does anyone else have a parent who DONT want you to date outside of your race, BUT is MIX herself???

Question

ok so my moms mix with puerto rican/white and other backrounds of different races, but she is VERY RACES!! sometimes she expresses hated towards blacks, whites, puerto ricans, and anything else to me. she also at some moments LOVES being puerto rican and talk bad about whites, THEN at an other moment she LOVES being white and hates puerto ricans,....WTF!!!! im more mix with puerto rican cuz my dad is pure rican but i still am mix with white, the only problem i have is the race of any boyfriends i have, once i dated a puerto rican boy and she got pissed off cuz he wasnt white then i had gotten a white boyfriend and she talk sh*t on how he was a white boy and not puerto rican, i NEVER think of showing her a black boyfriend cuz shell k*ll em, im not races but my mom is one of thos odd people who hates her own race and for that matter since she is mix so she hates EVERY race!! n-e has the same problem? what can i do?

Answer 1

Date whoever you want, don't let your mom control you just cause she's racist :)

Answer 2

ok so im half spanish and half white n my mom is soooo against me dating black people its horrible



but what you need to do is sit down n talk to her n say you met this guy n tell her all the really good characteristics about him n when she is like in love with him then say o ya n btw hes not white er sumtin

Answer 3

You do not say how old you are. That will make a difference. Do not let anyone tell you what to do and who to date. Your mother is a racist and a bigot. Have you ever called her on it? I would tell her that you are going to date who you want and you do not care what their ethnic background is.

Answer 4

That's funny mixed people are confused because only their parents are dumb.