And you have been coming home late from work recently and your mate from school has been waiting for you. He then tells you he is to marry next week and wishes you to be the best man and you go out for a booze up to celebrate. When you return you find your sister sobbing her heart out in her room. You knock the door and go in to ask her whats the matter. She tells you he told her terrible lies and she was stupid and believed it. She got herself used and abused in every way and she allowed him to perform undocumented acts of vile with her. Because she believed him! You also know his fiancee is 6 months pregnant and his future missus is a really nice woman despite this guy being such a cruel dictator of the sex world. What would you do?
2007-08-09 19:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your parents so they can have him locked up so he doesn't hurt anymore unsuspecting girls.
2007-08-09 19:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell the 'future missus'. If she marries him without knowing the truth about him, she is marrying a lie. She should at least have that information and be allowed to make the choice.
2007-08-10 04:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by magic_porridge_pot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have checked and this is the second version of the same question you have asked previously regarding your sister... both have equally disturbing contents but different version of events.
Because of the tense you have used to pose the question I am unsure if this is a question created by someone with a horrific sick imagination, or a terrible experience in reality.
2007-08-10 03:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by rose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life has many cruel lessons to teach some are learnt early in life some are learnt after marriage , hopefully your sister is not pregnant if not then distance yourself from him and his future wife , Do not condone the situation by being best man your sister will feel betrayed she will always remember you were not there for her when she needed your support..
2007-08-10 03:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously having to ask this question?! She's your sister! Defend her honor!! Stomp his a-- into the ground....and of course you cannot be his best man that would devastate your sister,to know that you stuck up for someone who treated her so badly. She needs to know her big brother is there for her. and if the dudes fiance asks why you won't be his best man ..tell her she deserves to know.
2007-08-10 03:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was legal for your mate to mate with your sister, if wholly unethical.
I would suggest anyhow you comfort your sister, it sounds like she was a willing accomplice, even though she was manipulated. I hope she learns her lesson.
I'd also recommend that you make this bloke's life a misery for as long as you can. Starting with his fiancee and then his soft bits!
2007-08-10 05:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in America... Our best mate or not.... Especially here in the good ole' Southern USA, our mate is getting his *** kick! So, you and you're other mates need to kick his ***. Then from that point on kick his *** every time you see him. Because in America we have a saying, "Blood is thicker then water." And, dude, that's your sister, your blood!
2007-08-10 02:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by RileyIL77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what the f*** kinda brother are you? you allowed your "mate" to statutorily rape your underage sister & blame her by saying, "she got herself used and abused"
she didnt get anything!! she was taken advantage of by a total loser who should be facing some sort of charges right now.
my sister was impregnated by a guy she had dated for 3 years & my brother whipped the guys *** because my sister was underage, even though they had been together a long time. i'm glad ur not my brother.
2007-08-10 02:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey Pa, get dat shotgun outta da cupboard
2007-08-10 04:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ronnix1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make it clear to him that he took advantage of your teenage sister, decline the best man offer, and if his fiance asks questions you should tel her if he doesn't, because she is a really nice woman like you said...she should not be marrying an **** hole like your friend.
2007-08-10 04:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by charli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, he is a child molester and deserves to be punished for what he has done to your sister. He will do it again to another young girl if you don't. Pedophiles do not stop with one victim.
2007-08-10 02:57:41 · answer #11 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋