I came home last night to find my companion masturbating to pornography! We have been together (exclusively) for 7 years now, and this is the FIRST time this has ever happened (that I know about).
What strikes a nerve the most is the fact that he denied it. I tend to believe him blindly, but as I was online I stumbled across some disturbing websites.
He denied it, leading me to believe he KNOWS he was doing something wrong and while doing it he KNEW I would be hurt/upset by finding out, since he lied, lied, and lied by trying to hide it.
We suffer from a healthy sex life from the beginning, you see I want to make love just about ALL the time, and he for some reason can conform himself with once a month. In fact asking him for sex, or trying to get him aroused is a task in itself (he'd rather sleep). It would be easier and faster to wait for rain in the middle of a drought.
My friends say "Cheating is doing something u suspect or know would make ur partner uncomfortable."
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2007-08-29
09:35:49
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