we were friends. In 2 weeks I started falling for her, it was crazy, she was my first love, and with her i learned what love is, so we went to a party one day, I didnt tell her nothing about how i was feeling untill she kissed a friend of mine when we were leaving the party, infront of me (she was still with her BF at that time) , we were with her car, so we got in, n i was mad, lol, i told her how i felt n we talked for about 1/2 hr infront of my house, n she told me she sees us as friends. We didnt stop hanging out, because she would call me, n would wanna hang out, n even thought i was waiting for her to call, i really loved going out with her, or anything, just staying at her house with her family. We kissed a week later, and from then, it just went from kissing, to all the other stuff, n she still was seeing her BF, but not like before, 24/7 she would be with me. We were pretty good, the first two months.

2007-11-22 18:45:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maturity. I need to change. Man I cannot stress this enough. I WANT TO CHANGE!! NOT FOR THEM, FOR MYSELF!!! Ok. Thats outta my system. Well. I want to act more mature. I am a funny guy (I guess, people say I am) but sometimes I just act too crazy. I talk WAY to much. I yell things in class, people look at me funny. You get the point. My question is How do I shut the hell up, and calm the f*ck down? Lol. Excuse my computer lingo. Also how do you change your personality in such a way? I want to start thinking before I speak. But how do I go about that? It's like instinct for me to just blurt it out. I hope you were able to understand this. Thanks in advance.

2007-11-22 17:05:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been lovers in two different cities for 3years.and we plan to live in a city and marry.but yesterday he told me we'd better to part.because i am his first love,he dosen't want to only date with ne in his life.i can't understand it ,is it acceptible/

2007-11-22 16:47:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help!

2007-11-22 16:02:11 · 2 answers · asked by Leather 5

Im not sure what worries me most in life....i am only a teenager, so I haven't had the most intruiging life experiences yet!

2007-11-22 14:46:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to hlep my boyfriend find his 2 kids from his first wife she has got them wont let him see the kids he dose not no where she or the kids are last he heard she was at helensvale all he really wonts is to see at least a recent pic of his 2 daughters he loves them so much its killing him inside and i really wont to help him find them but not sure how and where to start can anyone help me please.......

2007-11-22 14:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should teenage girls or boys for that matter be spanked? The parent of the opposite sex might be aroused and then it is sexual abuse. Or even if it is the same sex parent it could still lead to arousal.

2007-11-22 13:49:19 · 10 answers · asked by openupfresh 1

2007-11-22 13:39:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf broke up and he got a new gf that i work with. my ex bf just stares at me and work. but he keeps calling me from restricted late at night and i answer and he doesnt say anything and never does. and when i dont anwer then he keeps callling. why does he do this? whats the point? i dont understand why guys do this??

2007-11-22 13:34:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 8 yr old son lives with me 40% of the time. I wanted to buy him gifts that he would be able to leave at my house so he had stuff to play with when he came over(ex. legos,ps2 games, etc.). Well all of the stuff he wants is stuff that would be hard for him to leave just at my house( gameboy games,IPOD, guitar ect) and in the past things like these get brought to him moms house and get "left" there. So dads what do you do for x-mas when your divorced? Should I get the stuff he wants knowing they will just end up at my exwifes house?

2007-11-22 13:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since ive been pretty much 4 ive always been fascinated with casinos, card games, slots and all that other stuff. My dream has always been to live in Vegas and work in a casino, most likely as a dealer or any other job which is in the casino in Vegas! I come from another country so when I was a kid I couldnt even imagine I could get this close to my dream, now Im in America and living in Virginia and almost finished with high school. When I told my parents what I want to do they laughed and me, screamed, called me a failure. They push me in every single way to go to college and become a lawyer, a doctor, an accountant. Yet I don't want to be any of those things.They dont want to listen and support my choice. I dont want to study for someone I dont want to be and be miserable for the rest of my life. I want to be happy and have the job I always wanted. Yet my parents dont listen to me.What should I do? Should I pack up and leave after high school? I completely refuse to give up my dream

2007-11-22 13:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by klickersw 1

I am new at this job too. It is only my second week..

2007-11-22 13:10:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mariana 2

I am really pretty and mature for my age. I am 18 and so is my ex bf and we broke up we fell in love and loved eachother very much and we couldnt be friends it was 2 hard. hes mad at me and refuses to speak 2 me. he is now dating a girl that we work with. she is 4 years older than him. she hates me of course. but every time he sees me he just stares at me for the longest time and forgets that she is even their. they fight constantly and ppl say that they wont last. he calls me from restricted so that i will anwer the phone and he doesnt say anything. sometimes he follows me and burns out infront of me to get my attetnion. he drove by my house 2 hours ago. and called me from restricted today. he swears that he doesnt love me or care for me anymore. what do u think? does he still care? what would u do? why is he doing this? and whats going through his head when he sees me?

2007-11-22 13:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now. We really love each other, but things are a lot different. When we first started dating, he was very loving and understanding. We broke up a couple times, twice because he liked another girl, once because I liked another guy. We got over it and it's been a while, but we started fighting a lot. I told him I feel like he's taking advantage of me. I do everything for him and all I ask for is a little affection in return. Whenever I ask him to sit or cuddle with me, there's always an excuse. Also, when we fight, he can never admit that he's in the wrong also and we fight...a lot. I'm always the person apoligizing. Plus, he knows it bothers me, but he tells me that he doesn't come to family functions with me because we're not married, but then when I ask him if he thinks we will ever get married, he says he doesn't think about the future and you never know what will happen. I thought he was my soul mate, but am I just wasting my time?

2007-11-22 11:34:06 · 3 answers · asked by Katie 102404 2

up working cos she needs it to keep he sane and to show the kids if you want good stuff in life then you have to work for it

2007-11-22 11:16:06 · 14 answers · asked by dazza 2

2007-11-22 10:59:06 · 4 answers · asked by ♫ Bubastes, Cat Goddess♥ 7

I had a dream, I was making out, with this guy I know.
I knew him since I was 7-12 then he moved across the country, then we found eachother on myspace, and he moved back to my state, we talked about going to the next level, since my parents liked him, we known each other for awhile, and such.

I had a dream about him last night, we were deeply making out. It was so deep and pleasuring in my dream, when I woke up, I thought it was real. I could literaly, feel myself moan in the dream, and wanting more, its weird.

What does this dream mean?

I'm about 17 right now, and hes a few years older.

2007-11-22 09:30:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like someone who i think may still have a girlfriend at the moment
well i don't see him everyday so i dont know if hes still attached

oh i havent really talked to him since october of this year

so thats kinda bad right?

i ask him to go wit me on my junior prom
he said he had to think about it

he hasnt said anything
so i should just find anothe rfish in the sea right

some hotter cooler guy will come along?

2007-11-22 09:17:14 · 2 answers · asked by MisscOOlio 2

I was sexually and mentally abused by a close family member when I was little. It went of for years. I now have a little 6 month old girl and can't help but be extremely protective of her. The thought of her going through anthing like I did terrifies me. My partner says I have to trust somebody and give her some space when she is older, but I know first hand that abuse is rife and it is usually the people you least expect doing it. Once it happens its too late, the damage is done. How can I stop myself being too over protective whilst ensuring she is safe

2007-11-22 09:06:56 · 7 answers · asked by Serry's mum 5

I like this guy who likes me back, but one of the biggest reasons that I can't say yes is because my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend. He doesn't know that thats one of the reasons though. I feel stupid telling him I can't out with him because my parents said so.
I recently introduced them to a few of my guys friends (including the guy I want to date). They hardly like me hanging out with guys, letalone dating them. They've made it clear they don't want me going out with anyone. And I don't want to talk about it anymore with them, I hate talking about things like this, we hardly do.
I'm 15 and I've had two boyfriends before. My mom found out I had one about 3 months after we broke up. And the other one they never knew about.
And also, about a month ago, I got caught lying. I said I was with my friend when I was really at this guys house. They said that was my freebee, next time I'm in big trouble. But still, I know they haven't forgotten about that.
What should I do??

2007-11-22 08:51:37 · 7 answers · asked by ghostywingz 5

Like, THE best one. Or two. What made you end your relationship with your last ex (and you are now better for it)?
I've heard violence, but what level: hitting, shoving, or just spitting in your face? What counts as "emotional abuse"?
What was the last straw in a relationship that you were clinging to? Relationship-experienced people only, please! I need help!

2007-11-22 08:49:36 · 3 answers · asked by Nénuphar 4

cps came in my home and recorded my kids during an investigation of neglect or abuse. we told them not to ask them about there private areas and they did anyway. then they told me it was not my exwife who reported it.

2007-11-22 08:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by Mac 1

I heard about blue pills for men and can anyone tell me what they do please?

2007-11-22 08:09:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous