Other - Family & Relationships - 6 June 2007

Do you think that sex education should be taught in school? Do you see this as a long term answer for kids to think about the consequences of their choices, stds and so on.
Do you think it needs to go into more detail than it has for years? Do you really believe that children who are guarded from it do better than children who are taught sex education?
I will be interested in your thaughts. Thanks!

2007-06-06 23:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by sharlaksmith 2

I have a some what problem I think see I fell in love with my bestfriends ex old man and every since I have not been the same person I make myself look bad when I say my bestfriends old man hu but its true I LOVE him so much. Well they broke up and I have liked him for a long time we even messed around before they got together, She has made life hell see he has 2 boys with her. She keeps telling him she dont want me around her kids and man I'm tellling you what she is something else. But the problem is not her really it is he dont open up to me and tell me how he feels. When he does open up he wont come around for a few days and that I dont understand neither, He has done a lot wrong in the 2 years we have been seeing each other but I cant turn away from him I feel like he is my world I love him so much could you give me some advice on how I could maybe tell him how much he means to me or even any advice on how to get him to open up some...

2007-06-06 23:43:23 · 5 answers · asked by zackahron 1

I have been a good son, I think , over the years. I have always supported and helped my mo even though I have two sisters and one brother (all older than me) who have fallen out with her over the years. Maybe my mom was a at fault too sometimes.

Anyway I got married a few years ago. They never accepted my wife into the family, and I got more distant from them, including my mom until basically we ending up getting racially attacked (my wife was my sister's target) - we went to the police to protect ourselves because they threatened us....we then ended up in court taken there by my sisters.

A long story...anyway, with the court case behind us we thought that would be the end of it. But my mom who lives alone
has continued to put pressure on me and my wife, and not giving me much time and peace for myself. I have worried about her alot but tried to give her help where I could.

Anyway, my sisters, after years of blanking my mom out of their life, are back on the scene, and they now have a common intereste - their hatrred of my and my wife. My mom has said she does'nt wanna fall out with me, but her actions say different.She called them - my sisters for help. And to be fair - they have given hher some help. But I have given her help over all my life, they turn up and now the smallest thing they do seems great. I feel unappreciated. And now, the money I banked from my mom, fo r my mom's bills was designed to make it easy for her to not worry about her bills. I would bank the money, then pay them on line when they would come in. My mom has gotten increasingly agoraphobic so it seemsed the best way to help her. I would not do her or anyone out of a penny. So when my sister called me I was shiocked - they have a lot of balls to call me after what they put us through, and now they pretend to show care for my mom.

I told my mom this morning that I dfid'nt want my sisters back in my life, and now she was the cause of it. I also told her I would send her every penny back this week. But this has really hurt, I feel she has sided with the devil, because my sisters have no good qualities.

Have any of you ever been threatened / challenged by your sisters or family member, what did you do, and what would you advise me to do? I just want a quiet life, but my sisters threatned to make life hell for me and they are delivering on that promise.

I told my my mom to contact me when my sisters let her down - because they will - but otherwise I wanna be left alone. I also told her that there were laws in this country and if my sisters or brother try harrassing me or my wife, then I will take it further. If you think I am too harsh, tell me so, but I just want to protect me and my wife, because the whole family seems dead against us.

Thank you

2007-06-06 23:40:53 · 11 answers · asked by jonoxk 3

im having a few problems and i need somebody to answer this question in the quickest time possible

2007-06-06 23:27:35 · 12 answers · asked by tamzin b useful today 2

in yahoo answers pregnancy category ,i saw girls being pregnant at the age of even 13&14.how did they ever fooled themselves and their parents and lose their virgin at such small age. how do they find time to be closer.dont their subconcious mind hold them back.wont heir life be painful after that?

2007-06-06 20:25:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lives in Canada, Missisauga. I live in Singapore. His birthday is coming up and i've got a big surprise for him. But i want to give him a bouquet 2 days before his birthday, to have him anticipate his gift. Do you guys know of any online store that i can get flowers for less than 50 canadian bucks??

2007-06-06 20:23:35 · 4 answers · asked by sabrewilde666 3

i have a boyfriend....at first i was very very inlove with him that im willing to take risk just for him...but now...that feeling is gone...but i show to him that i still love him because i dont want to hurt his feelings...should i leave him or should i learn to love him again?

2007-06-06 19:58:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

whenever he gets mad at me for this that or the other thing and never says sorry to me. he never feels that he has done wrong, always blaming me for his course of actions. is this a vicious cycle? i asked him if he has been physical with his ex-wives before (yes, married and divorced 2 times) but he denies it. I asked if i am the first woman he has ever been physical with and he says yes. even after all the abuse, he never says sorry or make it up to me... will he do this again in the future?
i am emotionally very attached to him and everytime i am hurt (even though it's not his fault), i tend to show him the frustrations cuz i want his attention, his love, his hugs and kisses and i will feel a lot better but when he ignores me & i throw a fit about it, he turns out to be a monster and strangles me and yet he boldly says he loves me. Does love hurt anyone? Has anyone been thru what i have been thru?

2007-06-06 19:01:55 · 37 answers · asked by Such is Life! 1

i caught my boss with another woman, her wife is Illinois working as a nurse. and he has 3 children... should i tell her wife what happenin or should i keep my mouth close? we're here in the Philippines!

2007-06-06 16:55:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need to ask this boy out before school ends, but he is kinda picky, so what should i say to not embarras me or him, but also get him to think about it, or say yes

2007-06-06 16:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 13 and i have never been kissed before. i like boys ( and i am a girl) do u think i am a little too young to be expecting a kiss?
have u ever fallen in love?

2007-06-06 15:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by jocey 2

Like a mother plotting to part her son with his girlfriend or an office villain inventing a plan to get rid of a colleague? Or a friend trying to take your love away from you? Do people who do it exsist in a real life?

2007-06-06 15:29:11 · 1 answers · asked by Tusia 4

Do you think it's possible to love someone too much. If you do what does loving someone too much mean or look like?

2007-06-06 14:44:39 · 6 answers · asked by Adani 1

I just found out my sister's boyfriend of 14 years had a baby by another woman (this is not his first time doing this)He has done it before and has an 11 year old from his previous affair (my sister forgave him for this one) but now i heard he has a 3 mos. old by another woman (My sister has three kids from him). My question is do i tell her about his new baby? or maybe she already knows but is to ashame to tell me? I have told her before that i heard rumors of him cheating again but she never believed me. Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-06-06 14:41:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really need a confidence boost. just a few years ago, i was really outgoing and loud and laughed almost constantly. but now, i feel like a boring person. in conversation, there are a lot more awkward silences and i catch myself stuttering or i find people having to ak me to repeat what i said. i just want to be me again but i don't know how to get there. anyone going through the same thing or have gone through this? have any advice? thanks--

2007-06-06 14:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, currently im with girl who the past couple of week ive noticed how manipulative, selfish, controlling, sneaky, angry(blames it on pnd, which she did have around 3 mos ago and i helped her 100% ) etc. Everything was fine until i got so stressed the other week and noticed the way she was trying to control me and my life! using our son as an excuse to do basically everything, i noticed this and her other ways we obviosly argued and argued . When i finally thought i was getting through to her she'd flip another one on me..making it out as if i was the one who caused this rift, taking no responsiblity for her own action. Don't want a broken family but i dont think i can take more of her negativity and emotional abuse, she has had a history of depression since she was 14 and i knew that.We wherent together till our son was born...we dated for 3 mos 2 yr ago and split. She always wanted us to get back and i stupidly slept with her a few times and next thing shes preg(accident?).....

2007-06-06 13:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

can someone explain to me the purpose in killing her???

it just dosent make sence AT ALL becuase i would understand if they killed her for her money or robbed her car but why would they just randomly pick a girl to kill? wtf it dosent make sence. and how did the person know she was going to be in target? the plan had to take a long time to plan.. can someone give me some insight on this..opinions ect?

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2007-06-06 11:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

and why.

2007-06-06 11:29:34 · 2 answers · asked by ? 7

My sister recently moved out with her abusive boyfriend. She doesnt talk to us anymore and I have no idea where she is. I love her so much. But I just cant seem to get over it. Any ideas?!?

2007-06-06 11:00:09 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

My sister is 12 and she goes in my room and takes shirts,pants,make-up and uses them and sometimes i never see it again.She justs takes it and lies about it when i asks her if she know where it is please help me know how to put an end to it

2007-06-06 10:49:35 · 11 answers · asked by Lynsey N 1

Basically weve been together a little over a year. My mom is angry and unaccepting because my girlfriend had previously been married and had a divorce. I love her very much, and think that the past is the past. I just want to cultivate a relationship that is not built on the past but rather looks to the future. My Mom is remarried and her husband is the best thing that has ever happened to her. I feel like she is being hypocritical having left my biological father and marrying another. I really love my mom and want her to be in my life, but with her attitude it always ends up in a huge fight. I'm also fearful of my mom trying to break us apart. either through emotional strife, or victimizing and attacking her. If that were to happen I don't see myself being able to accept my mom as loving anymore. I realize that she just wants the best for me but I don't want her ideal life for me. My girlfriend is very loving and accepting of even my inconsistencies and quirks. Please Help!

2007-06-06 10:29:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So the gist of my problem, is that my fiance never asked my father if he could marry me (he tried but my dad yelled at him). My mother told me that I should call off the wedding until he does, because if he doesn't respect my parents now, he won't respect me later.

Is this true?

The two of us and my parents have had a really rocky relationship for the past three or four years. During which my fiance had put up with more than his share of being yelled at and called various names (my parents even tried to get him fired once).

I love him, but is my judgment clouded by my excitement over the wedding??

HELP!

2007-06-06 10:23:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I have been married to this man for almost 3 yrs and we have been together for a lil over 4...he was the most laid back sweet considerate man i have ever met...now days he is being very controlling he dosent want me hangin out with the one girlfriend i have and when i do he insists on a curfew and how many times a week i can go out...he even made me delete my myspace because i had friends that were guys(whom i never talked to) that he didnt know...he is a cop and when i asked if he was cheating because naturally i got worried due to the drasyic attitude change he said yeah ok when do i have time and i actually dont think he does...our sex life is great also...do you think its the job??? what should i do i love him but i do not wanna be treated this way we also have 2 kids...

2007-06-06 09:32:22 · 5 answers · asked by 4everheartbroken 1

how far is harmless?

2007-06-06 09:03:59 · 38 answers · asked by stella s 2

things latley have been going down hill, i work a 9-5 job and have the weekends off im 19 and it seems like im already 30 my friends just go to school so they get all this freedom to stay up late and have fun while i say thats to late i work in the moring...by friday im so tired to even do anything, my b/f is fed up with me becuase i keep nagging about him getting a job but he hasent yet he just said i'll call you when i find one i cant take this anymore all i wanted was him to get responsible, and now im stuck at my stupied desk while my friends are at the beach to top it off i take night classes when i can and i still live at home becuase my last roomate bailed and i cant find a new one, i feel like crap and i just want to have fun and latly im to busy thinking i cant do that he shouldnt do this bla bla bla..i dont know what to do...how do i turn things around

2007-06-06 08:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by lovely 3

2007-06-06 08:39:23 · 6 answers · asked by lisalinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 1

im 19 and i have a cousin whose 14 and we have been really good friends all our life...since we met...weve been so close....

she holds my hands and hugs me...sits close to me...eats with me we go out together...and everything we do it together...and she even started to sit on my lap when she was around 4 or 5 years old....and i already had started thinking she was cute when she was around 9 or 10 and a few yrs later i fell in love with her....and shes so close to me still...even now she hugs kisses sits on my lap....and eats goes out with me says im cute...and stuff...and she says that im cute....and shes so attached to me...and she said she doesnt want any guy in her life ever but me...and she doesnt have a boy friend...she thinks of me as sort of her boy friend....and we are both living in pakistan....and we both are muslims....and my parents wont accept her because she has a darker skin colour than me...and i truely love her...and i think she loves me...i really want to marry her

2007-06-06 07:10:58 · 7 answers · asked by mr nobody 1

2007-06-06 05:32:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he finishes in me every time. i dont really mind so i never say anything. is it really bad that he does that and what are the chances i can get pregnant? should i stop even though it doesnt bother me?

2007-06-06 05:24:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, someone lies to you betrays you, you forgive them. But, just because you've forgiven, does that mean that the person steps back into your life? Or does the person have to earn the place back?

2007-06-06 05:13:15 · 33 answers · asked by why70 1