Other - Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

my girlfriend told me the other day: i like it when you are so nice to me. I told her: but you don't like it when it's nice all the time. And she said: Yes, sometimes I wish you were a bit of an asshole.

That confuses me. I'm generally a non conflicting person, and while i can be nasty to people I don't like easily, I can't be so to the ones who are dear to me. Yet it seems she is suggesting I do precisely that. What did she mean? I should start being rude to her? Ignore her? That just sounds forcing a kind of behaviour that I would never want someone else to do it to me... then again, Im not a girl, so asking you then: what she meant?

2007-08-02 21:26:39 · 13 answers · asked by Ronaldo Jr. 2

Ok so I have a boyfriend who I really like a lot. Well I asked him why he liked me so much and he said " there is just something about you. i can be myself around you and i feel really comfortable talking to you about anything. your good at listening and I love your smile" He also said "u r the greatest girl i ever had the privlage of dating" and he said " i have looked for someone like u for a long time" and he told me that he really cares for me a lot and he also said "i havent felt this way toward someone in a long time"
What Id like to know is what does all of this stuff mean? We are in a LDR but I have met him in person. He works a lot so I cant see him all that much. I know Im falling in love with him, I just wanna know what you think he means by this stuff. He hasnt said I love you,and I think it is bc we have both been hurt a lot in the past. We have been bf/gf for over 4 months now.
So what do you think?

2007-08-02 21:22:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

why did you do it and if you got caught what were the consquences?

2007-08-02 21:19:46 · 1 answers · asked by right back at ya 1

I'm not very good at expressing my feelings, but I want to find the perfect song to play for my girlfriend of two years. I want her to know how much she means to me...

2007-08-02 20:45:39 · 2 answers · asked by BuuCity 2

or that's your partner has left for you?

2007-08-02 19:33:52 · 1 answers · asked by dingoboy 1

My ex and I are not good. I want to be with her but she keeps on telling me not right now...that later on she will make up her mind on whether she wants to be with me or not. I still do all the things a normal boyfriend does but there is no title. We made an agreement to still tell each other what we're up t but she keeps on lying and leaving her house late at night and not telling me where she goes. I still tell her where I am and what im up to...like seriously even when i go to grocery store because thats what she wants. But she refuses to admits that she lies even though i have caught her multiple times. Whenever I try to talk about it she just hangs up or tells me im being stupid. I wanna let her go but i lover her too much and feel strongly that she will come back to me. Am I stupid for thinking that?

2007-08-02 19:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well..is it? In terms of relationships.....

2007-08-02 19:09:52 · 6 answers · asked by Cosy 3

I am 23 I lost my best friend to a drunk driver almost 1 month ago shortly before he passed he asked me to Take care of his pregnant wife and 2 year old son, i assured him that I would and he was gone a few moments later. He was also 23 and so is his wife, we have all know eachother and been the best of friends since preschool. His wife Tonya is a stay at home mom with little to no family, and was left with no money only debts. I told her she could move into my 3 bedroom house with me I live alone, I should mention me and Tonya were a couple back in highschool. I have all at once found myself a father to a toddler, the sole bread winner, and emotional supporter. She has been wanting to sleep next to me at night (she wants to be held) nothing intamate, I feel very guilty about doing this. My life has changed so fast and in so many different ways, I feel I am doing the right thing, she has noone, how could I do any less? Am I crazy for putting myself this far out? I dont know how to feel

2007-08-02 18:58:04 · 17 answers · asked by NIck 1

approximately...

2007-08-02 18:50:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anjelino 4

2007-08-02 18:45:55 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3

i am having trouble remembering the old love songs. the good ones!!!! i know what some of them are but cant remember how the beat goes or some of the titles. ugh!!!!! will someone please help me with some old love songs. i need like 15 or 16 songs. thanks in advance for everyone's help!!!

2007-08-02 17:51:29 · 3 answers · asked by Jessika 1

It happened to me mostly when I was younger, but wow that was embarrasing at the time.

2007-08-02 17:48:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went to the doctor today, and he told me that majority of the health problems i have are caused by stress. the most stressful thing in my life is my dumb, bitchy, worthless sister, and i have to live with her, because she lives with my parents, and i dont make enought money to move out, she used to have add so now everyone says that she is the way she is because of a learning disability, which is total and complete bullcrap, because she knows what shes doing, and knows how to get other people in trouble, and loves every moment of it, she is a minipulative, calculating, satan in the flesh type of person, and i absolutely cannot stand her, but as i said, i cant afford to move out, and my parents think that she is a little angel with a slow brain, what should i do to eliminate this stressful situation?

2007-08-02 17:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi everyone! It’s me John.

Consider yourself fortunate when you have an affectionate father, for I never had a great father, and today ( Tonight) I’ll introduce you to the father I was given.

For a significant reason my father has this hate for me. Of course it may not seems fair to you, but whatever his reason is, it seems logical to him. Yes, he hates me because I happened to be a handicap.

He treated me as if I was retarded. He would copy the way I walk in order to tease me. He would laugh at me whenever I fall on the ground. Most interestingly, he would not take me out with him, for he felt too embarrass of me. He told my mother that it was her fault why I was born as a handicap. So my mother decided to have one more child for him. Fortunately, my sister was born healthy.

2007-08-02 17:20:53 · 14 answers · asked by John 2

when ever i call my ma...shes starts to laugh, and then she stops, and then we will get into a conversation about something that doesnt call for laughing and then she starts to laugh for like 4 minutes, and nothings funny, she will cut me off numerous times and then laugh some more, i think shes crazy, should i get her checked out. i havent said anything bc i didnt want to hurt her feelings!

2007-08-02 16:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by :) 2

I'm curious, I've had this conversation before many times, and was wondering what men's opinions are.
I have two small boys and am in a complicated relationship and was just curious as to what men really think.
I am not planning on leaving my relationship right now, but have in the past.

2007-08-02 16:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by Butterfly 3

Okay I was walking with my friends when my 1 friend started talking to this random guy it ends up were the same age and everything what does he think of me? Could he like me?
He said my name is Dabaze but you guys can call me Baze
My friends the whole time were gushing about how my crush was near us and how he ditched his girl friend and he must be following us.
the guy repeated my name a lot and didn't repeat my one friends name
At the end he was like Marissa and natasha right?
See you tomorrow
He also told lots of jokes like how he flunked kindergarten
We asked him questios like what school does he go to, bla bla bla what does he think of us?

2007-08-02 16:09:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was challenged with a decision to move to wisconsin with my brother . to finish high school there and idk what to do ?

2007-08-02 15:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by tna rulez 2

I want to change my last name permanently. I am single, and not married. I've decided that I don't want my family last name anymore (which has English heritage) and want to change it to a Spanish last name. Do you think the courts will let me do this?

2007-08-02 15:18:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your in my situation how will you handle such of this?
my ex-girlfriend really loves me up to now.. and i love her too... but she has this crush and they go out or having a date... i didn't see them actually but my friends saw them several times.. that is why i have to do some action.. my ex and i go out for a date... last time... and i talk about that rumors of her and she confirm that it was true... that she was dating her crush and holding hands wi that guy..... except hugging and kissing and sex... so i stay calm... but the problem was we love each other even though wer not committed to one another and we will w8 for each other... and we're still doing the things that we do, we hug.... kiss and say to each other that we really love one another.. but then i cant figure out wat to do with that.. my girlfriend promise me that she will settle and fix things out on his crush... BECAUSE HE CHOOSE TO BE WITH ME!!! but what should i do... GUYSS I REALLY NEED UR HELP!!! so PLEASE!!! HELP ME!!!!

2007-08-02 14:52:46 · 3 answers · asked by ROBIE HART 1

Im 22 i went from one abusive relationsip to another im so afraid to be alone or not being able top m,ake it on my own i have been with him for two years we were goingto get married next month but a few days ago he we got and a fight and i kick him then he broke my nose. What do i do im so stuck he is still physically absuice to me. is mom and dad treat me like crud as well and he never stands up for me! But i thought i loved him so much., Crying / Thanks

2007-08-02 14:51:03 · 2 answers · asked by Melissa R 1

i have this friend who lives in texas and i live in minnesota. well anyway i found out that she is having a baby shower. i had asked her why didnt i get a invintation and she said its because she knew i could not make it becuse we are long distance she also said its because she dosent want me to feel like i have to send a gift. what should i do. im so mad at her for not inviting me. sh said im being upset for no reason. also is it rude to invite someone that lives out of state

2007-08-02 14:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is nearly 18 years old, but he respects my decisions when it comes to sex as i'm only 14. He says he's willing to wait as long as it takes, however this makes me love him even more and wonder if i should finally have sex with him. I am aware of the precautions we would need to take, and the risk of getting STDs so it has been thought about and isn't just a mere spur-of-the-moment idea. We have been together for 2 years and i know that we definitely have something special. I was just wondering what you thought. Do you still think we should wait? 'Cos he promises he won't mind.

2007-08-02 13:13:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is WAY too close to his mom. Hes a nice guy, but unemployed and still lives with her (he's 39). He cant sit still for 5 mins and does everything for her.

She treats him like a child. Neither of them have a social life so he even goes shopping with her to keep her company - yet he doesnt think its odd. He wanted to spend xmas with her cause if he didnt 'shed be mad at him'. She doesnt get mad thou -shes stern, emotionless and COLD. And I dont think shed care if he was there for xmas or not!

Its hard to know what she thinks of him but he wont hear a bad word against her, even though shes a *****! When I go round she is unable to use my name. She knows it - she just can't say it! I know she doesn't think much of me.

I dont understand it. Its like he never rebelled as a teen. He never left the nest - even though he is independent - his LIFE isnt independent. Is that weird? What is this strange invisible hold that she has on him?

2007-08-02 13:11:33 · 7 answers · asked by light star girl 2

2007-08-02 12:36:08 · 3 answers · asked by koalatcomics 7

ok, well this is embarrassing...So, about a few weeks ago, i went to my mom's hometown where i have some cousins and a few uncles. Well, I have an uncle there(he's only a few years older than me) and we pick on each other. It's sort of like we play pranks on each other and we never say anything nice to each other or anything. Anyway, after a while I don't know why, but I started to feel like I liked him even though there's part of me that doesn't like him and knows that what I;m doing is wrong. I tried to convince myself that I didn't like him, but when I heard he had a crush on this girl, I got sort of jealous. Don't get me wrong, I KNOW that there could never be anything between us but any ideas how to get this out of my head?

2007-08-02 12:07:33 · 12 answers · asked by pepperland 4

and now wanted to go overseas to stop then come back but to a different state, because they are afraid they cant resist temptation, what would you do?

2007-08-02 11:45:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 10:34:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 09:29:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, my older bro, my mom and my dad and i all have our brand new cars! lately my dad has been using my car, driving off to places far away, and this pisses me off, i really dont care, but like everyday hes going and taking my car, he paid for insurance/the car, but right now i pay for my gas,, yes, and its alot! also im in debt, i have no job right now and my tuition is ALOT, alot more than the past yrs. also he NEVER uses my brothers cars, my my bro gets everything paid 4, his tuition and everything! i have 2 worry about my money --this makes me mad,--i feel sort of selfish but in a way i feel mad, like he has his own brand new car! and he uses mine not my bros or moms!! why me??

2007-08-02 09:28:38 · 4 answers · asked by vernoica 2