Who am I to her? Is she leading me on or does she like me?

Question

I've known her for two months. She's an every guys friend. We hang out a lot-dinner, cooking, fireworks, sleeping together, talking, etc. We always talk or text every night and we talk to each other about anything. And I've started to like her but I know I don't want a relationship and I told her that. But I'm not sure what she thinks. Since I hide my feelings and tell her I'm not interested she says the same also. But we do stuff most friends don't do. We wrestle alone in her basement all the time and it gets very "rough" and "kinky", she dares me to get rougher, and tempts me a lot. But it seems she does that a lot with other guys (not sure). The other day, after hanging out in her basement, she just hugged me outside and we started making out (first time and already french, biting, etc.) I first didn't want to knowing that she might just be leading me on, but it got too passionate. And later I said I lost control but she said she liked it. What is going on here?

Answer 1

She is an attention getter (craves attention) or...........
She really likes you and she thinks that you are not interested.
You are a challenge to her.. Playing hard to get is a challenge to girls... So she started off being playful and its working in to something more as you stated above.
If you honestly don't want a relationship with her then don't lead her on, if you do and you are just being careful with your feeling... You might just give her a try as a girlfriend.

Good luck, faith

Answer 2

It sound's like she like's you. I think you need to ask her and find out for sure before you do any thing. You don't want to get hurt so you need to find out what she want's, and if she tell's you she want's to be with you tell her you want to be with her too and then you will be happy knowing that your best friend is your gf.