Other - Family & Relationships - 11 August 2007

2007-08-11 22:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Finally me and my guy-friend are bf & gf but we just started having sex 2 days ago but the only problem is that he wants to practice s&m on me during sex which is really scaring me.S&M means Sadism and Masochism.If anyone does'nt know what it means then basicaly it's torturing during sex, look it up.
well anyway i was just wondering has anyone tryed it? because i am so frickin scared to incase it hurts REALLLY BAD.is it that painfull? or should i just go along with it and see how it goes? he's really into which i never knew...weird so i probably don't have a choice...haha :[

and he wants to involve knifes which freaks me out.

2007-08-11 21:30:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys,
My boyfriend and I are celbrating our 2 year of out first date tomorrow and I really would appreciate if I could get some really creative, inexpensive ideas to get him as a gift(s)He is really into batman, superman, spiderman, comic books, etc. I have already bought him many comic books, and A BATMAN t shirt.Is there any other ideas? He is also into working out and he is 28 years old.

Thank you!

2007-08-11 20:44:53 · 6 answers · asked by Confused but hopeful 2

Why would a person who I don't even talk to anymore and haven't talked to since a year ago, apologize a year later for something that really wasn't anything that was more my fault why they did it, and not say anything else?

2007-08-11 19:59:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am going through some difficult times and im looking for someone that i would be able to talk to and help me through my issue... the issue is my mother.. she is baicly dieing she has been having small anurisms on her brain sence 2005 and the dr's are just now starting to do extensive research... anyway im tearing up so if u can help me hit me up.. thanks

2007-08-11 19:50:10 · 4 answers · asked by USELESS_WINGS 3

and i never exactly met him...but i talk 2 him all the time....(i met him through a mutual friend) what can i do, or i dont kno for him. i cant go visit him hes too far and he cant come here lol...so any ideas please.. thanks

2007-08-11 19:33:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy....i cant get over him. ive liked him for way too long. he use to like me and i dont think he does anymore

2007-08-11 19:32:49 · 2 answers · asked by hug-whore 2

OK, so my question is...Why do Girls like dating bad boys. I mean, I understand u girls like a guy who is not predictable & easy & u want a challenge, but is it really worth the sorrow of displeasure in the long run? Personally I do feel like I am one of those good guys but likes a challenge & wants 2 be with a girl who knows wut she wants. See the thing is I like this girl and in my eyes she is pretty, What is the best method to take if you like a girl who has low self esteem about herself, is it worth trying to change her? I mean she does like me so thats good and she wants reassurance from me, but I cannot believe how much her ex b/f broke her down mentally with his stupid ways, & personally wen girls say its a challenge or they wanna confident guy. To be honest with u guys, I have met Michael Jordan at his bball camp, yet I always heard he was a jerk on the court because he had desire to win and knew what he wanted, but off the court, seriously one of the most genuine ppl out there

2007-08-11 19:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Just Ask 1

I was reading about Bush's new military adviser Lt. General Douglas Lute saying, "The Draft is worth considering". http://www.truthout.org/docs_2006/081107Y.shtml

As for me, I came of age in 1980 when Carter reinstated the Selective Service System, and, in all honesty, it scared the pants off me, then. So, I greeted this news with mixed feelings, like maybe I'd like to see them try it, just to give the younger generation the same run for their money...
How about you? How would you feel if Bush reinstated the Draft?

2007-08-11 18:28:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do u kno if ur over ur EX or kno if u still have feelings 4 him/her?in my case him~lol~

2007-08-11 18:25:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my son is 19 and wants to move to las vegas, please give me some more reasons why this isnt a good odea.....anyone with personl experiences??

2007-08-11 17:37:26 · 2 answers · asked by pppppffffttt 2

I would love to see my dear mother! There are so many times when I wish I had her to talk to for her wise & caring advice!

2007-08-11 16:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by 100% ♥Creole♥ 7

Ok, so i have typed this up once already but it didn't work so i have had 2 type it all out again. This time i wont go into into great detail as it took me ages to type it all up before and now i really can not be bothered.
Recently, i have been hearing a lot about incest. I get the general idea of what incest is but i am still not 100% clear on it.
I know it is great for siblings to be close and have a good relationship but can you really be to close? How far can a girl go with her 2 older brothers? Is this classed as incest? Lots of cuddling, often telling eachother you love them, kissing (Not snogging or kissing on the lips but a little kiss on the head or cheek) being in the same bed as eachother (Not having sex but just laying next 2 eachother cuddling and talking or watching T.V) Spending a lot of time together. For example, going to mates houses together and feeling like you can tell them ANTYTHING. I can't remember what i typed in my last message so i will leave it at this

2007-08-11 16:00:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a million
i regret i didn't save any $

2007-08-11 15:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 year old guy and today i had sex for the first time. But i didn't came out even after 1 hour. Finally i had to use my own hand to reach orgasm. I am quite worried about it.

2007-08-11 15:36:58 · 2 answers · asked by ranjan 1

Describe some useful advice you received (from a friend or family member).
what the advice was about
who gave you the advice
what the advice was
why this advice was useful.

2007-08-11 15:32:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so...what made you have sex with the person you first had sex with? Did you get married? Do you always know if you're in love?

2007-08-11 15:15:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is in college, and came up to visit my husband, son and I. Yesterday she asked for us to go a restaurant 45 minutes away so she could see an old friend from college. We did, so they hugged, talked and blah blah blah. Good times for them.

Today we had a baby shower to attend and had asked her to babysit for 2 hours. She told her friend to drive over while we were gone so they could catch up.

We told her no and that we didn't feel comfortable having someone we don't know in our house without us being there while our son is napping. We suggested inviting this friend over for dinner and swimming, but my sister turned that down.

Now my sister has whined to our mother saying I'm too strict and my mother is whining to me to tell me to lighten up and apologize for my "rude" behavior.

I want opinions--we were in the wrong by denying her request?

2007-08-11 14:40:32 · 11 answers · asked by FaZizzle 7

on my blog I posted 9 tips that someone sent me from one of my groups ... I thought they were good and practical. But it made me really think. I live in such a rural area, that it isn't something I worry about too much. But, I know we have at least 2 child molesters in our area ... and I thought maybe I should think it about it a little more. Here's the site -http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-BkewR309crJtDMLy4p5E6oc_8o2bV4bK

2007-08-11 14:34:27 · 2 answers · asked by Teak Fox 4

why is it that ur friends treat u better than ur family??

2007-08-11 14:14:14 · 10 answers · asked by Allie H 1

Its widely said or believed,that relationships in todays world are a lot better then they were 50 years.With the womens movements and people being to chose who they wanna do. And anytime you get what YOU want its always looked at as a good thing right?My question is have we really gotten better?Are really better now,then we 50 yrs ago.Yeah women are equal now,but their also cheating more.Yeah you can choose to do whatever YOU want, be with who ever want, when.But argubly that's led to of broken families and arguably a lot of selfishness within people.Have we gotten rid of the evil's or have traded evil's?I think the only difference now is YOU can do what YOU want.And as long as you get YOU want,then I guess its OK...right? Are things better or are the problems just masked under are own ego and the word "freemdom" and "choice?" What do you think? Are we better built for LOVE in todays world then we were 50 years ago?IF I'M NOT CLEAR WITH QUESTION, SORRY.

2007-08-11 13:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sounds like an odd question, but you really have to wonder. There are so many women out there who think it's great when a man is loud, abrasive, bullying, self-absorbed, and crude. A lot of women see such a man as "confident" because he "does whatever he wants to".

On the other hand, a healthy, intelligent, respectful man is seen as being "boring" and "too nice".

The real kicker is that it's smart, successful, businesswomen who love the obnoxious men.

Why is that?

2007-08-11 13:39:13 · 41 answers · asked by Miles 2

I've known her for two months. She's an every guys friend. We hang out a lot-dinner, cooking, fireworks, sleeping together, talking, etc. We always talk or text every night and we talk to each other about anything. And I've started to like her but I know I don't want a relationship and I told her that. But I'm not sure what she thinks. Since I hide my feelings and tell her I'm not interested she says the same also. But we do stuff most friends don't do. We wrestle alone in her basement all the time and it gets very "rough" and "kinky", she dares me to get rougher, and tempts me a lot. But it seems she does that a lot with other guys (not sure). The other day, after hanging out in her basement, she just hugged me outside and we started making out (first time and already french, biting, etc.) I first didn't want to knowing that she might just be leading me on, but it got too passionate. And later I said I lost control but she said she liked it. What is going on here?

2007-08-11 13:28:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was in high school if I said anything about being an actress everyone would laugh and say you have to be born in to stuff like that. Now that I'm 20 I'm trying to make my dream come true but everything keeps going wrong and I'm trying to be strong and keep going but I live in munfordville, ky look it up its a little town far away from everything I'm trying my best to get out of this hole that I'm in please tell me does dreams come true? Or do you have to be born in to them or live by them right now I just need some confidence

2007-08-11 13:18:10 · 1 answers · asked by ashley r 1

ok i have finally got my wish to go to Mexico for a holiday in September ... My co worker who is Mexican is also travelling with me ...

He keeps going on about some Donkey show .. but wont tell me more about it ...

just says it is facinating ...

What is it??

2007-08-11 12:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by Chigzy D 4

I have a dozen or so women that I maintain friendly contact with (this is very much non-sexual) and the last few months all of them, and I do mean all of them, have just stopped calling me. This ranges from women I work with to relatives, and I have no clue what is going on. Do women commonly do this? I know that women always complain that men never call, but now these friends and relatives of mine never ever return phone calls. What's going on?

2007-08-11 12:09:12 · 4 answers · asked by John B 7

I love his best friend...but he has a girlfriend. and we went out before but I broke up with him cuz I couldnt trust him around girls...but i still love him...and now im going out with this guy. I mean I like this guy but he will ever compare to to his best friend. What do i do...What does it mean??

2007-08-11 10:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jacee Rae 1

My women and I are breaking up but she keeps telling me she is so done with me... over and over again but still talks to me and argues with me. And then sometimes she is real sweet to me and says good night... What is going through her head? Is she really done with me or does she want to work it out? It seems like if she was done with me, she would not talk to me.

2007-08-11 10:36:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Writing a book for my husbands birthday and would love to include your comments.

2007-08-11 10:15:48 · 5 answers · asked by tina h 2

My 21st bday is coming up on the 27th of this month and i want to have a party really bad bcuz turning 21 is kinda a big deal. The only problem is that i don't have tooo much money to spend and i have no idea on what to do....Does anyone have any good ideas/themes i can do for my party......oh and i've already had a luau theme before so i want something that everyone is gonna remember!!!!!

2007-08-11 09:19:59 · 1 answers · asked by :D ..... <3 2