My cousin just came down here to my house a few days ago, ever since he has been here, my older brother has been teamin up on me and has been like kickin me and stuff like that please tell me what i need to do!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-24 03:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by Country Grl :P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Pepperspray them in the eyes or hit back.
Let them know you mean business.
2007-11-24 03:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is obvious that your brother is trying to show off for your cousin, which will only increase his bravado. Once your cousin leaves, this abusive behavior by your brother may not stop as he sees he can get away with it. Once an individual realizes they can be abusive in a physical manner, history states it will only get worse. First, try confronting your brother by himself and explain that you do not like him acting in such a way and ask why he is doing so. Let him know you are confused by his violent actions and that it hurts you emotionally as well as physically. If this does not help your situation, then I would take this problem to your parents.
I hope you find some help with this question as I hate knowing you are in an abusive situation. Never allow someone to put their hands on you against your wishes, regardless of who it is.
2007-11-24 12:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Levi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being aggressive is not a way to solve problems and hitting your brother is a very bad solution. If you have another sister or brother at home team up with them but without hitting try to let him feel the same way you felt then if he didn't apologize talk to him and tell him that you love him and you just want him to feel how bad was what he did to you.
2007-11-24 12:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like your cousin is a bad influence on your brother and it is probably just a phase or something, but even though its not right to hit ppl, next time he does it i would slap or hit him just ti show him your not playing around and you dont wanna be kicked. It would better just to get your parents involved.
2007-11-24 11:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by ng18 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you should talk to your mom first about it and if you feel that you are too embarrassed then simply tell him not to mess around with you. Have some friends come over and team up on them.
2007-11-24 11:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
where is your parents??? tell them and if not they are guys punch them or kick them in the balls. That should make them stop and if they dont keep doing it until they do.other than that leave and go to a relatives house and tell them you do not want to stay there cause you fear for your safety
2007-11-24 12:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to sound like a drag, but have you told your parents about his behavior? If you don't want to do this, I would suggest going to your room (or any room with a lock) and locking or barring the door to avoid him. If he's not going to play nice, then don't play with him.
2007-11-24 11:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by elvenkayt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How much older are they? Either get rough and whip their butts or talk to your mom about it and ask her to talk to them and please have them stop. Your brother is probably trying to show off and act big in front of his cousin.===
2007-11-24 12:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by lana s 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to explain to your mom whats going on. Thats just the best way to do it.
And you can also put a hidden camera so when they do something to you, you'll have it on video. And you can show your mom, and your cousins mom, whats going on. Believe me it will work.
Good luck!
2007-11-24 11:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ஜღMRS.STARღஜ♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Stay away from them
and tell ur parents
or some other elderly figure
2007-11-24 11:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋