Other - Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

How do you feel about high school kids dating one another?
I'm an incoming sophomore girl this year, and I've actually always been opposed to teens dating...It seems the majority of teens who get involved in relationships, only do so for some kind of social pass time, rather than anything meaningful. And lot of the time (probably most of the time) it leads to things such as sex, which, in my opinion, is not something high school kids should be doing. Plus, I don't believe in pre-marital sex anyway.
However, I've been thinking about the whole dating thing, and my opinion is starting to sway( at least for some of the older, more muture kids)...For example, I'm very muture for my age and I like this Senior guy, who I don't know very well, but we're friends; and if he were to ask me out I'd probably say yes...I have high standards set for myself, and school is very important to me so I can't see anything too wrong with that...WELL, I'm confused!
What do you guys think about all this?

2007-08-02 08:41:46 · 4 answers · asked by roo 1

My husbands parents have never been very respectful of me or my feelings. They live directly across from us and are always in our business. Let me give some examples, one day I was having severe cramps and I was terrified I had an ectopic pregnancy. I went to talk to his mother about it b/c I was so scared I was pregnant and I would have to abort it and his father was listening and came in and actually told me that if I was pregnant the baby would be better off dead then to have me as a mother for it, and his mother laughed! I went home crying and told my husband and all he said was, "He didn't mean anything by it." Luckily I wasn't pregnant though. They also say little things, like they know I'm from the city (they're from the country) and they're always talking about how horrible city people are right in front of me and my husband just sits there. Well now I have a 6 month old baby and they keep him alot b/c everytime I ever kept him his mother would throw a fit and everyone would...

2007-08-02 08:36:06 · 17 answers · asked by boo kitty 4

2007-08-02 08:02:28 · 26 answers · asked by ~!~party girl~!~ 2

Trying to do something incredible but need your input...Friend is turning 30. A birthday for a woman should be an entire week not just a day and due to some health things she was told she would not make it to this age...She is also a full fledged, wide open hearted giver who puts EVERYONE before her...Her family and husband have no plans to do anything for this momentus occasion...I at first was going to throw a surprise party but due to the lack of interest on her family's part I am thinking something else..Here is your chance...THIS IS YOU..What would you want? Travel, Party,Own personal Concert..I would like to keep it under a couple grand but if it is a good enuff idea I am willing to go above and beyond that..I am looking for input on the smallest detail to the biggest and everything along the way..Will Someone Please Help Me? This is the opportunity I hope someone will do for you one time but if not to know it was done for someone incredible. Did I mention she hates surprises?

2007-08-02 07:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this friend who lives in texas and i live in minnesota. well anyway i found out that she is having a baby shower. i had asked her why didnt i get a invintation and she said its because she knew i could not make it becuse we are long distance she also said its because she dosent want me to feel like i have to send a gift. what should i do. im so mad at her for not inviting me
im so sad. should i be stressed

2007-08-02 06:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since this teacher came to teach at my school when I was in year 8, I have adored him. At first I just dismissed it as a crush, but I realise now that he means so much more to me than that.
He has never taught me but he knows that I like him, and he knows who I am. I am now 16, and lately he has been acting differently around me before we broke up for the holidays. He has been constantly staring at me, and we have made eye contact every time we have seen each other. Also (note he is the moodiest teacher at school) he has been smiling at me, whereas before he refused to even look at me. I have a feeling that he has some feelings for me too, but would it be wrong for a 30 year old man to like a 16 year old girl?
I know that it is no longer illegal for me to date older men here in England, as I am now 16 and I think about him all the time. I don't know what to do! I have only 9 months left at school...I need him badly! should I confront him about my feelings?

2007-08-02 06:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy tells you He loves you, is he telling the truth or is he just trying to get into your pants? When I said "I Love You" I meant it, even today, after he broke up with me. People like him make you wonder if its real or not, and if it is- When am i going to meet someone who loves me as much as I love them? I'm Living in a dark cave with limited oxygen, I want to fall in love now and get out of there!! Where is my Prince Charming? Others seem to have met theirs, so wheres mine? Have you met Yours yet?

2007-08-02 06:36:08 · 9 answers · asked by Heather P 1

when she's not home, i wear her exercise shorts, the black very tight ones. i even wear her panties and bikini and then do things to my self. is tat right

2007-08-02 06:10:07 · 13 answers · asked by Herro 1

I done a mistake with this boy, He liked me and he told me he loves me but I already had a boyfriend and I think he got so jealous and he was starting to do bad things and I think it was cause off me cause I did kiss my bf in front off him outside off his house everday for 2 yrs, why did he do that , after he left cause off me, I found my bf looking at nude women on the net and he did lie by telling the police that the other guy hit him and he didn't 7 years later I saw him and we both was just looking at each other in the eyes do you think he still got feelings for me

I picked the wrong guy the other person really does love me I think , I done so bad things to him to hurt him and I think he still got feelings for me does he still got true love for me

he missed a year of school thanks to me and he really got hurted cause off me and my bf and I know I done wrong but , how can I make it upto what hurt I cost him ... what happen if he don't want to talk to me.

2007-08-02 05:47:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do people fight?

2007-08-02 05:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by Stuff 1

...to wait a couple years to have kids...
I'm happily married, but have been wanting so badly to get pregnant and start a family. But I know that my husband and I aren't in the time or place or financial situation that we'd like to be in before having kids. Somebody remind me of other reasons to just hold off for awhile...(but please be nice about it)

2007-08-02 05:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3

he left me when i was 2.should i see him?

2007-08-02 05:19:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

and not just for sex?

2007-08-02 05:14:11 · 3 answers · asked by kelly 1

care of your own main meal. He wants a fish pie out of the freezer. I on the other hand was just trying to decide which local eatery would enjoy my lunchtime custom when HE said. There's a bit of leftover veg there you can fry up........

2007-08-02 05:12:01 · 8 answers · asked by proud walker 7

What would you think?
If a man offers to pay for your (plane ticket/hotel..2 times a month) after seeing you for the first time this weekend and enjoying your company, finding you to be very attractive
..we live in different states
would you think he may want to pursue a long term relationship and that he may be in love with you too?
after you tell him you in love with him and he tells you he likes you....and miss you.since the last time he seen you...would you pay for anyone who is not someone your interested in?...
did i confused you?
Basicially im trying to say is Is this man really into me the way that im into him...
ive known him for 4 years....so it goes a little bit beyond the physical thing here yall
isnt it romantic? ?

2007-08-02 04:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-02 04:51:28 · 10 answers · asked by Maria 5

2007-08-02 04:42:14 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 25 year old Daughter lives at home. She left for about a year to try a marriage, nope.
She's in her 6th year college we foot the bill. She wakes for school only if we get her up. She is incapable of waking herself.
Her car we bought brand new, is beat to pieces and has a new ding almost daily.
Her room is not fit for a Dog to live in, I beg for her to take control of it.
She works for me or she could not hold a job, I kick her into gear everyday.
Not an ounce of responsibility from this grown woman.
She drinks and/or gets drunk at least 3 times a week, also drives.
She thinks because she's nice to me she's not being disrespectful.
She thinks this is how her crowd lives that is how being 25 is.
I feel she's old and getting older. It's time for me to have an adult friend out of my Daughter and not a teen nightmare.
I'm losing feelings for a kid I would have died for.
She always says she gets it and will start a change tomorrow.
Do I disown her? I am stressed and miserable.

2007-08-02 04:30:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you were going to be away from your new wife and newborn son for four months for boot camp in the navy and then a school which is in san antonio texas...( bars galore...there its a party city) would you remain faithful to her or go out to bars and possibly pick up a girl for the time you were there (7 weeks) almost two months...be honest. knowing she was states away.

2007-08-02 04:25:07 · 12 answers · asked by suni 2

just want to know opinions if you were caught between the love of your life and the person who's been with you through thick and thin for years......

2007-08-02 04:17:49 · 53 answers · asked by Phoenix 4

i wanted to ask and get your answers, my kid's father has not seen his daughter in 5mths but I have heard that he takes care of his other daughter. The last time he was around we were not getting along and he wouldn't want to come in my house to see his daughter. in the beginning I always wanted him to come everyday but he wouldn't only about twice in 2 weeks, and I couldn't let him take her because I don't really trust him. but he has a problem with me not letting him take her. and I told him that i had someone leaving with me and that if we wanted to see his daughter I would bring her to him. But if he didn't want to be her dad then he shouldn't come around, he would go weeks to even mths not seeing her or calling for her and doesn't support her financially? Does it sound like i did any thing wrong that he stopped coming to see his daughter and even if I did shouldn't he just come and not care about what goes on between me and him just so he can see my daughter.

2007-08-02 04:12:53 · 3 answers · asked by tori s 1

Do you think teenagers are able to handle this complexity? Why or why not?

2007-08-02 03:56:51 · 14 answers · asked by julesl68 5

2007-08-02 03:55:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my finance and I really appreciate nature...I already know I would like white lights on the trees and allot of white tents (its in an open area in a beautiful park and surrounded by trees...the open grass area is almost the shape of an oval, thats where everything will take place. Anymore ideas?

2007-08-02 03:54:24 · 4 answers · asked by ....... 1

Dont get me wrong i truly think cheating is wrong but why does the cheater get all the blame i mean yea it was a selfish and immoral thing to do but i think the non-cheating spouse needs to take some of the blame too cause apparently he/she wasnt doing something right either and he/she was also doing a selfish thing by denying sex and i know there is no excuses for cheating bu there is no excuse to deny your spouse sex either unless of course of a medical reason and i know nobody is gonna agree with me but its my opinion.

2007-08-02 03:25:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We broke up.So now hes tryna put me out. What can i do???

2007-08-02 03:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by TONI C 1

Is it like divide and conquer, political negotiation, cohersion, pleading, tempting, black mail, ultimatum, bribery?

2007-08-02 03:15:14 · 5 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4

My boyfriend wants to be with me, says he adores me and has never been so happy in his life with a girl. He says he's falling in love with me but he is not in love with me yet. We have been together 9 mths. I am absolutely terrified now that he just won't fall in love with me. Am trying to get past it and continue having fun in the relationship but it's always at the back of my mind. Is it pride? Am not sure. He says he is being more cautious because of past failures when he has fallen more quickly, and that if and when he says it, it will be forever. Am just worried he is kidding himself. He is an honest guy, and is not the type to stay in a relationship if he doesn;'t think it is going anywhere. He dumped a girl he was seeing for about six mths before he met me because he didn't have the right feelings for her. What is going on?

2007-08-02 03:04:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her B/F is gone overseas for a year and she is usually very active in the bedroom.

2007-08-02 03:00:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to be serious with my boyfriend but then sometimes i think that it won't work between us, please help me dear friends..he thinks i am still immature....he is 27 n i am 18..i really love him, i want to show him that i am the one for him...

2007-08-02 02:21:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous