Have you ever known anyone who would get angry and destroy their own things?

Question

.....and is in their early 30's? If you we're in a relationship or married to someone who behaves this way how would you handle it?

I know Mrs G, it would be so much easier to leave him if we we're not married with 2 small children. He acts this way at times but rarely. In the 10 yrs we've been together it has happened 3 times. He agreed to go to an ger man agement, his 2nd session is tomorrow.

Captain...I do the same as you, I treat him like a child when he behaves in this way, but still I don't think I want to stay with someone who acts this way, no matter how many times he says sorry.

Answer 1

The relationship would end immediatley! We all get angry, and there is nothing wrong with being angry, but its all about how you control the anger! Children throw tantrums, adults learn how to channel their anger properly. PS age does not equal adult,

Answer 2

Worse...this fool is in her fifties, and she's a cousin. Sometimes I'll hand her other of her personal items to throw against the wall in mock-"helpfulness" hoping to illustrate a point. Thus far it seems to have been lost on her. It's mildly amusing, though as long as my stuff is safely sequestered.