Other - Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

i am struggling with the fact that i don't feel like i can be myself around anyone. not my whole self anyways. i can be pieces of myself with people, but never the whole thing. is it possible to find someone i am completely comfortable around? i have always been a little bit of an odd ball, but...i don't know. will i ever get to be myself and feel someone there at the same time? or will i always be an echo chamber of ideas, kept to myself? is it just harder for me? or does everyone feel lonely to an extent? i've heard before that loneliness is the human condition. i just need some oppinions. thanks.

2007-07-24 09:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Serious answers only please. I'm curious because my man loves it in the morning....

2007-07-24 08:24:03 · 32 answers · asked by Tanesia 2

please i need you help i love 2 girls and i just wan to be with 1 of them. please help

2007-07-24 07:51:41 · 31 answers · asked by Jorge C 2

Any honest answer would be deeply appreciated.

Thank you!

2007-07-24 07:15:42 · 12 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4

2007-07-24 06:47:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong to leave a relationship with out telling the other person and just leaving a "dear john" letter? Even though you are scared of the person and how he will react to the news?? The relationship has made you miserable for a very long time now? You have a 3 yr old to think about. The situation is not a healthy one for you or your child? Is it wrong to pack and leave without saying goodbye?

2007-07-24 05:50:16 · 26 answers · asked by Just me 1

2007-07-24 05:44:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm dating this good looking boyfriend of mine for 7 months. He is everything I ever ask for as far looks and figure, but as times passed by I started to see things that turn me off. I am caring, compassionate, passionate, loving, strongwell, ambitious, considerate, and given woman. I love love affections, caressing, touch, massage. I am a given-take person. My boyfriend is more of the taker kind of guy. Everything is "me...me....me" the way I see more and more in him. All I ever asked from him is call me the end of working days and spend time talk on the phone to see how each other's day went and he was offending by me express my thoughts. We live 2 hours (93 miles) away from each other...only see each everyother weekend. Several times during the last 7 months...we boating once...we went Six Flag twice...we went to the beach once here in my town and once in his town. All he ever want is body massage but never return any. Should I dump him or deal with him? Is he self-center guy or not

2007-07-24 05:07:56 · 12 answers · asked by Yukuamua 2

what do you like to do....

i go take a shower and go to sleep...i hate the whole cuddle S***.

2007-07-24 05:03:25 · 28 answers · asked by D N 3

even if i lay down all night the next morning i stand up it all comes out

2007-07-24 04:45:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well she's very nice with me she likes to share good and bad moments, she's beautifull and her body rocks, i don't know what to do.

2007-07-24 04:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

After my baby daddy and i met things got really heated up, and shortly after that i fell pregnant. When i told him that i was pregnant i was surprised by his reaction cos i didnt expect him to be supportive about the pregnancy . he said that he'd be with me throughout the pregnancy and i guess in the beginning he was. Shortly after i started showing he started acting funny and i guess he ended falling in love with somebody else. During our supposed stay together i fell so in love with him i can't begin to explain. He did not tell me that he had found somebody else till i had given birth to our baby and when i asked him why he didnt tell me before he said cos he was afraid i would have a miscarriage. he has continued to be a part of our lives in a way that scares me. he told me that he doesnt love me anymore but although my head has given up, my heart controls the rest of me. I get panic attacks when i think about him, just dont know what to do anymore!!! I've tried everything!

2007-07-24 04:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. We had a very serious realtionship and dated for about 2 years. Everything was perfect in our relationship except for the fact that I worried and questioned him about everything. I was always paranoid that he was going to do something to hurt me even though he never actually gave me a reason to worry. He was always mad at me because I was either questioning him or he was thinking about me questioning him.

He broke up with me three weeks before this last breakup but gave me one last chance to show him I could change. I tried very hard, but I got jealous when a girl started working with him. He broke up with because he thinks I can't change and he wants to get away from drama.

I'm not sure if this is what he really wants because he told his family that he was taking time away from the relationship and he needed space. He told me there was no hope and it was over. He did tell me he still loves me though. I'm not sure what he really wants.

2007-07-24 04:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom still thinks im her little baby but the truth is that i have grown up she still doesnt like it when i walk a to the next street over i dont think she agrees with me making my own decisons in life

2007-07-24 03:49:28 · 6 answers · asked by emcee 3 2

some time ago i made fun of my mom when she was cleaning up. she was bending down and her thong was sticking out of her pants. i took a pic with my cell phone as a piece of evidence....
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i said she had a fat butt or something (not very nice, i know)....she turned around, smiled at me, and then she took a full bottle of dish soap (!) and SMASHED it full force into my balls. it honestly felt like she crushed my nuts. i went down to my knees and couldn't stop moaning from the pain. my testicles were aching so much that i could feel them pounding....and my mom was laughing in tears. she found it funny like hell. and later she said to me something like "sorry honey, but i always wanted to smack a guy in the nut"....so i know it was her intention to get me there.

do you think my mom's a funny person for a 46 year old woman? or is it right for me to feel embarrassed by the whole thing?....let alone my aching testicles....

2007-07-24 03:48:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 and do not live with my mother .My mom was watching my son while I went to school in the evening.I came home and found an empty bag of chips on the my porch.I asked her if anyone had come over.She said no.She left.

I talked my boyfriend later and he acted as if he didn't want to come over.I had a friend over and then he showed up.He said he had been over at 8pm, that the lights were off then came on and then my mom started talking inside the house and he left.

Why would she lie?

2007-07-24 03:05:09 · 22 answers · asked by primamaria04 5

2007-07-24 02:46:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Either i don't know how to be a good person, or this is just abnormally hard for me. Family, friends and God just seem to be on one page, but loving my boyfriend at the same time.. i don't know
Cus when i look at him, i forget who i am, where i came from. He steals my pain away, but i can't forget what made me who i am. I seem to forget the importance of family, friends and God.
I JUST noticed this yesterday, and i'm trying to change.
I do realize the benefits of the "single life" but i have no intentions at ALL to break up with him.. cus well.. i love him and he has become a part of my life.

I just need some advice.. help!

2007-07-24 02:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice on how to stop dwelling in the past, to let go of hurts, disappointments, angry. I need some motivation on trusting people again. My emotions are weak and it's affecting my relationships.

2007-07-24 01:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by Tootsie 1

Eight years ago I gave birth to fraternal twins, My daughter was a stillbirth (still havent gotten over that). My ex-husband and I are divorced in part because I would not have an abortion, and he was abusive.... I went through the pregnancy by myself and I buried my daughter by myself since I was out in corpus christi Tx. with no family and friends... I'm angry with him because he didnt attend her funeral and when he found out she had passed away he said "I'm glad she died" and hung up the phone. Its been eight years since I buried her and he has never once paid his respects even though he's gone back to Texas several times. I dont want to be angry with him anymore I dont want to hate him anymore but its very difficult when I see him neglecting our children, yet he is father of the year to his wifes daughter when he didnt even want his OWN daughter. I dont want to be angry anymore because I've realized that negative energy is just poison, how do I stop disliking this man?

2007-07-24 01:34:41 · 21 answers · asked by Princess 2

and the feelings have changed for this other man i am starting to like him.should i tell him how i feel?

2007-07-24 01:17:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous