I love his best friend...but he has a girlfriend. and we went out before but I broke up with him cuz I couldnt trust him around girls...but i still love him...and now im going out with this guy. I mean I like this guy but he will ever compare to to his best friend. What do i do...What does it mean??
2007-08-11 10:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jacee Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im not using this guy to get closer to his best friend...i didnt even ask his best friend out...he asked me and i said yes cuz i like him...but im not using him to get closer to the other guy. I havnt even seen the other guy in a month and a half.. i just saw my boyfriend 2 days ago.
2007-08-11 11:24:11 · update #1
Don't react to this feeling right away. Keep an eye on the one you think you're in love with. Remeber that the grass always seems greener on the other side. Just because the other guy makes your heart beat faster, doesn't mean he's the one. If your boyfriend that you have now is a good guy, try and remember what it was that brought you to him in the first place. If your mom has met both of them, ask her who she see's you with more.(not who's better jobwise and looks and stuff). My parents have been married for 35yrs. There have been days they looked at eachother and thought, "Oh dear God, what have I done." But then they have days where my dad thinks my mom's butt looks good in a pair of new jeans and he got her flowers just for no reason and maybe went and gassed up her car for her. Sometimes if we can just appreciate these little things in life, the person we are with can become attractive to us again. Learn wich one is a better friend, trust worthy, funny, and responsible. Our generation gives up too easily. A good relationship takes patience and some effort on the, "What have I done day's". When I was in highschool my parents didn't like eachother for four years. And then one day I saw my dad kiss my mom before leaving for work and she acted like she had gotten kissed by her highschool crush. It all just came back. If it seems too good to be true with the other guy, it may be. Fallow your heart. But at least give your boyfriend a chance to redeem himself. He may surprise you. Good luck!
2007-08-11 11:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Indigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with someone you're not in love with? Why would you want to be with someone who you know for a fact wouldn't be faithful? Break it off with this current guy, and don't look back at either of them. Set some high standards and try to believe that you're worth more than just "some guy."
2007-08-11 11:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by ♛Qu€€n♛J€§§¡¢a♛™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're seriously confused and messed up when it comes to relationships. You're pining after a guy you didn't trust. In order to be nearer to him, you're dating his friend, whom you don't love. It's time to take a long careful look at yourself and find out why you're chasing guys that are not trustworthy, and why you're willing to play games with another guy to keep close.
My advice: get away from both of them and find a nice guy that you do trust.
2007-08-11 11:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're going to rip his heart out. It's one thing to be with someone while you still love someone else....but when that someone else is his best friend...? You're asking for trouble. I'd keep things light with the current boyfriend until you figure out what you really want.
2007-08-11 11:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Christian Blake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell the guy you're dating you don't want to go out with him any more because it's not fair to him, especially if he really likes you. Then just stay in touch with the guy you like and if something is meant to happen it will. If he likes you, he'll come.
2007-08-11 11:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just dating this guy to be around his friend. Don't do that to this guy. You will get over the best friend sooner or later. You just have to put distance between you two. You can't get over him if you keep seeing him! He has a girlfriend...hint hint. I know its hard though.
2007-08-11 11:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by mady'smom26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get away from both of them. Be honest them and also yourself
That way no one gets hurt!
2007-08-11 11:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up and move on. Why stay with someone you don't love. It isn't fair to him.
2007-08-11 11:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have sex wit ur boyfriend then leave him and steal the guy u love and kick that girls ***, there is that simple
2007-08-11 11:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by bp131 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋