I am extremely introverted, so severe that my wife thinks I am sick? I personally see nothing is wrong, and attempt to socialize for my wife's benefit, which does appease her. However, given the chance, I would prefer solitude to a party any day. This is absolute opposite of every other member of my biological family who are all socialites. I do not even want to go see them half the time. Is it wrong to be this way? Should I change?
2007-11-24 12:18:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, you shouldn't change what makes you energized and happy. I'm really introverted and shy. Extroverts get their energy from socializing. I'm not like that and I like people more modest. But, you should try to do things that your wife likes like seeing family and everything. I do it even though it's painful sometimes because I'm shy. But I also like challenging myself and talking about interesting things with others.
I read a lot and my wife respects that but I respect her that we have to go out and do things sometimes. I've always longed for good friends but I'm probably too critical of them. I also enjoy my independent hobbies. Good luck and be who you are!
2007-11-24 12:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by joe s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just who you are,thats all. try to let go of what other people might think.just be comfortable with who "you" are shine on..........if not, maybe some prozac or another antidepressant.go talk to you doctor :)
2007-11-24 12:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wife was okay with it when she married you, so why is it a problem now. No, don't change. . . be yourself.
2007-11-24 12:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋