My ex and I are not good. I want to be with her but she keeps on telling me not right now...that later on she will make up her mind on whether she wants to be with me or not. I still do all the things a normal boyfriend does but there is no title. We made an agreement to still tell each other what we're up t but she keeps on lying and leaving her house late at night and not telling me where she goes. I still tell her where I am and what im up to...like seriously even when i go to grocery store because thats what she wants. But she refuses to admits that she lies even though i have caught her multiple times. Whenever I try to talk about it she just hangs up or tells me im being stupid. I wanna let her go but i lover her too much and feel strongly that she will come back to me. Am I stupid for thinking that?
2007-08-02 19:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're blinded by love but you should leave her . Go find someone who loves you they way you would love them.
2007-08-10 16:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're no stupid you are in love. Love can be blind, but you must know she's not right 4 u. Her actions speak volumes. She doesn't want 2 b with u, those are her words. So why are u still holding on? Let go(u made be hurt 4 a while but in the long run 2 leave would b very healthy 4 u.)
2007-08-10 16:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Here Kitty Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not stupid just in love, and the girl is not worth it. If she keeps sneaking out the house late at night, maybe she has another boyfriend. There's no point in being in a one-sided relationship. Find someone who's interested in having a fully commited relationship with an honest loving guy. Good Luck :)
2007-08-10 12:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by angel_cakes1086 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 say this but obviously, she isn't interested and she's just lying 2 u so she won't have 2 reject u l8r on because she probbly is 2 scared 2 because she doesn't want 2 hurt your feelings. sorry bro. its the truth at least i think so. if u want confirmation, just ask her straight up do u wanna get back 2gether. if she keeps changing the subject keep asking her till she finally gives u a yes or no answer
2007-08-02 19:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't life wonderful?I am truly mean that,because,we don't have bad experiences in life.do you know why?Because with everything that happens to us we get a lesson from it.That is if we pay attention to our choices and decisions.How wonderful my friend.You know that she lies,so don't ask her when YOU already know.If you 2 are not together than start a new.Make a friend try not to get into a relationship for a couple years ,because you are rebound material and not fair to anyone else.Your relationship with her is I assume over,except that and I would suggest you end it,and that means no waiting,no questions,and no answers.It sounds like she is in control of your life,Go get it back.There is someone out there for you just be patient,patient,patient,stand up you make the choice for yourself.Good luck and stay safe.
2007-08-10 13:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your stupid....she has her cake and she is eating it too...she goes out with others and probably doesn't come home either...she is stringing you along and once she finds anyone better you'll not hear from her again...break it off now ...the heartache will be much less than later..and this is not going to get any better.
2007-08-02 19:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes Stupid you are. just call her tell her you are done. that you are moving on and will find someone who is real. that you are tird of lies and deception and you want a real woman and leave don't go back either she was using you.
2007-08-08 14:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok wat u do is give her space
if u go on and keep askin her things will only get worse
trust me i had problems like dat!!
and if she takes 2 long and u want 2 move on but r tired of waiting on her then dont ask her ne more and when she finally does decide she wants u then u can decide if u want her of if she waited 2 long 2 get ur heart!!
let me kno how it goes!!!!
ttyl
chelsey
2007-08-02 19:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by bradythumper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not stupid but it does sound like she's stringing you along. you really sound like a nice guy and there are so many women out there that would gladly step into her shoes. she doesn't know how good she has it.
2007-08-08 10:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a person like that doesnt deserve a guy like you cut her off thats the best i could say
2007-08-08 06:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by maria7959@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋