i hate my life?

Question

things latley have been going down hill, i work a 9-5 job and have the weekends off im 19 and it seems like im already 30 my friends just go to school so they get all this freedom to stay up late and have fun while i say thats to late i work in the moring...by friday im so tired to even do anything, my b/f is fed up with me becuase i keep nagging about him getting a job but he hasent yet he just said i'll call you when i find one i cant take this anymore all i wanted was him to get responsible, and now im stuck at my stupied desk while my friends are at the beach to top it off i take night classes when i can and i still live at home becuase my last roomate bailed and i cant find a new one, i feel like crap and i just want to have fun and latly im to busy thinking i cant do that he shouldnt do this bla bla bla..i dont know what to do...how do i turn things around

Answer 1

First of all, be glad that you have a job! You are learning responsibility, when your friends finally have a job, they will not have a clue on how to work, when you, my dear, will have already been there and done that! You are gaining life experience!

I think it is normal for you to get frusturated, but honey, look at it this way, I think your friends might be jealous at you because you are making all this money and when you want something, you do not have to ask your parents for it, you already have it! And when you do have time to yourself, you can enjoy it by yourself and with your friends.

I applaud you for working so hard and making a wonderful life for yourself, you will get a day off, on the weekends when you are tired, just do something for yourself, and if your friends do not understand that, to bad!!!! They do not work like you do, they mooch off of their parents and get a so called amount of money to spend to have fun, when you have the freedom to be yourself and handle all of your money situations.

As far as your boyfriend, do not worry about him, it seems like he is lazy and does not like to be responsible, maby one day you will meet someone else who shares the same morals and values like you do.

Your friends will understand, they are your friends forever, your boyfriend, eh...............there are better!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I'm sorry things are going so bad for you right now. Is it possible for you to go to college full time? If your parents don't make a lot of money you are eligible for grants. If they make too much $$ then take out student loans. I think you are just too young to be an adult. Not everyone matures at the same rate and 19 is awfully young no matter how mature a person may be. Full time college students have a lot of fun! They take classes, party at the beach, grow up in a couple of years and then get a good job that they enjoy and a boyfriend that has a good job to boot. Did I forget to mention study? Oh well. I think that you are just a bit overwhelmed right now and are afraid that this is all there is to the rest of your life, and it isn't. Many things are in store for you that you just can't possibly see right now. I bet you will meet Mr. Right, fall madly in love, get married, buy your dream house, have children, find new friends, etc. There will also be some bad times in store for you just to keep you on your toes, but you take those days one at a time. Try to cheer up for now. Call a friend or go out with your mom or sister for a movie and girl talk. Then tonight think over all your possibilities. Good luck!

Answer 3

WELL FIRST OF ALL TO ME YOU SOUND LIKE A VERY
RESPONSABLE PERSON. AND THERE IS NOTHING
WRONG WITH THAT. SO DON'T BE TO HARD ON UR
SELF,,,,, BUT AT THE SAME TIME I UNDERSTAND HOW
YOU WOULD RATHER BE AT THE BEACH HAVING A
GOOD TIME WITH NO WORRIES..... BUT YOU NEED TO
LOOK AT THE DIFFERENCES : YOU HAVE A GOOD
JOB
AND YOUR BUDDIES HAVE
NO JOB. WHAT WOULD YOU RATHER
HAVE? AND AS FOR YOUR B/F WELL IF HE IS NOT
VERY SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR LIFESTYLE AND YOU
BEING AN ADULT WELL THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD
MOVE ON AND LET HIM MOOCH OFF SOMEONE
ELSE... I DO NOT MEAN TO BE SO RUDE ; JUST HONEST..... YA NEED TO THINK OF WHAT YOU
WOULD RATHER HAVE???? DON'T GET TO DOWN
AND OUT .... YOU HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE
TO LIVE AND ENJOT DAYS AT THE BEACH AND SO
FORTH,.,,,,,,

Answer 4

YOUR LIFE SOUNDS LIKE MINE NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY OR HOW MUCH I DO FOR PEOPLE ITS LIKE ITS NRVER ENOUGH OR GOOD ENOUGH I DONT NO WHAT TO DO MY BOY FRIENDS NEVER SATISFIED ITS LIKE IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH