Other - Family & Relationships - 29 August 2007

2007-08-29 17:28:03 · 2 answers · asked by superman 1

I've been with my fiance for three and a half years and everywhere we go we get people who look at us weird or make certain remarks....he's black and I'm white....is it really that wrong?....love knows no color....I don't see him for his color I see him for who he is....I even have trouble with his parents accepting me....and although they say it has nothing to do with me being white...I think that has a lot to do with it....why does it have to be such a big deal....no matter what anyone says we are still going to continue to love eachother regardless....but any advice on how to deal or why this happens?

2007-08-29 17:16:44 · 6 answers · asked by pretty_in_pink88 1

she calls me her husband then she tells me that she wants to kiss me and one time she was eatin a chocolate and i said you got some there let me lick it off so once i got real close she laughed and backed up a little. then one time she says that were going to run away and i said what about your bf she says ohh well ill throw him down a cliff. what does this mean does she like me or not

2007-08-29 17:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 2 months..
Lately my jealousy has been out of control, and i'm constantly worried.
Tonight my boyfriend went out, and i know this sounds like possessive, but he didnt tell me where. I was talking to him then he asked if he could call me back, he never did. And i know he went out somewhere.
i've been sooo worried about losing him even though he says that i have nothing to worry about, cause he loves me and thinks im perfect, etc.
Anyway, i just don't know what to do anymore, it feels like its starting to drive me crazy.
Please can yous just give some advice to get over my jealousy and worrying constantly?

2007-08-29 16:51:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 2 months..
Lately my jealousy has been out of control, and i'm constantly worried.
Tonight my boyfriend went out, and i know this sounds like possessive, but he didnt tell me where. I was talking to him then he asked if he could call me back, he never did. And i know he went out somewhere.
i've been sooo worried about losing him even though he says that i have nothing to worry about, cause he loves me and thinks im perfect, etc.
Anyway, i just don't know what to do anymore, it feels like its starting to drive me crazy.
Please can yous just give some advice to get over my jealousy and worrying constantly?

2007-08-29 16:45:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long would you date someone before getting engaged? Would you want to do it right away or would you wait a few years?

2007-08-29 16:44:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend loves it when I call him little baby names. I am running out of names and I'm getting tired of calling him the same thing. List as many as you know, thanks! And his name is Mike if that helps.

2007-08-29 16:33:08 · 6 answers · asked by Jess. 2

I was trying to impress a guy but he just ignored me. We used to be together. After he broke up with me, I saw him checking me out again. I tried to talk to him but he ignored me. I am thinking I'm not good enough for him. Then I ask one of my friend for comfort. He said I'm not good enough but good enough. What does that suppose to mean? He also said I'm good enough but not good enough. Any tips on what is that suppose to mean?

2007-08-29 16:26:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

In January I decided to quit my job (of 6 yrs- 5 in sales 1 in managment) as Operations Manager to pursue a degree in Education. The responsabilities of the job were a lot and the pay was not that great. I have two young boys (2 and 5) and wanted to be home with them. I enjoyed woring there but was unhappy w/ the pay. After I quit very few people kept in touch. There was one girl who I would talk to which I confided in her my real reasons for quitting the $$$ I gave my boss the excuse of me wanting to be a stay at home mom.( I never told him I was unhappy w/ the pay). This girl called me today to tell me that my position was offered to her and she accepted. I was hurt and sad. why???? I do not understand why. I am now a full time student and happy. Why did her news affect me so much?? Is it that I want the job back or what?

2007-08-29 16:25:33 · 2 answers · asked by estrella 1

I was recently asked this and then after I came up with my answers (God, family, friends) I was asked if anything else was really worth getting all bent out shape about.

*SMACK* right in my forehead. A darn good point though! If people aren't attacking the main things that define us, why in the world are we letting ourselves get all upset and yelling at the lady/man at the drive thru window?

My new rule to try to live by is: If it doesn't really hurt me or the things that are most important to me or those who can't help/defend themselves, then I'm going to do my best to smile and keep on truckin and not let myself give it a second thought.

I know I'm all cheesy sounding. :) That's ok. I'm happy today and I don't care. ;oP

2007-08-29 16:22:55 · 7 answers · asked by J C 3

My girlfriend is 4 1/2 months pregnant and she acts like she doesn't want to be held or loved on. I have always longed for touchy feely kind of stuff and she doesn't want it. I have to always have to tell her I love her first and when I tell her, why don't you ever tell me first, she tells me, sorry I don't act the way you want me to act. We are fighting now and I need you opinion. I am probably in the wrong, I know that. Thanks!!

2007-08-29 16:21:13 · 6 answers · asked by BIG FRIENDLY 4

What are 10 things you would do? Not necessarily yout top 10...just any 10 things you would do.

I would:
1. Build a new house
2. Set up a college fund for my son
3. Buy a new car
4. Pay off all of my husband and I's student loans
5. Pay off ALL of our credit cards
6. Buy new clothes
7. Quit school
8. Give my brother money to start a restaurant
9. Go on vacation
10. Go on another vacation

2007-08-29 16:11:23 · 3 answers · asked by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6

i agree that some things adults want to post and are valid questions to ask should not be posted since there are young people on Yahoo Answers as well but its not fair to adults who want to post certain questions and cant for fear of a violation of Yahoo Answers. sometimes people have been violated for things that were not too mature. i even received a violation for asking a question asking if you had any secret you need to get off your chest. now how was that a violation? i still havent heard from customer service on that one. anyways, what do you feel about my initial question?

2007-08-29 16:05:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I care about my husband, but I know that I stopped being in love with him a long time ago. We've been trying to have kids for 5 years now (same length of time we've been married). As much as I want to be a mother, I don't really want to have kids with my husband. He's a kid on his own and not only that, but I've fallen out of love with him and I'm currently in love with someone else.

We're about to start the IVF (invitro fertilization) in a few months, and I'm just wondering if I should go thru it or not. I feel like if I don't then, I'll never be able to have a child (I'm 30). Should I just go through it and if successful, keep the baby, still stay in the marriage for the sake of marriage or not go through it and be with someone who makes me happy? I feel like I'm getting to old and I may never be able to have a child, but I feel like I'm doing it with the wrong person as well.

2007-08-29 15:56:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was so interested in him @ first. I thought we were perfect and for eachother. I didnt know him that well But i knew he was a manly man an outdoor lover and everyone said hed treat me like a queen. Since we been dating, He never ever comes to my town to see me, and didnt call me for two days. Actually he did come to my town but didnt even called me cuz he thougt I wouldnt be avalable. which is gay, i would have loved to see him! I always drive my a$$ all the way to his place (and I dont hav any money, he makes a lot!) and he doesnt even come see me!! I am just frustrated with it. When I ask him about it he said hes so busy and that its a 2-way street. What should I do? Should I dump him? BY The way we are nine yrs apart. I feel lkie he just wants sex but he said he loves me. Which If he really feels that way he will b crushed if I dump him, as I am his first gf in 5 yrs. We have been dating 2 months and hes never taken me out. :( I have paid for him plenty of times.can i end it nice

2007-08-29 15:35:38 · 2 answers · asked by daenarys 3

I like this gurl, and we are both in the same 11 grade US History class, but she sits on the other side of the room, and everyone kinda has seats they sit in every day, they're not assigned, but i dont really want to take someones seat. And i know i need to get to know her before I make any moves, But i dont know how to get to know her, because i dont know what to say if i see her in the halls. (Actually its a portable, so it would be on the way back to the school) and i dont want to make her late.

What should I do?

2007-08-29 15:23:58 · 3 answers · asked by helix 1

i just recently moved 2 pa and i haave 2 get my license here soon. can someone tell me what to expect for the test. what do u have to do. how to pass. i kno @ home, it was only parallel parking and driving. r there 3 point turns or u turns? some one was telling me u had to back into a space. Help please

2007-08-29 15:02:07 · 2 answers · asked by LOV 4 EVE 2

what does this mean

2007-08-29 14:59:43 · 1 answers · asked by questionable 1

every day more and more people are hanging out together ,so every day i look more and more left out,i over heard a kid saying he felt bad for me,5 kids came to me while i had my face down ona school desk,i hesitated so i said i was sleepy,more and more singled out.last year i failed a grade so i was sick of my self,i also was forced to change schools and i got fatter,my self confidence was and still is gone,the whole year i ignored everyone,if someone said hi,i hi'd them back,but i had a bad attitude(thats weird for me,people used to call me happy go lucky)keep on acting like that,so no friends.what can i do to get my confidence back?and i can't quit sweating about little things!if anyone can please help,my family is starting to think that i have a "complex"you know where you cut your self and stuff,i don't tho.ina little while i'll still be acting like a new kid,everyone looks at my strangly already!im in high school,help?!

2007-08-29 14:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by Vergil 3

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and his birthday is next month. Any gift ideas? He'll be turning 21, but he doesn't drink.

2007-08-29 14:17:09 · 2 answers · asked by Rebecca 1

I have had a b/f for the past 2 two months. I dont think that he would cheat on me physically but when he looks at other women and i dont mean at there face, it bothers me and I feel betrayed He said he likes to look at women and he knows that it does bother me, but I dont want to make an issue over it, but it really does bother me. When i was younger, someone tried to fondle me and it really has made me not trust men,as this man was a relative of mine.

2007-08-29 14:16:24 · 18 answers · asked by L M 1

I was raped when I was in 7th grade. I'm in 10th now. Anyways people know about it,well like my parents,&a few teachers. Anyways I was just so scared when I came out about it & I don't know I felt like it as somehow my fault. Anyways my cousins were over and they wanted me to go over a friends house so I did, and there was these older guys over there & yeah I was hanging out with this guy name Justin I mean I never met him before, anyways I was sitting on the couch with his &he had his arm around me, they were like drunk, and I kept pushing his arm off but he kept doing it, and then he like started kissing all on my face and i kept telling him to stop but he wouldn't, & I don't know I have this fear of guys so I froze, and didn't get up & then he placed his hands in my pants and touched me. Idk still irrated & stuff in that area maybe its mental Idk. But I need to tell but I can't tell my parents, I just can't, there is this 1 teacher, but I don't want to go through this again! Help?

2007-08-29 14:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfiend that ive been seing just over a month, he's my ex's close mate, which sounds really bad, but he's risking his friendship to be with me, and his mate (my ex) doesnt know about us yet.
at first he seemed really keen 2 see me all the time, but now he doesnt seem as keen and doesnt contact me often. and says hes busy. But hes going to uni in a couple of weeks and hes stressed about it so im wondering if that may be it. however wen he does make the effort to see me, hes lovely and tells me he loves me etc.
ive asked him if he def wants to be with me, and he says yes but im unsure. lads are so confusing.

2007-08-29 14:13:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love sports, to play and watch, but there is only so much I can take. He will watch re-runs and sports center in the morning before work and the minute he gets home is highlights, Pardon the Interuption, and Around the Horn until a game comes on and then throughout the whole game he's flipping between "classic" football games, golf and baseball until bed time, and even then he's falling asleep to sports. I love sports, but COME ON! I've told him several times but he shrugs it off. What more can I go besides complain or just sit there and watch it (which I feel like I've done PLENTY of this summer) Any ideas?????

2007-08-29 14:06:59 · 2 answers · asked by SadToday22 3

Whether it be books, magazines, dvd, vcr, vhs, pc, movies.*

2007-08-29 13:15:20 · 3 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

im 21 my bf is 29 i just got hired in at target that is not even open yet but I start in 2 weeks working 30 hrs that week thats all i got so far, I told my bf and he tells me it only going to be a PT job from what I see if you want to move out together you need either a FT or another PT job it not going to be enough money coming in to pay for a place of pur own... (he works a FT job 40+ hrs as a landscaper and has side mows on the weekends.) ...1. the place is not even open yet and 2. we dont live together yet. I dont want to end my relationship with him his is my first for a lot... first guy to see me naked, fist guy to have sex with, my first REAL relationship, the first one for his family to like me, the first to like me as is, my first love...

2007-08-29 13:00:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they both need to stay away from eachother.

They are a pain for eachother. Life is more rewarding without one another.

2007-08-29 12:47:42 · 19 answers · asked by Strive to Survive 2

My boyfriends sister and mom are going out of town this weekend. They have a really badold beaten up car so they will be renting a car. When they told my boyfriend that they're renting a car he volunteered to let them borrow my car for the weekend. But my car is brand new. Its a 2007 Eclipse and it has 22 crome rims.

Here's the reason why I said no, they are very careless with everything. I mean one time we loaned them our bikes and they gave them back broken and dirty and we had to spend money to get them fixed. And about 2 years ago I was lending his sister (how was 17 at the time) my 98 honda for a few days and she got chocolate milkshake all over the floor and ceiling and didn't even apologize. And she gave it back dirty and on empty.

So he says I'm over reacting about not lending them my new car. Do you think I was over reacting or would you let them borrow your brand new car?

2007-08-29 12:22:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need recommendation for a relationship/sex therapist in the Los Gatos (California) area - thanks.

2007-08-29 10:53:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband always has some and hides it in random spots throughout the house. I happen to know he has some right now from the way he's acting, but i can't find it. If you were gonna hide porn, where would you hide it?

2007-08-29 10:45:55 · 8 answers · asked by M 2