I like this guy who likes me back, but one of the biggest reasons that I can't say yes is because my parents don't want me to have a boyfriend. He doesn't know that thats one of the reasons though. I feel stupid telling him I can't out with him because my parents said so.
I recently introduced them to a few of my guys friends (including the guy I want to date). They hardly like me hanging out with guys, letalone dating them. They've made it clear they don't want me going out with anyone. And I don't want to talk about it anymore with them, I hate talking about things like this, we hardly do.
I'm 15 and I've had two boyfriends before. My mom found out I had one about 3 months after we broke up. And the other one they never knew about.
And also, about a month ago, I got caught lying. I said I was with my friend when I was really at this guys house. They said that was my freebee, next time I'm in big trouble. But still, I know they haven't forgotten about that.
What should I do??
2007-11-22 08:51:37 · 7 answers · asked by ghostywingz 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honor your parents wishes.
2007-11-22 08:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Lucky your parent's have no choice at all in who you date then, isn't it??
Seriously, YOUR choice, you date whoever the ell you want. Your parents will learn to deal with it, they will have no choice.
You however, DO have a choice. If your parents really care about you, why would they deliberately try to limit your knowledge and experiences by restricting you from things like that? They aren't protecting you, they are keeping you ignorant!
I'm 18/f btw.
Oh and also, I had my first relationship while I was 15, and I'm still in it! I lost my virginity when I was 15 too, and my mother said 'Oh, I'll go get the pill for you then ok?', my father said simply 'Be safe.' Thank every god there is that I have logical, supportive parents. That is what a parent should be, they should respect you more, they think you are still a little kid. They need therapy man. Your body and your mind are yours and yours alone, you choose exactly what you do with them, you aren't your parent's property and you have to have your own experiences and live your own life.
2007-11-22 17:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by myleslr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents. They are the best source of wisdom you have right now. My two daughters at 15 years old wanted to date guys as well. I was a divorced parent. I would not allow them to date. My ex wife would. Well at 16 they were becoming mothers. At 20 each one had children. Yes children. One had two and the other was lucky she had twin and two other children. So now 21 and 4 children. Lots of responsibility. The unfortunate thing is neither one of the dads wanted to have anything to do with the child rearing or routine household duties.. The fathers are nothing but mere children themselves. One does drugs and the other plays computer games and zones out to children around him. If this is the kind of life that ou want. Don't listen. If it isn't listen to your parents and continue to you are out of college and have a job before you decide to play house.
2007-11-22 18:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by BiggyBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing first you gotta repair trust.
They MIGHT have let you date, but you've shown them you're not trustworthy...
2007-11-22 17:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, parents know best. they want to protect you. pretty much all guys want sex no matter how much they deny it.
listen to your parents.
tell your boyfriend you're not ready to date.
2007-11-22 17:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by Self-Proclaimed Expert 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to what they tell you, they've had lots of experience.
2007-11-22 17:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be studying ... not dating.
What should you do?.... listen to them... you depend on them and are suppose to respect them.
2007-11-22 16:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by BitterSweet 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋