Other - Family & Relationships - 18 November 2007

why is living so hard, why does problem exist, isn't there a time when you just expected things to happen and you wanted this to happen and by someone's decision it just all falls apart and something you just feel so loose and about to fall, then you just have to question the guy upstairs why this has to happen. i read this quote saying that God gave us twist and turn and sometime we just have to enjoy the twist and turn that God layed for us, but what if theres a time when you just don't enjoy living, what do you do, do you just kill yourself and commit suicide, Omg thats like so stupid,but what do you really do about it, how do you fix your life when you just don;t know what to do and how to start fixing it. okay here's one what do you do when you just waited for something really really important and this important can really change your life into something great, and then something happen and it just chages everything, and you find yourself so lost and you have no clue what do..

2007-11-18 23:36:28 · 5 answers · asked by mike s 2

although i have a boyfriend i get jealous wen the other boy in question talks to girls .... what should i do?
PLEASE HELP .... also my boyfriend lives in my town but theo other boy live 4 hours away from me!

2007-11-18 23:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by xplay_gutlx 1

Do you think sex is a necessary component of a satisfying, full life? Obviously most people wouldn't want to give it up, but is it necessary, or just desired? If someone elderly admitted to you that they were still a virgin, would it alter your perception of them? If your immediate reaction is to say "you can't have a full life without some sexual experience", do you think this is just because you enjoy sex, or do you really believe it to be valuable above physical pleasure?

I myself think it's a central feature of human experience, and the elemental reason for our existence, and that to miss out on it would be a great personal loss. I'm interested to know what you all think.

2007-11-18 22:49:31 · 14 answers · asked by katie_london 3

I mean every sort of love, both romantic and non-romantic. I think everyone could accept that parents (and perhaps siblings and others) can love a newborn baby straight away. But, aside from that, do you think that you'd have to know someone a certain amount of time before you could say you loved them? And any guesses as to how long that would be?

2007-11-18 22:20:21 · 9 answers · asked by Private Erin Coolidge 2

I think it's the parents' discretion to decide whom they trust with their child. I also dont want them to attend the required seminar. They will be flying in from far off places. Is there a way around this and is there a roman catholic church in the bay area who will not require this? please help me.

2007-11-18 20:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Kaye C 1

Lets say you know this guy, and you start having a fling with him. You like him a lot, but nobody knows what is going on between you. Suddenly, you dont know from him for a while. Next thing you know, is that your daughter is going out with him and he is really happy for this. You realise your daughter didn't know what was going on between this guy and you.

How would you feel? What would you do? What would you tell your daughter? Would you hate her for "interfering" in what could have been?

2007-11-18 20:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by Sesoid 4

They never did with me. I learned from others, etc.

2007-11-18 18:37:27 · 20 answers · asked by /\|][/| 4

2007-11-18 18:13:34 · 29 answers · asked by Tell It Like it is 2

Look i'm a nice person but i'm scared of a person.

I was walking my puppy german Sheperd Mccloud when i heard a girl screaming. I looked around and to my horror a man was raping her.

i called the police and they arrested him. but his friend got away and now he's stalking me and leaving dirty messages saying

"I'll get you next Melissa."

Its scaring me that i'm to scared to go out whithout my best friend Ellie Boo.

2007-11-18 18:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa T 1

Going to Florida with husband who does NOT like to fly and two boys 6, & 8 who have NEVER been on an airplane. Because of when the flight was booked, could only get 3 seats together, the other is off by it's self.
Would I be a bad mom if I made my husband sit with the boys, while I sit by myself and relax ?

2007-11-18 17:35:59 · 12 answers · asked by Kit 4

Have u ever felt like u have fail urself in anything?

PLEASE EXPLAIN!!!!

2007-11-18 15:55:58 · 2 answers · asked by *k@sT*GirL* 3

I filed a restraining order against my now ex for punching me. The police made him leave, per my request. He is now homeless, but he should have thought about that before he put his hands on me. Abuse is not ok, one time leads to multiple times - sometimes death. I don't want my guilt to allow him back in my home. (yes, my home not ours - we were about to buy a home together.) My intent is not to "bring him down" - but there are laws and he needs to understand that he can not punch someone no matter how angry he is. Now I have to go to court to make the restraining order permanent. Do I trust that he will just leave me alone and keep it temporary and allow him to get on with his life or do I make it permanent and get on with my life.

2007-11-18 14:27:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my moms mix with puerto rican/white and other backrounds of different races, but she is VERY RACES!! sometimes she expresses hated towards blacks, whites, puerto ricans, and anything else to me. she also at some moments LOVES being puerto rican and talk bad about whites, THEN at an other moment she LOVES being white and hates puerto ricans,....WTF!!!! im more mix with puerto rican cuz my dad is pure rican but i still am mix with white, the only problem i have is the race of any boyfriends i have, once i dated a puerto rican boy and she got pissed off cuz he wasnt white then i had gotten a white boyfriend and she talk sh*t on how he was a white boy and not puerto rican, i NEVER think of showing her a black boyfriend cuz shell k*ll em, im not races but my mom is one of thos odd people who hates her own race and for that matter since she is mix so she hates EVERY race!! n-e has the same problem? what can i do?

2007-11-18 13:12:38 · 4 answers · asked by becca 3

.....and is in their early 30's? If you we're in a relationship or married to someone who behaves this way how would you handle it?

2007-11-18 12:10:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 11:46:14 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 11:31:42 · 2 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4

i lost my grandma this year, i have no family, i have fake friends who are selfish. i feel i look terrible
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i have a talent in singing as well as playing instruments but im too insecure to make it noticeable. i feel very isolated and alone. i do not drink as i feel it makes the pain worse. i try praying to jesus but things are not looking up. i will continue to pray. i wish someone out there will care and reply to my pleading for help. i have nowhere else to turn. there are some people on here who have given me horrible answers and i beg you not to vent your hatred to me as i did not do anything wrong to you please. somebody, anybody please help me

2007-11-18 11:11:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter loves to read and is devoted to her cats. She is 10, but reads long fictional novels......but she is still 10, so cats secret lives are her passion right now!(she has read the "warriors" series) We looked forever and could not find a good club. She was in one for horse lovers called Pony Express that was really cute, but she really loves cats. Can anyone please tell me where to look or better yet if you know of a book club that would suit her. Thanks to all who read anyway...she is one of my six kids and when one of them want to read, I run to get them the book! Blessed silence!OB

2007-11-18 10:41:45 · 1 answers · asked by ophelia b 1

I heard from another employee yesterday and today that my manager is talking s*** behind my back. My MANAGER! Can you believe that? I have worked in many places and have never heard of a manager being so immature. Anyway, I went up to her and asked her why she was talking about me behind my back and she denied it (of course), and then said she asked me to do stuff and I told her no. I have never told her no, I once told her that I was still working on something else and I would get to it if I could but I always do what she tells me. So the argument went on and she sent me home (by the way she argued with me in front of a customer, very unproffesional). I know she can't fire me because there is another manager above her but I know that she will get ahold of the general manager before I do and my side of the story may never be told. Can they fire me because I asked my manager why she talked about me behind my back? I work tommorow, what should I do?

2007-11-18 10:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

d nyt b4 last i was out with my bf and my friend, me n my friend had to go back 2 mine after spending a while wit my bf 2 see my mum, i asked him if i was alowed back out and go 2 my friends house party who is a boy, he said no. i didnt c the big deal about him nt wntin me going to his party but wanted to respect his wishes. me and my friend were back at my house and got a call from my friend who was having the party and asked if we wanted to just go and say hi 2 him at d bus station so we did. he invited us back 2 his house 2 his party but i sed no and so we jst stayed at the bus station for 5-10 mins thn came straight back home. i tryed rining my bf after as we wer alowed bck out and i wanted to meet up wit him but he wasnt answering his phone so we jst wnt bck 2 my house. i tld him d nxt day we went 2 see my m8 for a while n now he thinks i hve bin cheating on him and thinks i WENT 2 the party bt i didint! he says i was lieing to him and he cant trust me n e mre,was i in d wrong?

2007-11-18 10:22:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 10:03:12 · 4 answers · asked by April 5

How many times per week would you think is 'normal'?

2007-11-18 10:03:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 09:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 09:29:33 · 35 answers · asked by Mr Catnip 6

everyone has a passion & loves people. like family or friends. i m questioning my feelings, cuz i m like very unsentimental. it just feels weird when family or friends say "luv ya!" or something. how do i get comfortable to say "i love you" to someone? How do you know if u do really love some1? cuz its not right to say that to just anybody. please answer, cuz idk wat my problem is!

2007-11-18 09:24:46 · 2 answers · asked by advice giver & needer! 3

on my boyfriends bebo page it says on how he met his friends ''friends story'' and it says ''we met randomly, he is in a caravan next to me''

Im getting jealous and paranoid over this,
shes pretty aswel so i'm abit worried that he is cheating on me whenever he goes down the caravan park,

He says he loves me and he'd never cheat on me,
Why am i acting like this if they're only friends?
Help please.

2007-11-18 03:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by Parawhore 2

So yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me... after a year and some
he said as long as i don't do anything stupid he will come back. i got on myspace today to see one of the girls i begged him not to talk to posted a bulletion saying she was with him that night.
i don't know what to do. because i am so shure that the only reasion he broke up with me is so he could do the stuff i told him not to do... the day before we broke up he told me that if we broke up he would probably kill himself. i don't know what to do. but i just need some giudence. he did this to be before. and we got back together. and that was when we both changed drastically. nether of us trusted eachother. i don't know what to do. i have every right not to trust him. he cheated on me. and he never tells me the truth!
-Shelby

2007-11-18 03:39:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm really having a difficult time at college.....I'm a freshman

first - friend moved in on move in day 3 days later she hated it and transfered. Then jehova wittness moved in with me she was crazy....she had 4 roommmates before me in the course of 2 weeks...I moved out....Then moved to sports dorm was only "temp." girl's roommmate moved back in i had to move out AGAIN now have my own dorm.

Then had to get rusehd to ER because of anxiety attack.

-I don't eat much here
-I dont talk to people here
-I'm usually depressed here
-My gpa is "around" a 2.8
-Attempted to stay 2 different weekends was only girl on my floor here

My mother lost her job and is not recieving unemployment. I was really worried about her and our financial situation so i decided since I was planning on transfering next year to a different university ANYWAY to transfer back home to community college for 1 semester then when we got money transfer somewhere else.

DID I MAKE A MISTAKE??
I'm worried!!!

2007-11-18 03:27:07 · 2 answers · asked by Nnay 1

everyone i no has turned against me, everything i have is broke and mt two peices ov jewelary i had and ment the world to me was stolen. even my privacy. bad luck ??? or am i doomed

2007-11-18 02:50:49 · 5 answers · asked by C F 1

2007-11-18 02:21:48 · 4 answers · asked by Corvette!! 2