My sister recently moved out with her abusive boyfriend. She doesnt talk to us anymore and I have no idea where she is. I love her so much. But I just cant seem to get over it. Any ideas?!?
2007-06-06 11:00:09 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try to get a hold of her in sum way...and then if u cant try talkin to ur family bout it and if u just dont want to do either than just look at pics of her to fill the empty space in ur heart for her...
luv u!!!
and yes i no her
if u have any other problems then tell me
i can help!!!!
2007-06-06 16:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by nothingg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep her in your prayers. Don't give up looking for her. When you find her, don't try to turn her against him. Just let her know that you love her and that you are there for her if she ever needs you. Maybe give her a secret code word or phrase that she can use if she ever needs help. Ex. "I'm out of garlic salt." "Did Jill have her baby yet?" Anything that will be a clue to you but will sound like normal conversation to him.
2007-06-06 18:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Laura H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try to look her name up on the internet and see if she has a phone number. Then you can call her try to invite her to a family dinner or something. Try to talk to her alot and give her alot of attention. But not the whole family because then she will leave thinking that she was set up. If you still have more concerns, just ask them.
2007-06-06 18:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by <3 to live life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go talk to higher authority if her boyfriend is abusive and if she doesn't want any help from them, I'm not sure what else you can really do. It's her life and if she chose this, then it's her decision.
2007-06-06 18:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by Paisley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all i have to say is forget about it then if she don't want nothing to do with u but when her abusive husband beat her so bad that she needs u then i say give her ur support but always remember that she is still your family and she just made a bad mistake everyone make mistakes in life. just try to understand what she wants. and if that don't work then just try not to think about her because she obviously don't want to talk to you
2007-06-06 18:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have any sympathy for people who cannot help themselves .. obviously being her sis u wud care for her and so wud i if she ws mine ... all u can do is just pray for her n hope shes well whereever she is ... but if u accept her back with open arms she will walk all over u guys and make the same mistake again .. so for her sake u shud show her some tough love as and when she comes back ...
2007-06-06 18:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to pray if you are religous.......but you should get your sister's phone number and call her and tell her whats happening to her. She is like under a spell. It is ok to worry about her. Just ask God to help. He watches over everyone.
Good Luck! :)
2007-06-06 18:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for your sister. You could try to contact friends she knew or her job. I will pray you will get your chance to tell her how much you love her and how much she means to you. Also for you to become the best of friends. Hugs to you.
2007-06-06 18:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pray. Good idea. Talk to yourself.
If you're that worried, take action. Hire a private investigator to find her.
2007-06-06 18:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get ahold of her some how, she might be in danger.
go to where shes living and talk to her,
if she has bruises on her face tell her about a shelter where she could live.
but you should hurry before its to late.
2007-06-06 18:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by duckie52290 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋