I'm engaged but my fiance has a friend that keeps sending him dating sites to go on and meet her he does not see anything wrong with that what do I do?
2007-06-03 12:54:26 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl either you dump this scum and try to find you a real man that will treat you with respect and that will love you to the fullest or you just play it with fire and what I mean is do the same and get on-line and treat him how he deserve.
but you know what girl that will probably hurt you more.
The best thing that you do is leave him i know that it will be hard for you put you need to be strong.
You do not deserve a man like that in your life whats so ever
so pick yourself up again and move on and be happy.
When you might think that life is being bad to you don't take that as a bad things and put it into positive. God will give you the straight to deal with you hard tasks in life.
So move on good luck
2007-06-03 13:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious issue that you should address NOW. Once you get married, your problems increase by 100%. Marriage is hard and you have to work at it. Make it clear to him that that does not fly with you and he should be head over heels in love with you especially if you're engaged! He should be running from this girl, not testing the waters.
2007-06-03 12:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by nikongirl5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is way more simple than it sounds. You either trust him, or you don't. If you do, it doesn't matter what he does with his friends, and if you don't, it still doean't matter, but you shouldn't marry someone you don't trust. If the next words out of your mouth are"I trust him, but..." thats a nice way of saying either "I don't trust him", or " he's a good guy but I think he should have to live his life around my insecurities" either way it's not a good answer.
2007-06-03 13:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by zeroambition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there is things wrong with that. If he was completely happy with you then he wouldnt need those sites for ANY reason
2007-06-03 12:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him since that's what level you are on, you might consider checking out a few dating sites too! .... might get him thinking..
Best wishes! =)
2007-06-03 13:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by ™Tootsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't trust him at all tell him you don't like him doing dat and if he continues do everything you could do like spy on him and follow him and if you see to many clues dat points to him cheating dump his *** as my mama says when one door close another one opens and what don't kill you make you stronger take my stupid advice it may be use full later on in life
2007-06-03 13:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your fiance..
tell him how it makes you feel.
and if he wont change now..Imagine when u guys are married and living together:p
that sucks!!
2007-06-03 12:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by I ROCK UR WORLD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should see something wrong with that. Tell him to stop it immediately, or he can marry someone else.
2007-06-03 12:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't think it isn't wrong, and tell him how you feel. If he knew how you realy feel maybe he will stop looking at them . He loves you and will understand!
2007-06-03 12:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is unacceptable behavior--------you need to bust up this dating ring and ask him to terminate ties with that friend who is trying to get him to hurt you in this way.
2007-06-03 12:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋