how do i show my mom that i have matured and can accept responsibility?

Question

my mom still thinks im her little baby but the truth is that i have grown up she still doesnt like it when i walk a to the next street over i dont think she agrees with me making my own decisons in life

Answer 1

Start by telling you mom you want to accept responsibility. Next, agree to do whatever she tells you.

Taking responsibility is something that she knows very well and she can recognize when you've learned to do it and when you haven't with her eyes closed. Learn from her.

The ability to take responsibility is a gift she will freely give you, and for which you will love your mom and be forever grateful.

Answer 2

I hope that one day you will recognise the difference between taking on responsibility, & simply demanding it just because you have a sense of entitlement.

Meanwhile here's a few things for you to consider.
1) How neat is your room right now? No excuses, just answer the question for yourself. Is it as neat as you can possibly make it?
2) How are your grades in school? Do you work as hard at advancing yourself as you possibly can?
3) What things do you do to help your mom around the house? Do you do as much as she requires of you? If so, do you do ONLY what is required of you, or do you try to find something else you can do to lighten HER load around the house.
4) When you say you are going to "walk to the next street over" do you do just that OR, do you go where you want without telling her?

Your mom would be more comfortable with you making your own decisions if you demonstrated to her that you really do have the ability to make RESONSIBLE decisions.
When you leave gaps in your decision making. IT'S HER job to step in & fill those gaps. She does it beccause she loves you, & wants you to be safe & happy.

The less you fight her when she tells you what she wants from you, the more mature you will appear to her. :-)

Answer 3

You still sound a bit too young to be makin your own decisions about life. The best way to win your mums trust is to do and accept anything she says without causing a fuss and eventually she will se that you are no longer a baby. Throwing a tantgrum cos u cant get your own way just goes to prove that you are still acting childish so go out of your way to act mature and she will eventually see how grown up you are and start giving you a bit more freedom , little by little. Good luck

Answer 4

well you should always give respect to your mother or any woman for that fact start holding doors for people and tell her that you have matured a lot and you think your ready to make your own decisons in life...clean your room or make breakfeast in bed for her.. do things that show off your newfound matureity... best of luck.. but you do sound a bit young to make your own decisions any way...how old r u anyway? amen douglas d.

Answer 5

Do things around WITHOUT being asked to do them.

Answer 6

how old are you?