So yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me... after a year and some
he said as long as i don't do anything stupid he will come back. i got on myspace today to see one of the girls i begged him not to talk to posted a bulletion saying she was with him that night.
i don't know what to do. because i am so shure that the only reasion he broke up with me is so he could do the stuff i told him not to do... the day before we broke up he told me that if we broke up he would probably kill himself. i don't know what to do. but i just need some giudence. he did this to be before. and we got back together. and that was when we both changed drastically. nether of us trusted eachother. i don't know what to do. i have every right not to trust him. he cheated on me. and he never tells me the truth!
-Shelby
2007-11-18 03:39:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
MY EX BOYFRIEND DID THE SAME THING TO ME WE WERE TOGETHER FOR 5 YEARS AND CHRISTMAS EVE LAST YEAR HE SAYS THAT HE REALLY DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME .I FELT SO CHEAP AND USED THAT WAS THE WORSE CHRISTMAS EVER I CRIED FOR WEEKS BUT THEN MY TEARS TURN INTO ANGER I WANTED TO HURT HIM FOR HURTING ME . BUT THEN I REALIZED THAT HE WAS THE FOOL . SO MY POINT IS THIS YES IT WILL BE HARD BUT YOU SHOULD NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS FROM ANYONE. LOOK AT IT THIS WAY IT IS HIS LOSS. ALSO IF YOU DO NOT HAVE TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE NOTHING. YOU MUST BUILD UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN ORDER FOR IT TO GROW . I HOPE THIS HELPS AND I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOWNING THROUGH.
2007-11-18 04:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he thinks he can keep you hanging round waiting for him to decide to come back to you once he has had his fun.
He also sounds to be emotionally blackmailing you - he threatened to kill himself if you finished things and then he goes and finishes with you and says as long as YOU don't do anything stupid he'll come back.
I would advise you don't ever get back with him, and try and find someone you don't feel the need to ban from doing certain stuff and someone who trusts you too.
Good luck, I know it will be tempting to take him back, but don't!
2007-11-18 11:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard now but you will be better off moving on just think what your future would be like when you married with kids and he is out screwing around and you are home waiting and hoping he comes home. There are so many other guys out there, you will find one who can treat you how you deserve to be treated just don't rush it, it will happen.
2007-11-18 11:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by T T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young emotions running wild....... Nothing is as bad as it seems. You'll both get over this. Don't cheat yourself out of happiness by getting to serious in a relationship this early in life, get around and enjoy yourself. These emotions your experiencing aren't healthy and you need to avoid them and keep all your options open. Good Luck
2007-11-18 11:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are certain that he has cheated you, then dont worry that he broke with you. Just move on and things will be fine.
2007-11-18 11:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by EsBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him girl there are plenty more who will treat you with respect not as a door mat
2007-11-18 11:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. this guy is not at your level.
2007-11-18 11:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋