Other - Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

eg; Turning the lights out, shutters down, curtains drawn
blinds down, Closing the eyes.

2007-08-06 23:53:14 · 15 answers · asked by pvc462001 2

It's been a major discussion among friends regarding sex before marriage. Some of them are of the view that with the current trend of sex being one of the major cause of marriage break ups, the two parties (male and female) show have sex as a way of knowing each other first before marriage. This will help them to deal with any reservations or work on problems that might crop up because of sex. The others are also saying no way there shouldn't be any sex before marriage, whatever the problem will be what you were destined to get so be satisfied with each other. What do you also think? Shouldn't him/her be tested before marriage?

2007-08-06 23:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by Raymond D 1

I asked a question a little while ago, regarding my girlfriend. The situation is as follows:

Recently my girlfriend found out her mum is extrmely ill and may not make it, at first i was with her everyday supporting her picking her up from the hospital and generally trying to be there for her in anyway that i could.... Now the reality of it is sinking in with her...

I have not seen her for 3 weeks now, her last words to me were please dont have any expectations of me right now? which is fine i care for her and am happy to do whatever i can ...

I have been ringing her, she wont answer the phone to me i text her she doesnt reply for days...

I understand that she is in a really bad place but it is quite disturbing for me as she is out drinking with her mates ALL weekend ...

I geniunely care about her but its doing my head in what the hell am i to do ??? Just wait, call it a day

has anyone been through similar what did u do ??

i am at a loss, i dont want to lose her

2007-08-06 23:31:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

lately ive just been siting at home doing nuthing 24/7
my mum has been teling me to go out, but im 16 and all my friends just go into surfes paradise every single week end( surfers is like a big place full of clubs were people go clubbing pick up and get waisted) but my friends cant even get into the clubs because there not 18 yet! so they just go in there get drunk and walk the streets skanking around trying to pick up sleez bags? but im not into any of that or anythig that all the girls my age do, my dads realy proud of me not bein like that and im not interested in having a boyfriend or walking streets getting drunk i hate it , but ive got nuthing to do my friends wont come over anymore, they hardly call me , and they think im stupid for not doing what they do, my way of having fun is just me and my friends at home having a few drinks rather then on the streets and just listening to music at mine or sumthin, im geting so bored and upset cause no one has time for me, wat should i do

2007-08-06 21:42:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

bleame me for everything and he thinks he is the only rigth 'cus odf the theraphy. but today we havd a incident not the 1st one ,but for me the last one 'cus I dont want to give a bad exam[ple to my dauther she is 12 now and im a single mother and I dont want to her go to the same way of mistakens as I did..

2007-08-06 21:07:38 · 3 answers · asked by betty c 1

Well, my question is does the quality of life improve? I mean, COME ON! Everywhere I look, people are becoming friends with other people on the internet, becoming close while I can't even maintain a friend, let alone find one! I find myself crying myself to sleep, hoping for something better, and all the while realising exactly how little it will improve. I am gay, 14, entering high school in Chicago, and i am terrified! I dont think that I am ready, I dont think I will be able to make friends, since believe me, here EVERYONE is good, or at least decent at sports. I can't even throw a ball.
I find myself with few happy memories, and not nostalgic but simply depressed to the point of seriously contemplating suicide. I grow colder and weary of people, and I just can't stop this change anymore!
I find myself waking up and praying that it is still night, that I can just retrn to sleep. But that is never the case.
I apologise for making you read this, but does life get better, reader?

2007-08-06 20:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Alex L 2

or do you plan on staying the way you are?

2007-08-06 20:42:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 20:41:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

people who say i love my children unconditionally, and they think they are great people and selfless. how about other peoples children? and those children who really need love and a home? do you love them unconditionally?

2007-08-06 19:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never seem to have much fun im lucky if i go out once a month and thats with works people and as im shy dont always find them easy. I havent got many friends so dont even get to go out at the weekend. I see everyone talking bout their bfs and what/where theyre going at weekend and i just feell left out. I am 24 and feel ive missed a chunk of my life out

2007-08-06 19:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

it seems like i have closed my heart ,i feel that nobody likes me or wants to talk to me. not even my mother she talks to my sister for long time but does not talk to me.i dont know what it is, its like everybody expects that i should not get hurt and still dont say a thing.and even if they hurt me i should go to them and say sorry. my life looks miserable and i dont know what to do. its like i am left all alone and no body likes me.i feel lonely at times and cry my heart out when all by myself.i am a reserved person but i also feel like talking i dont know what to do.do i have to change

2007-08-06 19:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by eme7 1

so im 16 and ive been looking for a job ever since my birthday (april) and i just cant seem to get hired. im a smart kid and i look very presentable. it seems like i wouldnt have too much trouble but nothings coming! also i find out that one of my friends just got a job on his first day of looking! im just so upset at the whole situation. any tips? certain places i should go? anything can help at this point. thank you

2007-08-06 19:47:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and food assistance in Florida. I would really appreciate some advice on where to go to apply. Thank you very much.

2007-08-06 19:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am able to check my boyfriends cell phone bill and found out recently that he has been talking to a girl constantly for the past 3 weeks. I confronted him and he denied it so I called to number and found out that this is the girl that his so called friends were hooking him up with. They had told him that this girl would not sleep with them just him. I didn't think anything of it before because they were not talking but now that he admitted to talking to her I was infuriated. I do not know what to think of it. He told me that she was having problems with her husband and wanted a guys opinion. I asked why she needed to talk to him when they're not even friends and he said he was just trying to help. I feel betrayed even when he said nothing is going on and that he apologized saying he doesn't want to lose me over something that is nothing. I feel betrayed and really hurt by his actions. He said he's willing to do everything if I give him another chance. Help!!!

2007-08-06 18:36:54 · 15 answers · asked by sxyr@in 1

He is tellin me that if I dont go it will end ouir relationship..but I have a son & I dont wanna go..

2007-08-06 17:14:14 · 9 answers · asked by crazy/beautiful 1

2007-08-06 16:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by LOST 1

My cousin was at a basketball camp for the summer. The coach Mr. Kohler is a little racist. Well just today she told us that the coach was getting a little upset because she missed the shots. She told us that the coach pulled her aside and said "what the hell was you thinking." Before she could say anything he told her to fix her weave it is a major distraction to the game. My cousin only had a long multi color weave so i dont know how that could be a distraction.We should of known he was racist because there were hardly any "sistas" in the game. This is suppose to be a christian enviornment but how can it be if theres racism going on.

2007-08-06 16:41:09 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok today I went for my second interview at a gym for a front desk position and it was a different manager but at the end he told me that he wanted to hire me and said that he just needed to go tell the other guy ( the one who interviewed me the first time ) to hire me. Well he said they would either be calling me tonight whih they never did.. or tomorrow sometime. Do you think he would lie to me and not hire me? He was very nice and said he liked me alot and everything and he wants to hire me.

2007-08-06 16:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1

My wife says she will leave me unless I lose weight and become buff. She gets hit on all the time and this body builder guy from her job always hangs at our house and all they do is rip on me and my man boobs.

2007-08-06 16:14:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

If yes why and what would you do with the information you learned esp if it was detrimental to the relationship. If no why aside from privacy, even if info was gained not by snooping but pc error.

2007-08-06 16:09:00 · 13 answers · asked by Quasi 5

IT HAPPENED this afternoon, and I talked to hubby, friend and the police. My dress was torn, I had not noticed because I was so upset about the whole thing. Yes, he was drunk and Casey said that they had not been getting "Along" Lately.
That is when she found him in bed with 2 other girls about 4 weeks ago. He was so drunk and because they had not been intimate, that he just kept it up while she stood there and watched him/ yelled at him. Then 2 weeks later she tried to OD because of it.
So, yeah she knew that he was getting what she calls "Sex crazed" But she never thought that he would hurt me or my baby. Since there wasn't any penetration, they made a report and took him away. I had scratch marks on my shoulder and a sprained wrist from fighting him off.
But I am ok, and so is my little squeaky baby.
I thank all of you who answered my ? It meant a lot to me.
BTW- I NEVER gave him any hints/clues that I wanted to do anything with him. I am only into my hubby of 12 yrs.

2007-08-06 16:05:17 · 5 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4

Hi, i'm in six grade. I need to know how to stop a bully from hurting my feelings and harrasing. She is about my age. Were in the same grade. She is so mean. One day on the playground/hangout area she got a group of kids, about 40 of them in are grade then they circled around me and grabbed my arms so i would run away. Finally everone was saying boo and stuff. I was to afraid to break away. I was think about cursing off. But i'm only in 6th grade. Then they pushed me and hit me to the ground. A teacher came out and yelled at them. Then Fiona, the girl that bullys people showed up with here 2 (bodygaurds) and screamed at me! What should i do to make her go away? Thanks.

2007-08-06 15:56:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 15:32:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I'm a man, with normal manly weeknesses.Normal as they come, love my daughter more then life. I am NOT a pervert, I have only had sex with 2 women in my entire life, married to my daughter's mom for 22 years. I had some old porn DVDs in my dresser from when my wife was gone on business for 6 months. I got desperate, ordered some porn of the web and took care of certain things myself. Much more noble then cheating I would think. Well, the wife returned home and the porn was forgotten.

Fast forwarding, I ntoiced my daughter being very short and easily angry with me off an on, then we had a minor fall our of sorts and she blew up at me. Called me a pig and a dirty man. Then she finally told me she found my porn and "could never think the same of me again."

I'm totally devastated by this.I don't want my daughter to think of me this way. What can, or should I do? I was thinking to have my wife talk to her, since she knows about the porn. She is not thrilled with it, but was ok

2007-08-06 15:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to find info on this doc. Anything would be helpful. thanks.

2007-08-06 15:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 14:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by bahaiking 2

2007-08-06 14:12:59 · 1 answers · asked by Brittney D 1

My neighbor, asked me to come over and talk to him for a moment. I thought that maybe his wife/ my friend was sending a message through him, since my baby shower is coming up next monday. Instead, as I went into their house..I looked around for her and she was not there..so I ask and he walks up to me and grabs my arms & begs me to have sex with him. I tell him no, b/c she told me that he had a 3-some with others. Then he shoves me against the wall & tries to tear my dress off. Screaming that he needs it! I am 8 mnths pregnant, & I had a hard time getting him off of me. I will not go into details, but he did something before I could get away from him. ( a minor thing) What do I say to his wife? Better yet, what should I tell my hubby about this and if he should confront the neighbor?
Thank you.

2007-08-06 13:59:08 · 61 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4

(GUYS)Would you like if a girl walked up to you an just talk if you dident even no her?

And tell me what you dont like girls to do while flirting
PLEAS:)

2007-08-06 13:35:36 · 6 answers · asked by Brittney D 1

ok well i have his email and ive thought about emailing him that i like him but i cant cause were bf! and im affraid that it will ruin it!

2007-08-06 13:27:46 · 1 answers · asked by Nick_Jonas_is_off_the_chain:) 2