Other - Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

About 7 weeks ago, my girlfriend of a year and half and i broke up over a stupid fight, but since we dont live together, the distance has fueled the break up. At first it was she wanted space to figure things out, now it seems like she just doesnt care anymore. I was always raised to honor and respect, but I was always taught NEVER to give up on something you love. Fight until you die if you must, and here I am, fighting for the one girl that makes me happy, killing myself to hold her one more time. Every morning I wake up, nothing is worth it. The sun isn't bright, air always seems cold. I am so lost and I dont know what to do? Everybody tells me to let go and move on, but I cant. My heart wont let go and there is nothing I can do to change that. I miss her so bad that I feel like my heart doesnt want to beat anymore, it just doesnt care. I was raised to be so physically and mentally strong, but emotionally, I am being destroyed. I would give my life to have her back. What do I do?

2007-08-06 12:35:45 · 15 answers · asked by Helpless 1

when i was with my ex, we would argue alot and wen i thought things were going 2 far id try an go for a walk 2 calm down. he would always stand in front of the door and not let me out and follow me into the bathroom calling me names and shouting abuse, even spitting in my face. eventually my anger built up so much i would slap or punch him. one day after he said something totally hurtful and spat at me i hit him. he beat me up leaving bruses all over me. he convinced me it was my fault, that by hitting him all those times i pushed him over the edge. but i feel that he was in the wrong 4 spitting at me and abusing me mentally and verbally also 4 preventing me from just going 4 a walk 4 10 mins. im i right or is he!!! please help i cant take this any longer.

2007-08-06 12:35:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

For those of you who have experienced something like this can you tell me how you deal with the person who tried to kill themselves.......

Right before I started my freshman year of highschool my parents told me that they were getting divorced. I was really confused and angry especially with my mother because there were a lot of things that I was unaware of in my parents marriage. Soon after finding out about there impending divorce the reasons began pouring out. Among these reasons were my father´s many infidelities. It wasn´t long after this that my father took an entire bottle of pills.

My mother told me what had happened and asked me to take my brothers (then 11 and 8) to my neighbors house. Later in the hospital when my father woke up he ripped the chords from his monitor and hung himself with them. An orderly found him and he was revived. After his pysical health was rehabilitated he was placed in a 72 hour holding facility in which he decided to commit himself for....

2007-08-06 12:30:59 · 6 answers · asked by rachaeluv<3 3

How is it that when you have feelings for a person that everything physically and emotionally gets so wound up. I have been with my boyfriend for close to three months now, and just thinking about him makes my head spin, stomach flutters, I mean I litteraly am beside myself.
So I feel lately that being in love is more of a disease. hehe It feels awesome to be in love I will say that much.

2007-08-06 11:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by Soda 4

Just out of curiosity.........How many times have you smoked weed?
once?
a couple times?
too many to count?
or never?
and if you plan on smoking in the future
and put your age.

2007-08-06 11:04:30 · 9 answers · asked by Phil V 1

2007-08-06 10:55:07 · 1 answers · asked by Brian 5

2007-08-06 10:51:01 · 19 answers · asked by mememe 2

I am an A/B student. Very responsible and I babysit, yet my mom says I can't go on dates (even chapernoed ones) until I am 16! I don't know why she doesn't trust me! She says that if that is all guys care about then forget it! She even told me that because she couldn't go on dates 4 guys broke up with her because of it! I don't want that to happen! What do I do?

2007-08-06 10:42:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently got in contact with an ex-girlfriend from my high school days more than 10 years ago. We have not spoken to nor seen each other in that time period. Upon getting in contact with each other we have become friends and have been talking a lot about what has happened in the last 10 years. She is happily married and living more than 400 miles away. I am married and both of our spouses are aware that we are in communication.

We are and have not thought about planning anything individually and in fact have been trying to plan a meeting that includes both spouses. My wife has recently demanded that I discontinue communication because it is damaging our marriage. So, my question is this. Is it wrong for one adult who is (or thought he was) happily married to communicate to an ex-girlfriend, who is also happily married, on a friendly basis?

**Keep in mind when answering that we are both open about our communications with our respective spouse.

2007-08-06 10:32:50 · 13 answers · asked by rj_mathis@sbcglobal.net 2

My nephew is a "well-trained" autistic child. He can communicate a little bit. He can't read yet but has a heightened artistic sense and memory.

2007-08-06 09:44:34 · 2 answers · asked by Eduardo H 1

2007-08-06 09:44:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

research on human sexual intercourse

2007-08-06 09:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by Goofy-footer 2

and the two cant physically see each other well the boy had a birthday and now he is considered an adult at the age of 16 and he and my daughter continue to talk to each other. I have taken away her cell phone but she begs for it back and I talked to her about sex, I love my daughter but am I wrong for taking the phone away even though the two cant actually "see" each other, and is it o.k. to let them just talk since the sex part happened before he became an adult? Myself and the mom do not live together. They live in Indianapolis and I live in Dallas. Any advice?

2007-08-06 09:24:58 · 7 answers · asked by agent635 2

2007-08-06 08:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 1

Tell me what you do. Do you go to the extreme to impress a guy or do you wait until he notices you to make the move or do you make the move first??

2007-08-06 08:34:11 · 1 answers · asked by WWE_Diva_Angel 2

i have a girlfriend that i like alot but i think she's still in love with her ex girlfriend.
i think i could be a rebound but it feels like she love me more
and yes i'm married and my husband knows about her.
she says that her ex is trying to make up with her and she doesn't want to turn her down yet because its only been 6months since they broke up and she was waiting for their reunion before she met me.
now that i'm here she says she will wait to know if her ex gf is just doing this because she really wants her back or if she's doing it because she's now seeing me.
i feel like i'm being played but when we're together i want to stay with her.

2007-08-06 07:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by sassy 2

i have a girlfriend that i like alot but i think she's still in love with her ex girlfriend.
i think i could be a rebound but it feels like she love me more
and yes i'm married and my husband knows about her.
she says that her ex is trying to make up with her and she doesn't want to turn her down yet because its only been 6months since they broke up and she was waiting for their reunion before she met me.
now that i'm here she says she will wait to know if her ex gf is just doing this because she really wants her back or if she's doing it because she's now seeing me.
i feel like i'm being played but when we're together i want to stay with her.

2007-08-06 07:07:30 · 1 answers · asked by sassy 2

I have had a trip planned and I am sort-of the organizer, because I know the area and points of interest. This was planned 2 months before I get notice that my sister is Baptizing her son the day I leave. She says it is ok if I miss, but what should I do??
I could leave later, which would delay others, because I was driving, reschedule, but many went out of their way to get days off, or go with my original plans. No matter what, someone will be inconvenienced other than myself. Advice??

2007-08-06 07:02:21 · 2 answers · asked by Respuesta 2

Ok. Thing is i roomate with my sister and her boyfriend and i kind of knew she was going thru my stuff when id leave cause shes just nosey like that. Well she ended up finding my toys if you know what i meen. Now shes asking me all these personal Questions. What should i do?

2007-08-06 06:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by Crystal P 1

I got to Canada since last year, and i need to be fluent in this language because i wanna work as a fitness trainer. I can't go to ESL classes because of my job, so could you help me suggesting me internet free courses to learn english for real?. Thank you very much for your suggestions...

2007-08-06 06:40:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant find any good music to put on it. I need some music that has to do with family or just any good song that would go good with it please help

2007-08-06 06:40:48 · 1 answers · asked by ♪♥ ♥♪ 3

I'm 42 years old and have a step-mother. I have a half-sister (whom I love to death) whom my step-mother (her's and my father's daughter) and my father tend to favor. They are always going to her house (which is only a block away from mine and they never come to see me) and visiting, also getting her things and she's always treated way better on Christmas and Birthdays then the rest of us ( whom are my fathers's and natural mothers kids). They probably talk to her every single day, but they can't ever pick up the phone to call me and see what is going on in my life. When we are at their house, the conversation always turns into what my half-sister has been up to or how cute she was "when she did this when she was little". They never seem interested in what anyone else is doing and they are constantly bragging about how "great" she is to others. It just hurts so much and I don't even think they realize they do it.
Any suggestions as to how I can stop letting this hurt so much.

2007-08-06 06:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by unicornyankee 1

2007-08-06 05:58:30 · 4 answers · asked by Soda 4

If you wrote a movie about your life, who would you choose to play you? Looks, acting the whole thing.

I would choose Cuba Gooding Jr.

2007-08-06 05:54:26 · 3 answers · asked by deadwood_domico 2

This boy name Martin liked me ever since we was 11 and I ask him out when we was 14 then he found the truth I was only taking the fun out of him and he was really hurted I was his very first love and I crush his heart to pits anyway I went out with his friend name chris and we used to stand outside of martin house evertime we finish school to wait for martin so we can hurt him and we used to french kiss to hurt him and we used to do that at school with everone taking the fun out and Nobody believe him I ask him out and evertime he told the truth everbody used to shout at him but before I saw chris, I did had a sex contact with martin I push myself up him by feeling him up the backside and I did push all my dirty parts on to him, I never knew how much he care about me anyway martin confront me about everthing and told me the truth and said he loved me and with everthing what we was doing to him, martin went to start doing bad things to me and chris

2007-08-06 05:46:31 · 1 answers · asked by diet_television_pop 1

As Ewan McGregor and his pal Charley Boorman celebrated the end of their epic 15,000-mile motorbike journey from Scotland to South Africa, the Star Wars actor made a statement that would have surely had his wife Eve Mavrakis in despair had it been fulfilled. "I'd quite like to turn around and just carry on back again," he grinned.

The two motorcycle maniacs have been away from home for three months, travelling in sometimes searing heat as they passed through 20 countries.


BOTH THESE GUYS ARE MARRIED WITH YOUNG CHILDREN - IS IT OK TO B*GGER OFF FOR THREE MONTHS JUST TO FULFILL YOUR OWN NEEDS WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS THIS YOUNG?

2007-08-06 05:11:07 · 15 answers · asked by Saucy B 6

Ok I was worried about a place not calling me back after my interview for a front desk job at gym but he called me back!!! Ok he told me to come in this afternoon to speak with another manager and that all the candidates he liked will do that also or something like that. Ok so what does this mean? Oh yea and he also asked me if I were still interested in the job and I said yes!

2007-08-06 05:07:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

idea of being a "mom". However, recently I have began feeling very overwhelmed by the whole situation. His child is absolutely wonderful and I love him to death, I'm just worried that since I'm not mentally ready to be a mom that I am going to ruin our relationship. Any advice on how I can help myself be more at ease?

2007-08-06 05:01:28 · 6 answers · asked by rsbrytea 1

My grandson has significant developmental delyas in communication, speech and social interaction. He lives with his father and is taken care of most of the time by his paternal grandparents. They are not getting the boys tested or acting concerned. I'm not even sure that they've ever made sure he sees a pediatrician for regular check ups or to get his immunizations. Does their lack of having him tested or having him see a doctor constitute neglect with Child Protection?

2007-08-06 04:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by r_l_h_959 2

This is a friend of mine...

She says her father is happy that she's afraid of him...
He's 65.

She also says her father uses violence (physical and abusive) if she tries to assert herself towards him...

2007-08-06 03:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous