how do i leave someone , when its in there best interest?

Question

i have dated my boyfriend for 4 years we live together , and have a 7 month old old daughter
but i have changed and its hurting him , he feels like he cant trust me , and sometimes
he acts out for no reson thinking i am trying to leave him when its the the oppisite
i tell guys i am not avavilable and he see's i am out flaunting and inviting new company
i have never given him a reason to think i would cheat or stray from our releationship
but for the sake of my daughter i have to end this . its hard to be someone your proud of when no one eles around you thinks your worth squat .
i cant teach my daughter that this is how life is spose to be

Answer 1

Wise, makes me expect you've been the daughter of someone who was abused, that aside. I'm actually not sure how pointless it would be tring to get this mans head strait, I really don't. Your discription is good, but you giving up like this means a lot, pretty intense really, so that tells me alot right there. The problem thou, is that your daughter is your purpose, this could drive you back if you ever precieve a change is possible in him, or if you ever feel you might be able to bring him to change. Its not easy cutting ties with a man you've had a kiddo with, I've seen it time and time again. But is he in any well willing to put forth any effort to change? Because that would be the line that would be between hope and desperation. Could be your not sure how to make it work, but if you see that you can't, no advice is worth it to take, just leave, your purpose, your direction has changed and you better take that hard-2-the-core. Remember now that, THAT purpose is

"teach my daughter how life is spose to be"

Good luck, the path is long, but the rewards great and the people waiting... wonderful.....