I often get bullied, I am 14 and have been getting bullied for a while now. I a a very sensitive person, no an extremely sensitive person! If somebody calls me a dumb *** and they are joking around it still will hurt my feelings. And I really hate that I take everybody seriously, and I take everything so personally. What can I do to stop taking everything so personally?
2007-08-29 07:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by Labeless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lots of people fall victim to bullies. And you are at the toughest age I really feel for you. I can remember those days all to well. I was the biggest kid in my class, fatest too. And got my butt kicked daily (usually a fair fight too, like 3 on 1), As you lose confidence you become a social outcast. I remember.
But goodnews this was also right about the age everything changed for me. I had an uncle and my older sister's husband who took me under their wings. One taught me to box, the other got me into weights. Over a summer I made some big changes in my life. Also the friends you make now through college will be the ones that are the truest. So be outgoing and make some good friends. Its amazing how much more brave you feel when you have friends with you. So if you catch that big growth spurt this year and suddenly find yourself on top of your game. remember where you came from. One of my fondest memories of high school was 11th grade. I caught a senior in the halls between classes roughing up a couple of 8th graders. Well lets just say the 8th graders had a servent for the day when I got done with him. Use your powers for good and that sensitive heart will become a big heart. Which the chicks will dig also in combination with all that confidence you're going to have once you decide to take control and workout and so on.
Good Luck
2007-08-29 07:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by bigitalyguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to build up your self esteem, you must not think highly of yourself. Say stuff back that you can joke about... if you know its a joke then you have to learn to deal with it.
2007-08-29 14:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember the saying "Stick and stones". Nothing they say will hurt you, and as long as you know it aint true youe should not let it bother you as much, beside my favorite thing is at first if you can't get even, then get revenge!!
2007-08-29 14:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tactical Medic 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try taking a martial arts course....you will learn mental techniques to harden yourself along with physical ones to defend yourself.....I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS!!!
2007-08-29 14:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go talk to your school counseler and explain that you need someone to talk to. They have help at school for you, all you need to do is ask. I know you asked here, but no one here can give all the help you will need.
2007-08-29 14:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, well sweetie ... your never going to find a girlfriend if your a wimp.
Man up and stop being a cry baby.
2007-08-29 14:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋