Other - Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

I was on a dating site and there was a girl on it who wanted a date and when I read her profile it sed that she was engaged and had 2 kids. why would she be on a dating site looking for a date when she is engaged with 2 kids? I cant understand it?

2007-11-17 23:51:38 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

my father says hes not racist but he is.. Im white, and my boyfriends black. well my father doesnt like my boyfriend because of this and is always saying nasty racial comments bout him. I tell my boyfriend and my boyfriend now hates my dad.. and wants to confront him but that'd only get me into more trouble. Anyone have any GOOD advice for me on this?

2007-11-17 23:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by Little Miss Cute!! 2

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Im not great at making friends. I have made friends with a guy in work since aug. The thing is i cant tell if he sees me as a mate. Hes not great at emailing me first ie when organising stuff outside of work he wants u to phone him and in work hes not great at iniating emails hell reply but not great at emailing to say hi.

Hell reply to mine and be like hows u how was ur weekend but would be nice if he did it once in a while, When we go to lunch he seems to enjoy my company joking with me n stuff and ive been over his flat but am worried/paranoid that he is just being nice. The one time i emailed him and he didnt reply he did appologise for not replying and the only time hes iniated convo was when he thought hed offended me which was nice.

Deep down i see him as a friend but im still paranoid as hes not great at contact hell reply to my emails and seems interested more than others ive emailed but as he dont iniate much i get paranoid.

2007-11-17 23:35:02 · 7 answers · asked by josephine123446 1

Play that funcky music right boy play that funcky music?

2007-11-17 23:29:57 · 7 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

In the eyes of the ranger the unsuspected stranger had beter no the truth of rong from right cause the eyes of the ranger are up on you any rong you do hes on the scene when your in texas look behind you because thats were the rangers going to be. any one no that song?

2007-11-17 23:17:13 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

my sister explained that her bf was really interested in doing it with her, but she isnt ready for it yet.

i explained to him when i first met him that if she told me anything that made him not look like an absolute angel, that id take him to the cleaners...and i did.

she came home crying and saying that she couldnt take it anymore, and that she wasnt ready. i asked where he was, she told me, i left and...lets keep it PG. ill just say that if you saw a before and after shot, you'd say, "is that REALLY the same guy?!"

im not sure how she would react, its been a couple of days and she doesnt know yet. i asked her if she was still going out with him, but she just said, "i deal with what's going on right now...i dont want to see him"

i just wondering if i sort of over did it. i know he had it coming, im very protective of my sister...just wondering if i went too far.

2007-11-17 21:18:32 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Giggity 2

i am not speaking about married men or such but just boyfriends. is this behaviour really that big of a problem? the persons involved arent that emotionally attached, they simply enjoy the sex quite much with one another!

2007-11-17 16:13:38 · 25 answers · asked by goldcharm 2

2007-11-17 16:13:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-17 15:59:10 · 7 answers · asked by The Evolution of T. 6

If you women were men and you wanted to approach a woman, what pick up line would you use? What tips can you give? What are some things that get a womans attention in that first impression?

2007-11-17 15:43:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, this question is for anyone who found leaving home hard, how did you deal with it and what was your parents reaction?

Well, my case is that I don't want to live with my dad anymore because I would much rather live with my mom. This is extremely hard to do because the last thing I want my father to think is that I don't love or appreciate him. It is nothing like that, see, I am pregnant with my first child and the only reason I came to live with my dad was to escape all the stress and drama I was going through. Well, now my head is clear and things are back on track and I feel I don't want or need to be here anymore. I love him soo much and I am sooo grateful for everything he has done. But, I feel as if being in Texas with my mother would make me so much happier than being in NY with him. This is one of the hardest things in the world for me and I know he won't agree with it, but I just have to go. Help me, how do I talk to my dad.

2007-11-17 14:35:28 · 1 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

My bf just came by & told me he's having a party. He said my ex & his new girl are going to be there, also some other girls. I'm shy okey...Even with a few people I don't know...much less a whole room full of complete stangers? I havent' been to a party in awhile. I kind of forgot how it is, & how to act....

I dunno I'm real nervous about being with a bunch of stangers & I'm pretty shy & errr I'm like have anxiety issues here...

Do you have any advice to calm my nerves & also how to make this party fun & not stressful...because I have a feeling it's going to be very stressful...I'm trying to think different..but err I just help please!

I think what I'm most nervous about is being an idiot in front of all these people....Like I'm afraid I'm not going to be accepted for who I am...


thanks

2007-11-17 14:03:29 · 3 answers · asked by Savanna 1

2007-11-17 13:02:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

some people make me so angry, expecting to go through life with everyone looking after them, eveyrone doing things for them
life isnt like that
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2007-11-17 12:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my other account got deleted, appareltny i did somthing in a question to get suspended, but i dont understand what because all ia sked was how do you make friends on here? and i was wondering is it the acual yahoo people who look and see or is it just people reporting you?
i didnt swear or anything

2007-11-17 11:57:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

after themselves. They're 9, 10 and 11 the oldest is a boy and then the two girls. Their dad was in a terrible relationship where her and her kids destroyed his house; which we've all come together to get it cleaned up. But even now they don't pick up after themselves. He forces the rules, and I reinforce them when I'm there. He's told them that I have this right because I helped clean up after the ex and her crew moved out; his kids weren't around; so it was his family and some friend and myself. How do I get over the "dad, I don't like her" comment. He's not going to break it off over something like that =) He's had many talks with them and put his foot down with how they act.

2007-11-17 11:48:18 · 5 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5

on a french letter, does it make the male come quicker?

2007-11-17 10:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by L D 5

urrm ok. basically when i first started going out with my boyfriend, he introduced me to his family. i thought his older brother was really hot. anyway we ended up sleeping together while my boyfriend was on holiday. The next day i went round there to pick up my phone that i left behind, and i ended up having a three some with the brother i had already slept with and his dad. My boyfriends brother said that if i dont sleep with him when he wants he will tell. what should i do??

2007-11-17 10:41:15 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

what song do you like to listen to why'll having sex.
or do you like it quiet and moans?

2007-11-17 10:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by girl_2007 1

my grandma passed away earlier this year, i have no family and fake friends. they dont really care. i feel very alone. i pray to jesus but things are not getting better. i feel i look terrible
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i want to just end my life and dissapear as i have nothing to live for. i have a talent in music but im too insecure to make it noticeable. i wish i could have at least one person who cares. please help me

2007-11-17 09:13:06 · 22 answers · asked by Jackebs 1

2007-11-17 09:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by : 6

2007-11-17 08:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by April 5

this song somes up my life,also i would have "the ace of spades"by motorhead,what would you have and why.

2007-11-17 08:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by damian 4

2007-11-17 07:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok every year for birthdays and christmas's, we give our cousins $50.00 each. it was my sisters birthday in october, and we haven't even gotten a call from them! they just bought a new puppy, and might be busy, but not even a call?!?!?! what's up with that? christmas is coming, and so is my birthday in december, and i dont want to get a present if my sister didn't! should we bring it up at christmas?

thanks

2007-11-17 07:27:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The relationship turned abusive and I had him arrested. After this I left him and moved out while he was at work do to being scared of what he would do. Long story short he promised to pay the ring off and now will not do it. What can I do?

2007-11-17 06:54:03 · 28 answers · asked by marvinj1313 1

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-17 06:40:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this boy that i met at science camp...he's from a different school n has a girlfriend.i caught him staring at me n his girlfriend a few times.actually...a lot.he looked at me more.i miss him.his girlfriend is actually my friend.so yea.i really want to see him.do you have any suggestions?no,im not going to cheat...

2007-11-17 06:27:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this teacher who hates, one day we were doing this assignment & i didn't know the answer, so i said i didnt know. so one on my c/mate started laughing. i smiled and he saw me did this and then basically switched on me. saying that i should laugh bcuz im a waste of space and i should have been kicked out a long time cause i come to his lessons (which i dont, i have only been 3/15 times) dat i dont hand in any work ( MY USB was stolen & anytime try to do it again i get demotivated cuz i spend so much time doing it b4). i think that i should either go to the lesson keep quiet and dont speak even if i have a question or dont go 2 the lessons & ask for the notes Frm my C/mates do da work and give 1 of them it to hand in. i haven't been goin to lessons or doin C/work because ive been suffering frm depression (no one except my GP/doctor knows this). and i have a lot of sh*t to deal with @ home. can sum1 help me tell me what to do cuz rite now ive got nothing goin for me.

2007-11-17 06:13:39 · 2 answers · asked by jay K 5

I know this does not belong here, but I trust you guys and nobody in the dating catagory knows anything, they are all kids please help.

Wanted to add?
I asked this question this morning and wanted to add to it since some of you thought I was chasing him and wouldnt leave him alone.

I met this guy, I really like him a lot and he has said he likes me, he has been divorced for 2 years. I have asked him over, we have had drinks together, made out etc. then all of a sudden he backs off. he calls me every night, emails me, comes in for lunch where I work, but he wont be alone with me and keeps saying we are going way to fast. he has said that my dreams match what he has been wishing for forever, like the beginning of his fantasy life. yet he wont do anything but talk to me on the phone or email. I am very confused. what do I do?
I wanted to add, that I had a long talk with him and told him I would leave him alone and back off, not call etc if he didnt want me to, thats when he said that my dreams seem to match what he has always wanted, like this was the beginning of his fanstasy life. I just dont understand why he wont be alone with
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me, he will just talk on the phone and e mail and when he comes in for luch, he is very distant for most of it till he gets ready to leave, then softens up. when on the phone if I say goodbye, he says "see ya: very forcibly, but will not say good bye. how long will I have to wait on him to figure out what he wants?
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his last two emails

Ok here I go. I'll try hard at this but it may be stupid. ( Friends first than maybe extras latter. I hate to see people hurt and don't want to be a part of it. I feel your dreams also are what I have hoped for would come true for a long time, it is the start of my fanitsy story. I admire the energy you have and the fight you have to reach your goals.


Ok, past statement you made. It is ok, so I'm I. What happens 10 years from now if things change that I can't control?

he is about 15 years older than me
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2007-11-17 05:39:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous