Help? work problem...?

Question

So, basically at work, I feel so alone and hate going there everyday (but I have to go to make ends meet, you know?). So the girls at my office say hello to every single person whenever they walk into a room, except for me. When they see me they start whispering and don't invite me to lunch or anything like they do with every other person. I've been working there for a month. They were very nice to me the first two or three days and I was so excited about my new job, but now they are so rude. It makes me cry every day and I eat lunch in the lobby to get away from it all. I never did anything that would piss them off. I've been there for a month now and I used to think it would get better, but it's not. I can't leave my job there. At least not until I find something else. Can anyone give me some help on how to make friends there or at least have people be nicer/like me?

Answer 1

When ever possible try making conversation with the other workers. Don't let them bully you away. Try your best to become part of the group. When you go alone to eat lunch, you are only running from the problem.
It is always hard when starting a new job. They have their own little clicks and sometimes if one person says anything negative about a certain people, the others tend to follow.
Its not your fault. You did nothing wrong.
Just show them the good person you are.
Once they get to know you, things will get better.

When you go to work hold your head High and say Good morning to people around you and ask how there morning is going.

~faith