some people make me so angry, expecting to go through life with everyone looking after them, eveyrone doing things for them
life isnt like that
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2007-11-17 12:18:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that is just the way some people are even those who have not had everything handed to them they just expect it to happen because they feel entitled. i have a cousin who feels like she should have everything done for her but she does nothing for herself. what is now happening because of all her selfish decisions she has alienated herself from pretty much everyone in the family because no one can stand her whining and her poor me rhetoric anymore. what most selfish people need as said previously is to be put into a position where they have only themselves to rely on and maybe then they will see the value of good friends and family and stop taking for their own purposes!
2007-11-17 15:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by ladida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However, there are exceptions to the rule. The reason maybe it is hard to attain complete peace when people thurst for power, monetary benefits, gold, so much respect from people.
Teaching the young ones to stand on their own feet, teaching them not to rely on others if they are capable of doing things.
Teaching them that life is not like that, and that they need to do it on their own. They should be taught in school what generosity would do especially to those who really needed help.
; that life is a matter of give and take and they should not expect too much from others ..
People (...not all ) thinks that they did not get equal share even if they already have taken a portion of that which belongs to someone else....
We really not need to take life seriously. Basing on observation , in the eyes of a very poor man, a fisherman, a child and those whose earning an honest living despite the fact that they don't really have a home ,,(they're living in the squatters area....) and they only have enough food on the table.... (still they maintained the good life.... ) is the eyes of a child . In their eyes is the warmth and the feeling of being secure...... There is so much to know in their eyes apart from those whose living on the other side.
Contentment, that is what humans should have in their heart, being contented with what they have......
Really, you can't change people for what they are right now, but you can do something with the few people close to you.....
2007-11-17 20:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 types of people in the world. Givers and Takers. I am a giver and I understand your feelings of the takers. It is left up to us to make the world a better place but at the same time we have to learn to take when we need it. Some people want to be taken care of, and some want to learn and experience life and all its avenues. Keep your head up and just know that you will go far in life. Those that are dependent will fall when the givers wake up!!!!!! It is OK to be somewhat dependent as long as it doesn't interfere with reality and everyday life. I like to be needed but at the same time, I like to be respected and enjoyed as well.
2007-11-17 21:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcarolinagirl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion, every1 is born selfish, is juz human nature. Oni when we go thru education, experience and pple to pple interaction, we gradually learn to let go our personal thoughts and insistence then we can spare thoughts for others.
If tat someone you r talking abt is an elder member at home, do you think you can spend a little time to see how things can be better done. If finance is not a problem, get an aide, at least your mind can be at rest when u r not around. Things may not be wat you thought, speak out openly and in a cool and harmonious manner.
People solve problem but not 2 b chained by problems. Good luck.
2007-11-17 20:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They had a malnutrition in education, compassion, and common sense. Sometimes they simply never had anyone to slap their faces so many times while telling them that they are wrong or perhaps someone did but overdone it and it spawns vengeance.
2007-11-17 20:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by chroma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just haven't emotionally matured , or went hungry yet!! I've always got my hands out =WORKING/EARNING $$$$, to have nice things! And then deadbeats come along, and try their best to hook it away from ya!! You've got to work honestly,hard and be overly cautious all of the time!!!
2007-11-17 20:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just be happy you are not like that because those people will never truly be happy.
2007-11-17 20:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently it is for them.
2007-11-17 20:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by busterwasmycat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋