I'm 21 years old, about to graduate from a university with a 3.0, I'm getting married next year, and my life is changing. Of course, I'm not running it the way mom thinks I should. I love her, but she's VERY nosey! She butts into my fiance's business (she even called him at work once to tell him to stop bothering me so much so I can study!), she looks up his legal records online and found things like speeding tickets he'd gotten. She asks me every day, 'What's the news on his divorce???" and I just don't need to talk to her about it; it's not her business. But she gets extremely offended if I say anything to that effect. I need to be careful and tactful with her, because she is volatile. But she is driving us both crazy. She's done everything she could for me my whole life, so I've always withstood how overbearing she is; I thought I owed it to her. But I just can't take anymore. Is there a way to get her to understand that I'm my own person now?
2007-06-03
19:05:07
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Lee
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