2007-08-09 13:01:13 · 18 answers · asked by Natalia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go out with other guys
2007-08-09 13:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats an easy one...I can speak from expierience on this one. I am a soldier in Iraq right now for the second tgime and when I was here for the first time in 2003 my now exwife of 8 years left me, took everything I had, to include my kids and I have not seen or heard from her since. It still hurts to this day but I eventually, with help from friends and lots of alcohol got over it. Every now and then I think about her but i really just mostly miss my kids. The only thing that I can advise is to get yourself out more often and do things that will keep your mind off of the matters at hand. Any hobby of yours, anything! Just remember to Smile! Life is precious and so are you!
2007-08-17 02:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A difficult road !! Especially, if you still love him. It will take time, alot of tears, regret, " what if had done "X", would we still be together?? Self-doubt will cross your mind, often. Seven years is a long time to be with another. Depression will probably hit you. If this does, seek a therapist to discuss your feelings/hurt. There is no quick remedy, unfortunately. Find ways that can help with distraction. What activities do you enjoy. Start an exercise program ( get permission from your Doc before starting an exercise program). How about getting together with friends to go out?.,Talking about your feelings is helpful. It is going to take time. It's ok to cry. I wish that there was a " pill" that a person can take to be able to get over a relationship, overnight. Hang in there and Good Luck.
2007-08-16 13:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age you should have known that after 4-years of dating and not ring on your finger it was not going anywhere fast.
You already have a crush on someone, so it looks like you are going to be A-ok.
Just be glad you didn't waste anymore time with on the ex boyfriend and decide what you will do if he asks to come back. It is better to decide this now then to wait when he is standing in front of you begging.
2007-08-09 20:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.. in the begining it'll be hard but u must make a decision not to think of him ever again , forget all ur memories as if it never happen , deep inside u forgive him if he did hurt u and forgive urself if u did hurt him , let it go ! don't imagine how it was going to be if u still together ! what gone is gone !
go out with ur freinds , find a new activity to fill the empty space in ur life , love urself and be gentle with urself , be strong , its ur life so don't let anyone or anything makes u sad ,, u only live once ,, so live it the best u can :)
good luck
2007-08-09 20:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take some time but you will.It is hard when you first start out but just remember that there was a reason that you broke up, it might not have been your choice but it happend. Think of your happyness, in time it will not be that hard think of tommorrow not yesterday.You will get through it what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
2007-08-16 23:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by rhondam79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy, just meet new people and get on with your life 7 years is long time. i dont' know how old you are but its bad you were out of dating for that long. anyhow move on and you will findsomeone out there that is good to you and not long for the wait.
2007-08-14 23:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Travelling to a place where you've never been before. Think about Brazil! Tropical weather, beautiful people and very cheap to foreign tourists.
Good luck!
2007-08-17 19:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by juferrazcoelho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a part of you
it doesn't matter how hard you try to forget,
the most you can do is just pick up the pieces and move on with your life,
I mean 7 yrs. is a long time, it is going to be hard to forget.
We all have a past
it just depends on how we deal with it,
good luck to you
2007-08-17 19:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by karibbean beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sweat it. Keep partyin,and hangin with your friends,maybe a date or two.
If you date (somebody else) youll be over it in a couple weeks.If you dont date,give it a month.
Truth be known youll always be a little pissed about it though.
2007-08-09 20:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Gonzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk 2 him avoid any contact with him dont do anything that reminds u of him or that u did together then u will be over him in no time
2007-08-17 17:23:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋