Other - Family & Relationships - 1 August 2007

2007-08-01 14:22:31 · 3 answers · asked by kenny g 1

my brothers son baptism my brother says he will invite but i dont trust him if hes telling me the truth and if he does come in case should i buy a new top incase and i feel if he does come i hope hes still interested how would i know of that and how could i help myself not being nervous help

2007-08-01 14:21:35 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

I got a call from a recruiter, and when I didn't call her back immediately, my mother got angry. I was in the middle of helping my mom. Then she stated that I was making her look bad, and then slammed the door in my face. I thought we were going out, and was waiting for her. Found out she had me out in the car waiting for her. So she starts a fight with me telling me that she cannot understand how I pay for things, like clothing, and that I should have listened to her when she said I should go alone. I swear she never said a word. I work for a living! Then she asks me if I want to go out to the mall or out to lunch, after everything she said to me. I make a point never to make her feel bad, but she uses everything I say against me. I have felt so bad today, my hands would not stop shaking. I feel like everything I do is never good enough for her. She intentionally wanted me to feel bad.

2007-08-01 13:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

to fall?My question is should i buy now or wait 1 more yr and save more money?I don't want to wait if the prices are expected to go back up again.

2007-08-01 13:28:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you remember the songs we sang when we were children? Would you teach them to your children or grandchildren? if Not - why not?

2007-08-01 13:01:29 · 23 answers · asked by carpathian mage 3

why should I keep living even though I'm a born loser/screwup who messes up everything and every relationship I've ever been ivolved in and have somehow hurt just about everyone who has tried to be a part of my life?

2007-08-01 12:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a site that will make family crests for you on commission?
My husband wants something unique to us and is really into genealogy and photos so I was thinking about getting him a photo album with a custom crest embossed on it.

2007-08-01 12:41:05 · 4 answers · asked by CJ 1

Are you at your wits end with your child?
i am.
so this is the situtation:
my five year old boy was away for 4 weeks w/ his biological father for summer visitation. this dude is a deadbeat, still lives with his parents, my boy sleeps on the sofa-bed with him, they smoke cigarettes @ him which contributed to making my son's bronchitis flare up. i took him to the dr. today and she said he's asthmatic. we don't smoke cigarettes! anyway...that's not the point...that just furiates me....
my point is that my son is TOTALLY disrespecting me. before he left it was like this, but not that bad. now he just pushes my buttons. i'm talking to him nicely and he starts to yell at me. he shoved me off of him today, like get off me bleep. i just feel that he doesn't care for me anymore because his deadbeat "father" put all sorts of thoughts into his head. and i'm not going to interrogate my son about it...that's the last thing he needs. poor guy gets ripped out of my house every other week to rule another house without discipline

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while at my house we discipline our children. we have sticker charts for good behavior and punishments that fit the crime. so he goes back and forth of the two atmospheres and i feel he's got enough on his plate that i shouldn't put him in any hot seat about who's saying what about whom. but he's just pushing me. he is not looking at me, being rude, telling me no, just not being my boy. he's being my mean boy. i don't know what to do. what i feel like doing is raising my voice and punishing him for talking back to me, but that wont work because he wins if he pisses me off-because that's what he's trying to do. he's trying to see how far he can get with me to see if i can blow up on him. which i am not going to do because that's not the right thing to do. i calmly talk to him, while i'm losing it inside! i don't know if you have ever felt this way with your child. i never have. he's five. i love him dearly and don't want to be stuck in this pattern of him being rude to me

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because i am not going to let my child run the show. i'm the boss and he wants to be the boss. it's such a difficult situation that i don't know how to deal with. what brought me here was that i was going to help him clean his room, he shares one with his 2 1/2 yr. old sister. so we were all going tohelp. but he started up and i was gonna lose it so i took an extended time out to cool off. i'll go help him now because if he doesn't clean his room he's not going to go to the park tomorrow like we had said we were gonna do if we clean it. ahhhh! help

2007-08-01 12:36:10 · 7 answers · asked by pwrgrlmanda 5

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and things havent been so good.... it doesnt seem like he appreciates me and everything i do for him(which is alot). its like he puts me last but yet when i talk to him about it he says no.... he always forgets when were suppose to hang out n when i metion it its like we never discussed it.... i try not to get mad because he is always working on his dream which is becoming an actor/director which he is so close.......... bbut there ids always the forgetting me.........i work around he schedule so much its sad...... i could be on my way to my friend and he will call and ask me to come over and i will... just to get a little time with him but i think he is just taking advantage of me...... be cause when it comes to me asking him to come over he will be like no you can come over though i dont know what i should do... should i try to work it out or what?????????

2007-08-01 12:25:22 · 1 answers · asked by heartsssss 1

under 13 even on this site..... too young coming online at all hours of the night.... i posted this question after reading a comment by a 12 yr old posted 2 mins b4 this!!!

2007-08-01 12:13:18 · 8 answers · asked by miss sunshine 3

i am 11 years old and i am going out with this guy. Im seeing him next Tuesday and Im afraid he might kiss me! I've never had a kiss before so i'm kinda nervous. and please. if your a grown-up looking at this don't give me one of your answers saying "la la la, your too young for kissing". Im really nervous, but i really wanna kiss him. any advice?

2007-08-01 12:04:41 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 3

me and my boyfriend live about 40mins away. and all we do is txt, i told him i wanted to talk to him on the phone sometimes, he said we could start that when he goes to college. which that made me a lil upset, i told him i love talking to him and he still said we can start that when he leaves. then i told him he was pissing me off, and he said ok call me.

2007-08-01 11:40:01 · 4 answers · asked by sam 1

And never seen again as a lever to split the two of you up as an appeasement to a generation of evil jealous liars, how would you feel?

2007-08-01 10:57:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wish something was different in your life?

2007-08-01 10:52:08 · 32 answers · asked by Alena 1

Guess the question cannot be much clearer. Just curious as to if anyone has ever said anything or you have read anything helpful after losing a loved one, especially traumatically.

Or what bad things people have said. After my little brother was killed in Iraq a couple months ago, someone actually told me, "Well, it should be easier for you because he has been gone so long. You are used to him being gone..." Um yeah, gone to another part of the world from which he was supposed to be coming back again. Not gone to heaven where he cannot call or write, and will not be coming home again... Horrible, horrible thing to say to anyone!!!

So tell me what you have heard. Basically I am looking for something to make this horrible pain go away, even though I know it will not...

2007-08-01 10:38:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So in my attempts to try to combat my husband's porn problem, I have many thoughts. First off I am not that fat. I am like 20lbs over weight. I don't look bad, I'm just not anorexic anymore. My husband tells me he looks at porn because I am fat. My mom tells me to go to fat camp, and the girls he looks at are nothing but skin and bones (i've been there done that).

So this morning he told me he pretends I'm one of the porno chicks while we're having sex. Mind you in the same breath he tells me he loves me more than anything.

People told me not to withhold sex because he will just do it more. So my question is what can I do. I don't want to feel used. I don't want him to pretend I'm someone else. I feel cheap, and this is not what sex is about. If i wanted meaningless I would be a whore.

I decided I will starve myself into the hospital, what can I do to show him how much it hurts? Words don't get thru. I need actions. I thought about suicide....

please help. What to do?

2007-08-01 10:33:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, basically at work, I feel so alone and hate going there everyday (but I have to go to make ends meet, you know?). So the girls at my office say hello to every single person whenever they walk into a room, except for me. When they see me they start whispering and don't invite me to lunch or anything like they do with every other person. I've been working there for a month. They were very nice to me the first two or three days and I was so excited about my new job, but now they are so rude. It makes me cry every day and I eat lunch in the lobby to get away from it all. I never did anything that would piss them off. I've been there for a month now and I used to think it would get better, but it's not. I can't leave my job there. At least not until I find something else. Can anyone give me some help on how to make friends there or at least have people be nicer/like me?

2007-08-01 10:28:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 10:19:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a father in law who got into my face a few weeks ago and screamed at me "I hate you, I always have, I'll never love you, I'll never forgive you..."
I thought for sure he was going to punch me in the face.
This was entirely unexpected and shocked my husband and his wife, too.
He let me know when my husband and I got engaged that I was not welcome in the family, that he did not trust me or like me, that he didn't want me around, etc., and had spread rumors about me to my peers and told them to stay away from me.
Anyway, I've been nothing but nice and tolerant of these people (my inlaws and my husband's siblings and spouses) and they've just treated me so unfairly and backstabbed, gossiped and critisized my husband and I just too much.
I vented in a blog one time, w/out mentioning names, and my sister in law read it and sent copies of it to EVERYBODY that she knows, that includes people I've never met. Anyway, all of it just accumulated to my father-in-law yelling in my face

2007-08-01 09:50:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

To my dismay I have realized that I am a people pleaser. It is wearing me down, and people feel that they can use me any time they feel like it. I want a little respect in life...I'm just afraid to say no and make people unhappy. I think its time for a change. But how do I do it? Any suggestions at all?

2007-08-01 09:45:57 · 16 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5

ok my sister was had a baby with a guy who she was with for 6 years. the guy became verbally abusive and eventually i talked her into leaving him. she moved with me to california from indiana. about 5 months into the move she starts a long distance/phone relationship with a guy she knew from indiana.well they fell in love and he is a great guy and would be a great step father for her son. so he came to visit a few times and on the last visit she had told him she wasnt on any birth control and offered a condom and he said no and they joked about getting pregnant. well, they did. now my sister is moving back to IN to be with the guy, and they've talked marriage. but she was just out visiting him and she's nit picking on why she doesnt want to be with him anymore. supposidly he only showers every other day. which that would bug me too. he's too afectionate, wanting to hold her and kiss and cuddle all night. that kind of stuff. she doesnt want to move now, what can i tell her?

2007-08-01 09:44:56 · 1 answers · asked by bn123 3

okay so i have 2 best friends kelly & cassie and my best friend kelly has 2 hot brothers and one is single, and 23 (by the way we're 16) and he jokes around with us all the time and brings kelly cassie and i places when he's in town(he's in the army) he just makes jokes with us some are funny and some arent, and we have big crushes on him but nothing to the extent of dating him thats just gross...but the other day after he left to go back to the army he left my friend cassie a message saying "hurry up turn 18"

...okay so that freaked me out. i told cassie dont talk to him anymore thats just freaky, but the thing is he's never done anything to us before to make us think he's a pervert. i dont know what should be do?not go over kelly's anymore?what should cassie say to him?

2007-08-01 09:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 08:59:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

we're they all good?

2007-08-01 08:45:38 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend since 7th grade is muslim/bangali. she and her parents have a very estranged relationship, her father is abusive and he hardly works and makes her support the household. while her mother blames her for everything and holds resentment towards her because shes darker than her sister. Any way, ive always been there to support her with her problems, when she ran away twice, and i even helped her bring it to the police when the were beating her, but this time i dont think i can help. you see this summer she went to bangladesh to see family and i had a bad feeling about this 'vacation' and i got a call at 3 lastnight that proved me right, there forcing her to stay there and marry someone she doesnt know (shes only 18) ill never see her again and she wants me to help her but i dont know how, all i can offer is my prayers. i cant even call her back because i dont want get her in trouble because her parents dont like me and they practice black magic.. how can i be a good friend?

2007-08-01 08:37:03 · 12 answers · asked by fizzarella 2

when is the right age to loose ur virginity, im 14 and i already have a friend who has done it (she is 13). im older than her and i feel embarrassed because i thought i would have done it b4 her. So can u help me and give an estimate age.

2007-08-01 08:30:02 · 33 answers · asked by [mrs.cullen] 2

so my exs new girlfriend is psycho she is constantly emailing me and saying mean things about me and my daughter who is my exs. she says things about my past and what I have done and posts pictures of my daughter on her myspace page and says that she is hers. she says she wants to come see my daughter but I dont want her anywheres near her after what she has said about her I actually believe that this girl has big mental issues from what she has said and done. she has a website with almost nude pictures of herself that talks about her liking skat and goldens (sexual) stuff and I dont want my daughter around her. but she says that my ex has visitation (which he does) and that she will come with him I dont want to stop my daughter to not be able to see her dad but I dont want her near this woman...any help would be greatly appreciated

2007-08-01 08:25:45 · 20 answers · asked by Joe 1

2007-08-01 08:18:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-01 07:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

other than sex, I mean when you dating someone and are unwilling to be open to meeting other people. You keep your options closed and that can lead to marrying the wrong person. Maybe God wants you to marry someone great but you wont give 'em the time of day because you have a boy friend/girl friend. In the old days they didn't have exclusive relationships until engagement.

2007-08-01 07:41:06 · 3 answers · asked by wisemancumth 5