Other - Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

what might be the reason why ones husband will do online dating, and what can be done to stop it?

2007-07-30 23:48:24 · 20 answers · asked by abi darling 2

I'm resubmitting this question due to a recent article on the subject:

Choosing foster parents over fathers
By Jeffery M. Leving and Glenn Sacks
July 11, 2007
http://www.signonsandiego.com/uniontrib/20070711/news_lz1e11leving.html

Please read the article before answering. It is an eye opener.

Previous posting of question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgHeZNmoSTbq8eVhUWM1Qhvty6IX?qid=20070715011129AA6ySae

2007-07-30 23:38:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 23:20:36 · 15 answers · asked by amit s 1

Okay I LUV my mom. She is my best friend. I even love her more then my Dad (we dont really get along). When she is around i tend to slack off. Not doind chorses, not wearing my retainers, not brushing my teeth 3 times a day, not taking my medicene. Then she left for 1 weekend & i was home w/ my dad. All of the sudden for no reason, I was doing EVERYTHING on my own. All the stuff I listed, i did on my own consistently. Y am I like this??

2007-07-30 20:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this really nice guy..He's been a friend since I was very young. Anyways, I could tell that he was into me by the way he acts around: looks at me and looks away multiple times, always smiles when he sees me, always asking for a hug, acting jealous when I'm talking to another guy, gives me the 3rd degree, etc. So today, my mom suggested that I go find another guy..But, I don't want to since I really like this one.

Is my mom suggesting I do this because she knows something about him that I don't? Or is it because she wants me to explore what's out there and not focus on just one guy.

Please help! I appreciate all answers

Thank you in advance for all your help.

2007-07-30 20:40:04 · 19 answers · asked by tigersnoops 1

I have a crush on my science teacher, and its really hard to concentrate.I feel really awkward in class around him (friends dont notice though) I always look at him, and look away if he looks at me, and he often stands next to me when talking to the class which makes me feel even more awkward, and i was just wondering if he would know i have a crush on him?

2007-07-30 19:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

think i must be..... i have this friend...we've been best friends since kindergarten i love her (like a sister for u perverst!!!) and would die for her.... but i don't know if she feels the same. this summer we had all sorts of plans and i didnt care that they didn't work out but we haven't seen each like at all this summer. i call her and call her and try to set up plans to get together but nothing works. i miss her like crazy and i'm afraid of losing the only person who has been there for me through everything. i don't make friends easily and i don't have that many and even if i did there is no replacing her!!! please be serious and tell me what i can do?????

p.s. i just wrote her an e-mail trying to talk to her and explain how i feel and i wouldv'e done it in person but i can't!!! i never see her!!! plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-30 19:12:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-30 19:08:35 · 1 answers · asked by peopleperson 1

My dad no longer wants me to date my current boyfriend but Its already been 7 months that I have been with this guy and I care for him deeply. Is my dad just scared of letting go? My boyfriend is a good guy and has never disrespected me or my family. What should i do?
IM 18...MY BOY FRIEND IS 18 WE'RE BOTH GOING ON 19 THIS YEAR HIM IN AUG AND ME IN OCT. I HAVE BEEN HELPING SUPPORT MY DAD'S OTHER KIDS SINCE I WAS 15 AND HAVE HAD 2 JOBS SINCE NOV. LAST YEAR. I STILL LIVE AT HOME BUT IM GOING TO MOVE OUT TO GO TO SCHOOL IN THE FALL.MY BOYFRIEND ALSO GOES TO SCHOOL AND WORKS, BUT HE ALSO LIVES AT HOME STILL.

2007-07-30 19:01:58 · 2 answers · asked by GUERA33 2

My girl broke up with me last Sunday, because she wanted me to see that I could be happy without her. She basically got tired of me complaining about alot of things going on in my life and I can see now where I went wrong. At first, I told her how much I loved her and how I didn't think we could just "be friends." I didn't keep doing that though, I decided to go along with her wish. She changed her status on myspace and facebook to "single." I changed mine to that too, but then to "divorced" and then she changed hers on myspace to "divorced" as well. On Friday we hung out. We went out to eat, went to the park, and went to a movie. I paid for it all. I made a joke at dinner just 10 minutes into our "date", and she said she can't help being sexually attracted to me. At the end of the night I told her I loved her and wanted her to be happy, she said she loved me, I hugged her, and then I left. We have been talking just about everyday through either email or phone and she even said that sh

2007-07-30 18:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by Mint Car 1

I promised my boyfriend i wouldnt go to an alcohol party and drink. So i didnt go, and they cancelled it anyway. I had a few friends over and we went to a friends house to pick up DVDs. While there, they offered a sip of After Shock. I had one because i didn't think it was a big deal, or going against the promise. One of my friends posted on a myspace bulletin about their last drink being friday and he confronted me about it. So, I confessed about having a sip. He got REALLY upset. He says he made a mistake trusting me. and that i broke his heart. I didn't mean to, i didn't know. I've been crying ever since and I dont know what to do. He means so much to me, and I dont want him to leave me. He said he wasnt sure if hed give me a second chance or not.

i dont know what to do ;-[

2007-07-30 18:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by donthaveanickname 1

I am a man and have had this problem for a while. They are sensitive to the touch and even hurt while running. Please help.

2007-07-30 18:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by manugi20 1

I am at a dire need of advice or anything PLEASE. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 almost 5 months, and all in all we love eachother very much, , It was at the theatre's were everything seemed fine, all it took was a small talk about her moving, and how she was still going to visit, so as it would be natural for me,..I got kinda surprised, and before we both knew it the date was over and our parent's were coming for us. Keep in mind im 17 she's 14.

Ok. But that's not the problem that Im having or had...
It's when she left she called me and asked if I was mad over the little arguement..and I was like no...not at all. Then her phone hanged up. So I got curious, and texted her saying "uh...did you just break up with me?"
I just couldn't help it, but the mistake that had happened was that her mother NOW had the phone in her possesion...oops!
her mom replied with "she's not allowed to date" so later she was forced to break up =[..my chest hurts alot right now should I wait?

2007-07-30 18:18:07 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew R 1

I have lived in my sub for 2 years now and the man behind me has creaped me out from the day i moved in. no one ever sees him unless he is cutting his lawn, there have been strange banging noises from his home. tonight my husband and i were out side and heard a girl crying it got to the point where i went to look for his address but could not see it. so i stood under his window and heard a girl saying "please stop it hurts" I ran home and called the cops but when they went to the home the girl and another girl along with the man came to the door and told the police everything was okay. even if everything is okay (wich it does not sound like it is) these girls are very young and he is in his mid 40's. what do you think about this and what would you do

2007-07-30 18:15:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer H 4

my wife starts this job at a convience store where they sell gas and food she works from 3 to 11 at night she is off monday and tuesday she tells me that she is going in to learn how to cook the food there so at 6 i go to the store and she told me she would have to work the whole shift becuase her boss said the day before she told me she would only have to work from 4 to 7 so i leave to go home i told her before i left i was going to her uncles house for a while and then home well at 9:45 she calls and ask me if i would come get her she was off well she told me when i picked her up that she didnt clock out so she could proveshe got off and left at 8:30 she said she called her uncle and didnt call the house becuase she didnt think i would be here so she says she walked to her cousins house whitch is 100 yards from her work and then she decided to call me her husband when i picked her up she wasnt in the store she was standing out side like she was just droped off do u think she is up 2

2007-07-30 18:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend drives me crazy when she _____

2007-07-30 17:40:30 · 12 answers · asked by die 2

...and how long did it take you to get to that point in the relationship?

How long did it take you to be able to go #2 in front of them (with the bathroom door wide open)?

When a couple does things like fart, pick their nose, or use the toilet in front of each other, what is lost and what is gained in the relationship?

Does this harm the overall attraction factor? Do some of you still hide these things from each other even though you're married or have been together for a long time? Has it kept things more "mysterious"?

2007-07-30 17:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by cpc26ca 1

2007-07-30 16:58:46 · 15 answers · asked by anaknivictoria 2

2007-07-30 16:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

ok so my best friend is having a party at her house this sunday and its also my birthday and my cousins christening. my mom said i'm not allowed to go because its my cousins mom special day and shes not leaving the party for the christening to take me to my friends house. my friend is having the party from 2pm-10:30pm and the party for the christening starts at 2pm. i asked my mom if i can maybe go to the christening party for 2 hours and then go to my friends house afterwards and she came out and said "NO! absolutely not! its becky's special day and i am not leaving the party to take you to your friends house!" but its my special day too! its my birthday :( i don't understand why i just can't go to both. do you think this is fair? i'm 15 btw, and i'm a good kid, i really don't think this is fair at all!

2007-07-30 15:56:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please tell me what happened. Please tell me the truth. Are you in recovery? If not, what is life like? What do your friends and family think?
Please, I need this. Help me understand...please

2007-07-30 15:45:23 · 2 answers · asked by JOHN 7

Because if she is my sister-in-law's cousin(by blood) then she should be my cousin by marriage. Plus we all love each other like we have known each other for years but my brother just married my sister-in-law recently, and my sister-in-law's family are people we will be seeing for the rest of our lives because we all love each other. My sister-in-law's mother who is my brother's mother-in-law and her sisters love me like I was actually related to them by blood, and my mom and my sister-in-law's mother and aunts are like sisters. and when someone like my cousin is geting married we invite relatives like my sister-in-law's mom, dad, aunts, uncles, and her cousins. So is my sister-in-law's cousin related to me by marriage? Is there a name for it? Probably cousin by marriage isn't it.

2007-07-30 15:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i dont have much of a sex life... I just dont have the urge.. like ever! I found out a couple weeks ago that my hormones are all messed up and i dont know if that is it, or what.. Any ideas on what to do to get the desire back?

2007-07-30 15:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay this guy is the definition of discusting. he wont clean. and he dosent take the hint. were even getting evicted because hes so messy. hes the biggest packrat and hes very hardheaded. he doesnt want anyone to tell him what to do and he gets his pantys in a bunch any time some one tells him to clean and do it right. for ex. the kitchen is the dirtiest place in the house cuz he cooks and then leaves wrappers and food in the pan and theres always flys. so i scrubbed it but it got gross again so i scrubbed it again. right after i finished i went up to him while his fat but was sitting on the couch with his box of cereal and asked him to mop the floor. he really didnt want to but i gave him the look that said. get your ace up and do it and dont wait until tomarrow. so he got up grabbed the mop and started. he didnt use ay chemical and he basically threw a fit because i told him to go in there and do it again. how can i get him to shape up and clean. hes making problems 4 everyone.

2007-07-30 15:02:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am trying to find her, plzz help and she lives in michigan

2007-07-30 14:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by wyandot_chick 3

We have been together for a while now and we are serious. I love him with all my heart. We do not live together yet. I want to suprise him with something to show him how much I love him.. something kind of big but straight from the heart..

Any ideas?

2007-07-30 14:45:01 · 2 answers · asked by =({MommyOfTwo})= 3

my brother wants to know if he is really the father of his son. thank you for your help.

2007-07-30 13:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by k 3

My girlfriend's daughter ran up her cell phone to $300. My girlfriend warned her daughter about peak minutes but she didn't listen. My girlfriend took the phone away from her temporarily, but still allows her to use the house phone and text whenever she wants. We have been dating for 8 months now so I decided to give my girlfriend my opinion and said "You shouldn't let her use any phone unless it's an emergency." Then my girlfriend snapped back at me and said "How I discipline my child is my business!"
I then calmly explained that I'm only thinking about our future. I told her "Your child isn't even in high school so you have to teach her before it's too late" I explained that I didn't want us going through the drama of a problem child and I told her that she wasn't doing her daughter any good by not teaching her. She simply got upset with me and I can tell that this will surely be the end of us.
How should I handle this?

2007-07-30 12:56:14 · 1 answers · asked by Iggy 1

Ex. I of course was a toddler at one time and many people would comment to my mom what a joyful and energetic and happy baby I was jumping up and down, on beds, toys, and laughing all along. I still do today (although not the jumping part). Am I born with Joy, or is it instilled in me this way by mom?

2007-07-30 12:12:36 · 4 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5

and takes me to expensive hotels, we've been in six diffferent countries buy me expensive clothes name it, i'm married but we don't stay together with my husband because of his work so he comes home once in 6 months or even a year.now i lied to this guy that i divorced with my husband this is too much for me i really love my husband so much but again , this guy spoils me with material things more than my husband. He even bought me a beautiful car and now he took me to his lawyer 2 months ago he wants 2 buy me a house, i know he really loves but unfortunately i don't but i'm enjoying his money i'm
sorry guys. So i lied to my husband about the car now i don't know if i should take the house?he is divorced and he said if he could ever marry again it will be me he's 30 years older than me but that's not an issue, what shud i do pls. I need help this is not a joke.Anything i ask from this man he does it he requsted to meet up with my family but i cant my mum will kill me.pls help me .

2007-07-30 12:04:59 · 13 answers · asked by 2q2 2