how to get even with someone who said that loved you but then you found out it was a dare?

Question

at school a guy told me he really liked me and stuff and we went once all was good but then one day i heard him talking to his friends and i stood behind him and he told them the whole story about how it was a dare and that he was going to win and that he was looking forward to telling me that he thinks i am ugly and fat and stuff he does know that i know and he has made me the lauging stock of the school and there is nothing i can do about how do i get even and make him feel as bad as i do without him knowing it is me

Answer 1

Let's get this out in the open. If you read my profile, you will understand that I am on the girl's side 99% of the time (and no, I am anything but gay...not that there's anything wrong with that). To be honest...I would rather be mistaken for gay, than be a part of this sick game. I am going to be blunt...you were part of a game that guys like to play called, a "Pig Pool" or a "Dogfight". One or many throw in cash to see who can date the least attractive girl in school. It leaves a wake of devastation in it's wake and I am SO sorry that you were involved. People can blather all they want about karma...and in most cases...I would agree. But not here...I've seen annonymous letters to parents work well...even letters to employers...but the best thing you can do is get the word out. I was once so angry about this (as it targeted a couple of my friends), that I got some very pretty, very popular, and very taken girls involved. You may not have the contacts, but that's what friends are for...anyway...these girls asked several of the guys involved (months later of course) to homecoming. They, of course, had dates or boyfriends, who were also willing to play along. When the night came, they left their house an hour before the "men" showed up. 5 guys, standing in a tux, bought the tickets, corsage in hand...standing at the door of their dreamgirl, only to find that they were already gone. Not one of them had the balls to even show their face at the dance, except one, who showed up with his cousin, which added a whole new layer of understanding for him. None of the guys had much luck dating the rest of high school...
Almost all girls have been hurt in high school...or earlier...they understand what it is like to not be the most popular or prettiest or talented. You may just become a school legend in the process...at the very least...you need to tell EVERY girl you know, to tell every girl they know about these guys...trust me, you will not be the laughingstock for long. Wish you luck...Kes

Answer 2

Dont get even cause then drama never ends. You could get a better looking more popular bf thats really into you...umm no. How about just telling him face to face or calling him one night and telling him how he made you feel. Dont yell or be mean just be honest. That'll hit him in the heart if he's a real "man" and if not someday it will come back to haunt him.

Answer 3

You can't get even........same thing happened me years ago in school. I did nothing but just ignored hm and pretended it never happened. Walk away and it'll all be over pretty quickly. Try to get even and the drama will go on for months........in your head. You won't get even but you can give yourself the freedom from it all by just walking away. And try to remember......how messed up and unhappy must he be that he gets his kicks from doing stuff like that to a girl. Pretty messed up I think! And don't worry about getting even.......karma will do that for you......ok.

Answer 4

There is no way to get him back. Life is a b***h sometimes. And you're gonna run into a lot of terrible people. Just take this as a learning experience. Next time you know not to believe everything you hear.

Answer 5

do you believe in karma?i do.i don;t think you have to think so hard of getting even with him.because one day,he'll experience worse.don't talk to him as a friend anymore,continue beliving that you're the most beautiful creature on this earth and he's the stupid one coz he made fun of you in front of your peers.and i'm sure,one day he'll regret.

Answer 6

Believe in Karma...what goes around always comes around..his immature, heartless behaviour will get back at him...You stay strong...Behaving like him proves nothing...good luck to you..

Answer 7

Be the better person and don't lower yourself to his level. Karma will get him in the end

Answer 8

well u have freinds right ? get together with your friends and tell them the story them go bother him for the rest of his life (it will be a short life trust me)