does it ever scare you how much power you potentially have to destroy them?
2007-08-09 21:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I ought to point out that I have no intention of hurting anyone and at this point can't see me doing so either intentionally or by accident. I'm getting married soon with absolutely no doubts about it- I've had enough life and love experience to know. It's was just to do with a book Im reading at the moment, it got me thinking, like other people have said, love is such a powerful and all important emotion, I've seen any number of incidences where it can make or break a person. Please don't judge me cause I've asked a question, I'm absolutely not evil!!!!!
2007-08-10 01:44:25 · update #1
Just blown away a little by the power and intensity of it.
2007-08-10 01:44:59 · update #2
It a messed up way, I understand how you're thinking, but you'd be suprised how much they could do the same in return,
2007-08-09 21:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is a scary thing from all angles as it is the most powerful emotion of all, beyond all rationality. It has toppled empires and started wars.
The thing is that power in itself is nothing .. it is how you use it that defines its nature. So while you might have the power to destroy someone, if you are a nice person then it will never happen and you have nothing to worry about.
I know that seems a little idealistic but if you are talking about breaking up with someone who loves you there are still ways of doing it to limit damage etc .. if however you cheat or something like that then yes devestation is likely but also not unexpected.
2007-08-09 21:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not about power it is the fact that obviously this person loves you & you don't feel the same back. If this is the case you will only be able to do so much to hurt them but eventually they will have had enough & walk away. It may seem you can destroy them but it will only be a temporary destruction. Be kind & end it so this person can find true love that is recipricated.
2007-08-09 22:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think I know what you mean. Love can be a scary emotion. Im studying Othello in English and it's a good example of the power love can have over you.
2007-08-09 23:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by caroline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't scare me because I don't ever think about destroying anyone. That's just plain EVIL!!!! (yes, even just thinking about it)
Check yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you ever loved someone so much that they could possibly destroy you - would you like it? "Do onto others... " Your thoughts have a positive or negative effect on yourself - depending on how you think. Think wisely and nothing bad will bounce back to you!
Or maybe get a life!
Jeez!!
2007-08-09 21:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Fam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always feels that way thats why a smallest incident should be your excuse to get of the relationship before things get out of hand otherwise someone is going to be hurt and a heart break is one of the greatest pains on earth .
2007-08-09 21:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by pee jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe some times people give themselves a little to much power. If some one loves you and you destroy them then you didn't realy love them at all and you don't deserve that person if you plan on using his/her love as a weapon.
2007-08-09 21:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by rqlwlch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its even worse when you realise you dont love them and end up leaving them. It is the worst thing I have ever done. To see how I potentially ruined 6 months of their live while they got over me, did not make me feel like a very nice person.
2007-08-09 21:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by johnlovesbeer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly speaking, love is really scary. There are people who love someone so much when their beloved gets involved with another, they could go all the way even killing off the other person for the desire to get back the person whom he love.
2007-08-09 22:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by preciouslittlestars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you're a good person.
In your life, you are likely sometime,
both to be loved without returning it.
and to love without its being returned.
Treat the first instance with kindness,
and hope that you're kindly treated in the second.
2007-08-09 21:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋