everyone has a passion & loves people. like family or friends. i m questioning my feelings, cuz i m like very unsentimental. it just feels weird when family or friends say "luv ya!" or something. how do i get comfortable to say "i love you" to someone? How do you know if u do really love some1? cuz its not right to say that to just anybody. please answer, cuz idk wat my problem is!
2007-11-18 09:24:46 · 2 answers · asked by advice giver & needer! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your problem is the same as everyone else, your trying to put an unrealistic, unnatural ideal of love, on the TRUE reality of love. Guess what that is? LOVE IS A PRIMITIVE EMOTION!!! If you feel ANYTHING, its because of love. So you love them, thats not the point, thats NOT what your really having problems with!!!! Love's deeper then some f'in on and off switch. What your dealing with is the really, really hard part of love, the HOW to love. And that hunnie comes down to you and your own style. Me personal, I don't like saying "I love you", I'll say "F'U", "I hate you", "Screw you" WAY before I'll say it, becuase for me ACTIONS speck louder then words. Those same people I'll sarcastically say I hate you to, I'll also ask about their lives, their hopes, their dreams, fears, asperiations, motications, perceptions, just about EVERYTHING having to do with that person, thats my way in my actions of expressing "I love you". So realize this, that love is the most primitive, most hard-2-the-core, emotions, becuase its ALWAYS there, what you do with it, how you allow it to grow, and for what purpose, those are your choices, and thats why it so f'in hard to just say "I love you". For some, it means more then 3 words, figure it for yourself, I've got an e-mail, I would be more then happy to help you along. But alas must people don't get this stuff anyways....
2007-11-19 02:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fooled around with a guy in severe college and instructed all people that he had a small penis (which he did, it became into abnormally tiny) and felt so undesirable afterwards..i nonetheless do in the present day 7 years later. The meanest element somebody did to me became into my father and mom telling me while i became into thirteen that i became into too a lot hardship and that they did no longer % me to stay there anymore... :(
2017-01-05 17:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋