Other - Family & Relationships - 9 August 2007

Long story short: In May, we reconnected with an old friend (a male) that I used to work eight years ago. Unbeknownst to him at the time, I had something of a crush on him and still do. Well, we got to talking every day with even some mild flirting going on, and I felt confident enough (in early July) to send him a rose pic with a message that said "Just because". Well, he was uncomfortable with that. We were still friends, though, and still talked almost every day. Well, there is a woman I put on my Friends list (I went to high school with her) and now he and her are in love, and now he only talks to me like once a week, and it's usually one- or two-word message. This female Friend says it's not me; it's because he's busy. I have trouble believing that, because he is online on MySpace all the time, and when I tried to e-mail him, he reads his e-mail but doesn't answer. Do I need to just not contact him at all and let him contact me?

2007-08-09 23:53:40 · 6 answers · asked by Diane 1

2007-08-09 23:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

My boyfriend of 2years doesnt let me go out with my friends. He gives me the silent treatment if i go home to see my family. He recently made me delete my bebo account because i had male friends from school on it. He checks my phone and email all the time. I know i shouldn be with him but i do love him and we have a 4 month old baby together. I grew up without my father and i always swore i wouldn do that to my child but im startin to think that maybe havin no father would be better for her than havin a father like that?

2007-08-09 22:45:03 · 22 answers · asked by ollieoops 3

2007-08-09 22:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 22:27:12 · 4 answers · asked by me 1

or the most traumatic thing that has left you so scarred?

2007-08-09 21:36:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

does it ever scare you how much power you potentially have to destroy them?

2007-08-09 21:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5

plz answer me

2007-08-09 20:36:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ah! This is the worst thing I have ever felt. I have been with my current boyfriend now for almost a year- I am even taking him to my hometown this weekend so that he can meet my family. But recently, I moved to another city (completely uprooted myself to do so) and have met another person, who is incredibly amazing. I don't know this guy well enough though to sacrifice my relationship for him AND my current boyfriend has been an unconditional and incredible support for me suring our whole relationship - but I can't help what I am feeling and I am confused! I guess I am looking for some validation. Please do not say anything nasty, I am a geniunely nice human being (with a major, major problem).

2007-08-09 20:06:43 · 11 answers · asked by FutureDoc 2

And you have been coming home late from work recently and your mate from school has been waiting for you. He then tells you he is to marry next week and wishes you to be the best man and you go out for a booze up to celebrate. When you return you find your sister sobbing her heart out in her room. You knock the door and go in to ask her whats the matter. She tells you he told her terrible lies and she was stupid and believed it. She got herself used and abused in every way and she allowed him to perform undocumented acts of vile with her. Because she believed him! You also know his fiancee is 6 months pregnant and his future missus is a really nice woman despite this guy being such a cruel dictator of the sex world. What would you do?

2007-08-09 19:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-09 19:41:20 · 2 answers · asked by kamran k 1

I found some porn sites on my computer and also found out some other illigal activities my 20yr has been into. He made it my business when he envolved me.I love him with all my heart but I feel I lost my son when I did this. I have a restraining order on him. I am very afraid of him.I want him to get help with his problems. I offered many times. I am a disabled veteran and he pulls one of his sick stunts 1 time a month. "To see if mom loves me enough to find out the truth. I can't take it anymore. I am so drained. I worry about him all the time. Please pray for him. His name is Daniel. He needs alot of help. Don't think me the ogre, just the mom who is so tired and ready to disappeared all together. Bless you all. Cheryl

2007-08-09 18:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by silvrhawk 2

My boyfriend is 34 and was circumcised three years ago. He rarely ever ejaculates during sex. He's able to stay erect for hrs, but he says he can't climax because his " member" goes numb after a lot of penetration. He also has hinted that he was never able to get his ex's pregnant. Does this have to do with his circumcision?

2007-08-09 18:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my daughter's father for 3 years now, but Im unhappy. He is a great father and we get along for the most part, but lately things have been diffrent. I found out he uses his phone to chat with other women and have them send naked pictures of themselves and he has gone as far as call the whores who send the pics. his phone is always on low or vibrate and he just recently locked his phone book so I can see names but I can't see phone numbers. When I confront him he either ignors me or gets angry, and all this started after I had our baby and lost my nice figure. I am currently in school and he is the sole bread winner, so I am afraid to leave him for finacial reasons. Everyone I know thinks he is a gem(he helps around the house, he tends to our 11 month old, he is the only one working while Im in school,and he gose around brainwashing people that he"loves"me.Would some that loves you try and be so secrative???? Im stuck and don't know what to do - deal with it or move ?

2007-08-09 18:01:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were together for two months. I took care of his son, house, laundry, and dog. Still he thinks that I was smothering him, after I statrted working and seeing him only twice a week, maybe. But, I wasnt even living with him, and he pursued the relationship. Whats wrong with thois picture. Do I need to try and fix this or just leave him alone for good. I LOVE HIM!!!

2007-08-09 16:38:52 · 23 answers · asked by tenderheart 1

I had been out of town and was traveling back home to my wife.

I stopped at this gas station to use the restroom and get a soda.

I had never been at this place before. I never seen or talked to this woman before, quite simply didn't know her at all. I am not ugly however i am no Harrison Ford, or Sean Connery.

Now this all happened in about a 30 second time frame.

I walked in, and as soon as i entered the door the woman behind the register says to me, "Hey i get off in 2 hrs, you want to go out?" At first i didn't think she was talking to me, but i looked around the store and since there was no one else there. I held up my hand and pointed at my wedding band and said, "Umm no, Didn't you see this?" To which the woman behind the counter said, "So?" She still wanted me to meet her.

What in the heck would have caused a woman to ask a guy she never met before, who was obviously married, out on a date? Are women really this desperate these days?

2007-08-09 16:37:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, this guy (guy A) and I work together, (we are both promoted to the same level), and there is SOMETHING there. You guys know, the subtle eye-catching, the easy laughter/joke telling, (basically we can talk easily to each other), serious when need be, etc. It has been going on for about 3 weeks. He is not tied down...

...However, I have been dating this guy (guy B) for over 3 years. Our relationship is very extreme, one day it is amazing, the next we are screaming at each other about everything, from him dropping out of jr. college, to me spending too much time working towards my dream, etc. I feel like we continue to date because of memories we have. But he is compleatly devoted to me, and it would break his heart if I left.

I have never been much of a gambler, but is that potential SOMETHING worth it? Suggestions would be greatly appreciated seeing how I cannot reach my friends to talk about it at the moment, and the different point of view would help. (I am almost 20)

2007-08-09 15:29:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay...i have known this guy im seeing since middle school...so thats like, 10 years. we were never close friends or anything, we just knew each other. so we recently hooked up, and he is just so completely perfect...i cant believe the connection! its like, theres never been anyone that ive felt more comfortable with, and he feels the exact same way about me too. i dont know how or why, but i almost think its love at first sight, because every time were together, i have to stop myself from saying i love you...i dont want to freak him out, lol!
has anyone ever felt like this before? i just cant stop talking about him, cant stop thinking about him...*Sigh*

2007-08-09 15:24:17 · 6 answers · asked by twinkles1614 2

History is in the making for my life. But I can never seem to forget about my past. To much memories of pain and hurt. Every time i think of my past, a tear drop rolls down my cheek. But then when i think about what the world holds in store for me, a smile is thrusted apon my face. "Why can't I let go?" I ask myself everyday, and never seem to find an answer. Was it because all the beatings I took, will make me see how much more i have. Or to remind myself of who I really am, and to show the person behind the mask. Looking back is painful, but it also is to forward. Would I be judged wrong because I would forget those who have nutured me from birth? Would I be looked at differently? I WANT to let go, but i cant. I seem to hold a grudge agianst everyone. To all those who made me feel worthless, and uneeded.

Why can't I let go????

2007-08-09 13:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by flora_marrugi 1

2007-08-09 13:01:13 · 18 answers · asked by Natalia 4

2007-08-09 12:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by know it all 1

Well my dad drinks like beer every day
like 4
and the limit is 2
and i tell him but he doesnt listen
he says tht he doesnt hurt anybody
and that he is really thirsty
i tell him to drink water but he doesnt like water
i throw away all the beers but tht doesnt stop him to go buy more
also cigarrates i throw them out but he still keeps buying
he doesnt want to understand

2007-08-09 12:02:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anniie Bananiie <333 2

IMO it goes

1-Japan
2-Brazil
3-Thailand
4-Cuba
5-Philipines
6-Mexico
7-Lebanon
8-Puerto Rico
9-Iran
10-Vietnam
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Last-America

I would also rank several species of ape and arangatang ahead of American women.

2007-08-09 11:46:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok we have been together for 5 long years. We love each other very much and have been through alot. I have stood by him no matter what and now he wants out. He says he loves me and is not making any attempt to leave. He doesnt understand why im angry.

2007-08-09 11:32:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I get back with my ex-girlfriend? Beacause she called me asked if i wanted to get back together with her? The thing is I graduated from High School this year! And I probably won't see her anymore! Unless i visti the High School? What do you thing about that?

Please help!

Thanks!

P.S. She also said she has a crush on me again!

P.S. We decided to break up because our ages, I was 17 turning 18 and she was 15 turning 16 at the time!

I know someone who was in the same situation! And when she turned 18 she was back with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend was like in the 20s!

Also, I'm not going to college! But I will be going to a Program called "Futures" and it's only 10 minutes away from the High School!

2007-08-09 11:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by Uncle Bryan | Tío Bryan: Sevant Of Jesus Christ 4

Should I get back with my ex-girlfriend? Beacause she called me asked if i wanted to get back together with her? The thing is I graduated from High School this year! And I probably won't see her anymore! Unless i visti the High School? What do you thing about that?

Please help!

Thanks!

P.S. She also said she has a crush on me again!

P.S. We decided to break up because our ages, I was 17 turning 18 and she was 15 turning 16 at the time!

I know someone who was in the same situation! And when she turned 18 she was back with her boyfriend, but her boyfriend was like in the 20s!

2007-08-09 10:47:05 · 20 answers · asked by Uncle Bryan | Tío Bryan: Sevant Of Jesus Christ 4

well,a week ago i went to camp and she was my counselor. I'm 13 and she's 20. She was a really big role model for me,she didn't care what people thought of her,and she was really pretty,even though she didn't realize it.Now that i'm back i think about her all the time and i really want to be with her 24/7 and i want her to like me and know how much she means to me.I don't think i'm 'in love' with her but i'm just wondering why i feel this way.

2007-08-09 10:40:15 · 5 answers · asked by Lisa 1

2007-08-09 10:33:01 · 1 answers · asked by girl 3

Should I get back with my ex-girlfriend? Beacause she called me and asked me if i wanted to get back together with her? The thing is I graduated from High School this year! And I probably won't see her anymore! Unless i visit the High School? What do you thing about that?

Please help!

Thanks!

P.S. She also said she has a crush on me still!

2007-08-09 10:25:38 · 28 answers · asked by Uncle Bryan | Tío Bryan: Sevant Of Jesus Christ 4

My best friend just enlisted into the army.

What is something special I can give to him that he can always wear or keep?

2007-08-09 10:04:58 · 13 answers · asked by Bada Bada 1