if you were going to be away from your new wife and newborn son for four months for boot camp in the navy and then a school which is in san antonio texas...( bars galore...there its a party city) would you remain faithful to her or go out to bars and possibly pick up a girl for the time you were there (7 weeks) almost two months...be honest. knowing she was states away.
2007-08-02 04:25:07 · 12 answers · asked by suni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forget about bugs what about finding out later that Jr. has a little Sister in Texas. Explain that Romeo.
For you to be concerned tells me that you don't trust him and the chances are good that he will cheat. It won't mean anything to him at first but it may latter. I know I'm in agreement with some of the other guys here that say they woundn't. I never cheated on any girlfriend because I treated those relationships as special and that she may become my wife one day.
2007-08-02 04:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by terminator 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys that can handle being away for that time span as there are a lot ways he can get "relief" besides hooking up with a hooker or bar-girl. I don't have a problem with the bar visits but most guys today would rather be careful and stay safe for their wife and the only way to do that is to lay off the eye candy...Its ok to look at the merchandise but not buy it. There are ver few guys that would want to take a chance on going home to the wife and telling her he has a bug in his pants!
2007-08-02 11:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being faithful is what marriage is all about, you took a vow so be a man about and stick to your guns. I am not saying don't enjoy yourself and by this I mean check out a movie or tour the area you're in. I was in the military for 22 years and I know about temptation. That the devil's work love your wife and son and be faithful God will bless you. You don't want to bring nothing back home to your wife. Use that time for studies and concentrate on making honor grad and make your wife pround. Take a college course and read your Bible. GOOD Luck"
2007-08-02 11:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 23, but do have a wife and a child on the way.
To answer your question, yes I'd be faithful. It doesn't matter how far away or how long I'm away, I won't cheat on her. I have to much self respect and respect for her to even consider it.
But you should take my example as a grain of salt. I don't have the same values as most guys I've met.
2007-08-02 11:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has you hubby ever acted like he might stray? He probably won't have a real lot of time free. I doubt they would be able to leave boot camp most nights - maybe just weekends - maybe not from the start. in school, he'll be studying at night
2007-08-02 11:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd definitely go out to bars and have fun. I'd definitely flirt with the girls. BUT, I would also, definitely, remain faithful to the woman I married and the mother of my baby.
2007-08-02 11:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by barefoot_yank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26 and I'm with the 101st Airborne, guys are more faithful if they have a kid. It all depends if he's easy going or not, most military men would cheat if they dont have Honor, Duty, and Respect.
2007-08-02 11:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go out to the bars, but remain faithful.
2007-08-02 11:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by chaoss13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am honest. I would not pick up a girl for anything other than plain friendship. Believe it or not there are guys who loves their wives and would not cheat on them at the first opportunity.
2007-08-02 11:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamyraj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you looking for trouble? Don't you trust your man? If he hasn't done anything to ruin your trust in the past then don't start now. Trust is one of the things needed to sustain a relationship and if you don't have that then it's destined for trouble!
2007-08-02 11:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Becky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋